So DH and I dtd 21st and in the moment didn't use protection (we realise it was silly but let's be honest, it happens)
We have 1 child already who's 1 and I wouldn't mind having another but DH isn't keen yet and he's right it isn't the right time for us at present due to personal changes in our lives. So I took the MAP the next afternoon. Yet when I looked at my tracking app (as were not actively trying I haven't been paying attention to ovulation and only recently turned this tracker on) it said I was expected to ovulate the day we dtd. Come to think of it I was having more CM a few days before and felt twinges lower left for 2 days prior. So naturally I was worried the MAP wouldn't work as I'd have already ovulated.
I put this to the back of my mind. Usually when I get my period I have crippling cramps, usually alternating ibuprofen and paracetamol for 2 days straight atleast and have spotting for a few days before it turns up. 6th June arrives and there's some brown mucus when I wipe. This turns to red but is very light nothing like my usual. I usually change pads every couple of hours but it wasn't needed this time. It lasted about a day and a half then hardly anything for the next day and a half.
Its hard to know if this is just a side effect of the MAP as some things say lighter periods are normal for it and some say they aren't.
I've done 3 tests since the bleeding started last one was a digital on Saturday evening (all in the evening may I add) and all negative so I thought I was in the clear. But now I'm overthinking maybe I did the tests too late in the day or too early but the 6th would be about 2 weeks since taking the map, about day 14 so surely this would be too late for implantation and tests would have shown by Saturday If I was intact pregnant.
Any thoughts or advice?