Rant sorry

[Farmgirl12]

im so sorry guys but I just needed to have a little rant away.

hopefully without receiving any negative or awful comments.

im soo sick seeing posts about unwanted pregnancies unplanned pregnancies.

like how do these women get pregnant so easy and not even want them? While others want these babies want to be pregnant and suffer for months and for years!

it’s absolutely devastating

im not being mean or awful towards these women, because I’d hate for anyone to continue with a pregnancy when they weren’t happy or ready. I just hate that it so easy for them to get pregnant 😕😕 and not even want these babies

I don’t know what I expect from this message, I just needed to get this off my chest

I feel the same op. It's not fair that some women have a really hard time and others who don't want to be pregnant end up being so easily!

It's nothing to with the women themselves, everyone has their own shit going on, but the fact that nature has allowed a split condom, nowhere near ovulation, result in a pregnancy when others try so hard.

It's wank if you ask me lol xx

I look back to when I was young, thinking 2 condoms and being on the pill should make it safe enough to have sex without getting pregnant 😂
Nowadays I’m timing sex and pissing on strips and lying upside fucking down after sex and taking vitamins and drinking less coffee and realising that they were lying to us the whole time 😂

Some women can be both those people. That's me!! I accidently got pregnant with my son whose nearly 5. Not planned at all. Always wanted to be a mum so was overjoyed regardless but wasn't financially ready, lived at home still etc etc. Now I so desperately want my second before he gets much older... I had a miscarriage at 14 and failing to concieve again.

So I guess even if those people are getting pregnant so easily... It may not always be their story. If that makes you feel a little less annoyed at their luckiness lol not judging you at all for feeling this way either btw, I get it. My sister couldn't concieve naturally and I'm sure it grated on her that I got pregnant by accident!!

At 14 weeks btw. That sounds like I had a miscarriage when I was 14😅

@Ttcmumma i don’t feel annoyed at anyone personally or the women who get pregnant so easy, it’s just the whole situation. I just don’t understand why the ones who want these babies so bad have to struggle so much. It’s life I suppose and we have to go with the way the cards are dealt.

im sorry to hear about your miscarriage, I miscarried last year too. When we get our babies it will make them more special ❤️

@ttcat37 nothing about these situations are sexy or glamorous are they. My husband doesn’t even say anything to me now when I have my legs up on the headboard 😂

I hope you ladies get your bfp soon! And can stop with all the crazy things we do x