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I don't understand, feel so defeated

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Katyrosebug · 11/12/2022 20:01

Hi everyone,

Honestly want to give up now. I'm 36, nearly 37 I think it's too late for me.
Bit of background so I don't drip feed.
Got pregnant at 17, It was the 1 and only time without a condom because I wanted to see what it was like and I took the morning after pill! I had an abortion because there was no way I was ready for that!
I was on the pill for about 8-10years after that, I decided to come off in 2013,i came off new years day and it wasn't until May/June that I finally came on and that was because of a trekking holiday and I was at altutuide.
Was with my ex for around 5 years and didn't use anything, whilst with him I had 1 year that I spotted pretty much everyday and then had heavy periods, then I had 1 year where I basically had no periods, in this time he got tested himself and was told he was infertile. I was very stressed, in a toxic relationship and I'd also put in a lot of weight. I was with him 5 years and nothing every happened, I put that down to him being infertile and possibly me.
Anyway, back to now, last year I had an internal scan, so age 35, they showed me my folicols on the screen, said I head a healthy womb and good ovarys, the issue is that I'm just not ovulating. I've got clomid, it's the 3rd month of taking it. I'm supposed to be in my fertile period but so far nothing 😭 last month we were on holiday so I didn't test while we were away, I did have a very light period this month and it was a da shorter so not sure if that has anything to do with It but I'm just so down. I don't understand, I've been pregnant before, so why isn't it happening now???

Sorry that was long

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