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TTC cycle 8

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baby197 · 08/08/2023 13:11

I'm struggling today.
I really am losing hope - I know 8 months is not long for most people but I honestly feel like I have been on this journey for a life time.

Can anyone give me some hope and tell me - success stories conceiving after 8 months?

I haven't told any of my family or friends we are trying as I don't want the pressure. I honestly just feel really alone.

I'm approx 6 days post ovulation and I'm getting my usual PMS aches. I've already counted myself out.

Literally just having a bit of a moan. Thanks for listening 😊

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ThesisthenaViva · 08/08/2023 13:30

@baby197 I'm afraid I don't have a success story but I understand what you're going through. The TTC journey is like trekking through 💩 💩. It's ok to feel like this and ok sit with your feelings. Wishing you all the best 💖

Omgreally11 · 08/08/2023 13:39

Hi! I'm cycle 6 ttc for baby no.1 and I really know how you feel. It's so upsetting isn't it. Like every month my heart sinks when I see that single line. And I know so many people try for so much longer and definitely not trying to appropriate that pain, but I feel so sad that its not happening for me! Hand hold op! I'm 3dpo today and still crampy. You never know. This could be our month. The tww is agonising!

ttcthoughts · 08/08/2023 13:42

Hi @baby197 I am currently TTC Number 2 and im on month 9 of trying with two MC in between and honestly I really know how you are feeling! its soo rubbish every month seeing only 1 line :(

I hope you are ok

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baby197 · 08/08/2023 19:41

Omgreally11 · 08/08/2023 13:39

Hi! I'm cycle 6 ttc for baby no.1 and I really know how you feel. It's so upsetting isn't it. Like every month my heart sinks when I see that single line. And I know so many people try for so much longer and definitely not trying to appropriate that pain, but I feel so sad that its not happening for me! Hand hold op! I'm 3dpo today and still crampy. You never know. This could be our month. The tww is agonising!

Let's hope our cramps are a good sign 🥰 sending you baby dust and hopefully it happens for us soon x

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baby197 · 08/08/2023 19:41

ttcthoughts · 08/08/2023 13:42

Hi @baby197 I am currently TTC Number 2 and im on month 9 of trying with two MC in between and honestly I really know how you are feeling! its soo rubbish every month seeing only 1 line :(

I hope you are ok

It's just sooo hard 😢 I'm struggling to go about life as normal!
Sending you baby dust x x

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baby197 · 08/08/2023 19:42

ThesisthenaViva · 08/08/2023 13:30

@baby197 I'm afraid I don't have a success story but I understand what you're going through. The TTC journey is like trekking through 💩 💩. It's ok to feel like this and ok sit with your feelings. Wishing you all the best 💖

Couldn't have put it better myself!
Thank you x x

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Bex4567 · 14/11/2023 22:56

Any update ladies anyone gwt ya bfp

ttcthoughts · 15/11/2023 05:05

@Bex4567 yes we are currently15 weeks pregnant with baby. Number 2
how are you

Bex4567 · 15/11/2023 07:23

Congrats to you..so took you about 10,11 months then..im currently on month 4 ....its so stressful I no its only early days ect we've been trying but every month is so disheartening and I'm 37 so worried I'm getting old lol...I have a 16 and 12 year old so I've had kids before just worried it won't happen

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baby197 · 15/11/2023 08:28

Bex4567 · 14/11/2023 22:56

Any update ladies anyone gwt ya bfp

I got pregnant on month 10 but unfortunately ended in miscarriage at 8 weeks ☹️
Back to TTC again when my cycle comes back.
How are you? X

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Bex4567 · 15/11/2023 14:07

So sorry to hear this sending baby dust

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