Hi all
Who originally told you that PCOS could be an issue, was that a GP at your practice?.
TBH you should be referred to a gynae at a subfertility unit now as a matter of course.
I would insist that you are referred. Would chase them up re std results. Something is preventing conception currently and it is in your interests for you both to be seen by a specialist subfertility unit. I actually feel that what has been done to date has just delayed you ultimately being referred. After two years you ought to be seen anyway by a specialist.
I would tell your DH that being tested is not actually casting any aspertions on his masculinity, potency and or virility (some men do erroneously make this connection so this may actually be why he is reluctant to be tested). He certainly needs to talk about why he is so reluctant to be tested.
What are your periods like (presumably they are very irregular and have light bleeding) have you noticed anything else at all?. PCOS is a very individualistic disorder and does affect each woman with it very differently.
Its often diagnosed through blood tests and internal ultrasound scans. Polycystic ovaries can appear larger than normal (walnut) size and have multiple cystic follicles on them. These can disappear - only to be replaced by further cystic follicles. Some of these follicles are dormant, others release hormones, some many contain an egg.
Atkins is no good at all for PCOSers; its not sustainable for a start. You're better off trying a low GI or GL (glycaemic load) eating plan as these are better for PCOSers.
Collette Harris has written several books on PCOS and she has also written some cookbooks with PCOS in mind (she was diagnosed with PCOS several years ago now). Would think Amazon would have these along with low GI/GL books too.
www.verity-pcos.org.uk is a website you may want to look at as well.
HTH and good luck. You will need to be persistant in order to get answers.