I think your still a little too early, I know everyone is different but I had a slight positive last month at 12dpo although that ended up being a chemical pregnancy.
Currently 11dpo today and still a BFN although I have the same symptoms as last month when I did conceive
it’s so frustrating I know! and it’s hard to say don’t test until you miss your period but how can you not? This month I’ve tested everyday since 8dpo 😂
good luck tho I’m sure it’ll happen for us both one day