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9DPO BFN but symptoms - help!

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BudgetBuster · 09/02/2023 21:59

Hi all
I think I am 9DPO, AF due Tues/Wed. Negative test but have a few symptoms. Also convincing myself they are in my head 😂
Back ache all day today (never ever get this), cramps on & off but pretty much constant tonight. Dizzy spells yesterday & today and bouts of nausea today.

The wait is a nightmare!

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Lexie365 · 09/02/2023 22:19

I'm in the same boat:( 9dpo today and symptoms but negative test. It's still early though so still holding out hope🤞my frer tests arrived today and I took 1 with a 10 minute hold🤣🤣of course it was negative lol. gonna take 1 Tomorrow morning🤞

Twoinapod · 09/02/2023 22:19

All those are also symptoms of pre AF even if you don’t usually get them. Implantation can take 6 to 12 days and it takes a few days for hcg to show. It would be very unlikely to see much at 9dpo. Give it a few more days and try again

Lexie365 · 09/02/2023 22:22

I agree @Twoinapod very similar symptoms to pre af symptoms except I don't usually get tired or headaches which i do with pregnancy (ttc #3) but I'm also aware from ttc with my other 2 that sometimes my body likes to play tricks on me🤦‍♀️

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BudgetBuster · 09/02/2023 22:42

Oh yes, I hadn't planned to test until next week, but we all know that's easier said than done 😂 I get VERY ill during AF, but it comes on very quick. I get cramps and within 30 minutes I am vomiting, can't stand etc. This is a very different feeling. I've only felt like this the week before I found out I was pregnant last September (mc @ 6 weeks). I'm probably just overthrowing though- TWW can drive people crazy

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BudgetBuster · 09/02/2023 22:46

Lexie365 · 09/02/2023 22:19

I'm in the same boat:( 9dpo today and symptoms but negative test. It's still early though so still holding out hope🤞my frer tests arrived today and I took 1 with a 10 minute hold🤣🤣of course it was negative lol. gonna take 1 Tomorrow morning🤞

Yeah I know its too early to test but the TWW drove me insane 😂
I've had 3 pregnancies (no babies) and the 1st I had no idea I was pregnant, 2nd I thought I had a bug and only realised it was pregnancy at 7 weeks, the most recent I felt exactly as I do now but I was 17dpo before it showed on a FRER.

These are not my AF symptoms. I get violently ill during AF.

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Lexie365 · 09/02/2023 23:42

Really hope you get your bfp🙏🤞

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BudgetBuster · 10/02/2023 08:34

@Lexie365 You too!
My step kid was sick today so with all my faffing about I've actually missed my FMU to test today. Probably a good thing anyway!

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Lexie365 · 10/02/2023 20:34

Bfn for me today :( wbu have you tested? X

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BudgetBuster · 11/02/2023 11:15

@Lexie365 I did test BFN yesterday but it wasn't FMU. I also didn't show as positive last year until AF was 2 days late so I've decided I'm not testing until mid next week when AF is due.
It'll just consume me all weekend otherwise.

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WitchyWoo8 · 11/02/2023 12:12

Oh my gosh! I'm so glad I found this thread. Literally in the same boat (9dpo today) been TTC for a year and this week feels different. Lightening zap down below on 6dpo, dull cramping in pubic area, bbs are burning/tingling and aching, crazy dreams, lower back pain and feeling dizzy.

For some reason I can't bring myself to tell my partner though.

Baby dust to you all 💜

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BudgetBuster · 12/02/2023 15:57

Hey ladies. Just checking in.
FRER still a glaring white BFN today. Dizzy / nausea spells still coming and going. AF due Tues / Wednesday so getting very impatient now 😂

How are you doing?

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Lexie365 · 12/02/2023 16:31

Bfn for me too:( think I have to accept it's not my month x

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BudgetBuster · 12/02/2023 18:13

@Lexie365 Yep, I'm counting myself out this month. I don't think I'm going to track ovulation next month either - give my little mind a rest I think.

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Lexie365 · 14/02/2023 00:27

I'm out, af came:( on to the next cycle 🤞

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BudgetBuster · 14/02/2023 09:12

@Lexie365 I tested today and BFN. AF due today too. Happy bloody valentines 😂😂

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Bex4567 · 28/11/2023 13:55

Ho ladies dod u get ya bfp after lady's

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