soooo feddd uppp!!!!!!!

[bambam30]

title says it all realyy have bin ttc for 3 months and nothing and was sure i was pg this month and am not [in a way it's kind of good cos dh was made redundant 2 weeks ago] but now cos of dh work or lack of it we have to wait before we try again i just had to whinge really cos i feel so fed up and just want some sympathy and a bfp!!!!!

i know how you feel. I am on month 2 and before anyone has a go at me i know there are many of you having worse times and years of pain etc so im not saying your insignificant or anything.... just that i really feel for you. I was convinved i was pg and came on 2 days ago...

mad4mybaby thanx for replying i also know that 3 months is not long but i have in thepast endured endless cycles of ivf etc but after i had lo who was a 'natural' conception and a complete surprise we did try again when 6 months old and did it 1st month but then went on to miscarry and now 2 years on i just thought it would be easy ifyswim i suppose i feel so down cos of other stuff that happening too -but you know when you just feel barren

i can understand. Have you looked into all the things that can help you conceive....?

Aww bambam30, I know how you feel with the ttc. Not the IVF though. DH and I were trying for 9mths and I was starting to get really stressed. Everyone tells you to relax, which just makes it worse!! I bought the Clearblue fertility sticks - the one that has 7 sticks in a pack, but they didn't show that I was ovulating at all. I gve up on them and went for the expensive monitor - it cost £100! and that didn't even include the sticks which you had to buy on top. We conceived the first month we used it!! guess we were just trying at the wrong time! xx

Hi
bambam30

I know exactly how you feel.

I have been through a bad time with it all
I started ttc August 07.
As soon as I started ttc my AF went awol for 3 months.
This sent me loopy I carried out test after test only for them all to be a BFN.
The reason for my absent AF turned out to be a newly diagnosed underactive thyroid.
I am now on thyroxine and my AF has returned and since its return I have had a 33 day cycle and a 23 day cycle.

I am now on CD 21 and have vague crampy feelings like AF is on the way but I am secretly hoping that I may just be pregant.
I don,t think I can take a BFN.

I don't even know how long I can say I have been trying.
Do I count from August or from when cycle returned.
I just want alll the uncertainty to end and be pregnant.

worzil will keep my fingers crossed for you ... just wanted to clarify after miscarriage did'nt start ttc have only started ttc 3 months ago.... just did'nt want any misunderstanding ..my problem i have now s i just worry that what if it's gonna be like before lo was born i just thought because we didn't have a prob with conceiving the one we lost we would'nt now ifyswim or am i rambling ..sorry