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T.W BFP after loss

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Stickly · 02/03/2023 08:03

I haven't told anyone else yet and feel like shouting from the roof tops! This is also to give all you women struggling some hope!

I have struggled with infertility since I began trying to concieve. I eventually concieved DS, went on to have 3 miscarriages- 1 of which was rather complicated, and then had DS2 who sadly passed away from SIDS a year ago this month.

What surprise do I get this month but a BFP. At risk of sounding a bit loopy I think its fate I become pregnant exactly a year on from the birth and death of our son.

I am so grateful for this chance and I'm going to give this bean every chance I can!

You never know when that BFP will come, baby dust to everyone.

T.W BFP after loss
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Boymum111 · 02/03/2023 08:23

This is amazing, massive congrats. You must be feeling on top of the world and deserve to. I’m feeling down today after a BFN (too early to test anyway so just torturing myself) and this makes me happy. Massive congrats, so wonderful to hear of hope especially after what you’ve been through 🥰

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Stickly · 02/03/2023 08:34

I honestly don't know if it made any difference but this cycle we DTD every 2nd day and used fertilily. Who even knows.Our BFP comes when it comes, it'll happen though!

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RosyappleA · 02/03/2023 20:46

Made me tear up reading this. So happy for you, patiently waiting for our rainbow baby here. Tried everything but the fertilily mind you, perhaps I need to give it a go. Good luck with the pregnancy and birth, I hope everything goes smoothly.

Boymum111 · 02/03/2023 21:59

What is fertility? Thanks in advance!

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Stickly · 02/03/2023 22:03

@Boymum111 Its like a disc with a stem that you insert after sex and theoretically it's meant to help keep the semen in the cervix. Sounds quite daft but like you, @RosyappleA I had tried everything else. Could be coincidence but it has good reviews stating similar experience to me!

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Boymum111 · 02/03/2023 22:08

Oh wow thanks @Stickly I have never heard of this. I will def look in to. Thanks a million 🙌

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Stickly · 02/03/2023 22:19

You're welcome! Fingers crossed for you both!

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Boymum111 · 02/03/2023 23:33

@Stickly thank you. the biggest congrats again. I’m so sorry for what you have been through. Sending you positivity and happiness for your wonderful news. Thank you for sharing ❤️

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