10dpo going crazy, am I out??

[ItsMeHiImTheProblemItsM3]

Hey everyone, hoping for some words of wisdom! I'm 10dpo and we've been in the process of baby making for almost 2 years, with a mc at 9 weeks this summer. I often have a couple of days of spotting before my period, and luteal phase ranges from 10-12 days. Last month was 13 days, which is unusual but good I guess!

This month, I had one bit of pale pink cm when wiping 8dpo. Since then nothing more, but when I investigate inside (sorry TMI) I still have pinky red cm up near my cervix. Took a FRER this morning, blindingly clear negative.

Any chance I could be implanting... last time I was pregnant I had about 5 days of pinky brown cm from 8dpo, when wiping. Anyone had bfn 10dpo then bfp later? I didn't test until 13dpo last time and it was a faint line on a clearblue early.

Thanks to anyone who has read this far, feeling so fed up, my due date would have been next week so a period will be insult to injury!

There's still hope.

I was negative until 12 dpo.

Similar past, I've had two mc's and the due date passed a few weeks ago it was horrible I can't lie but it sounds like you're ready for it anyway ☹️

The second I didn't take notice of an actual date - just the month so hopefully that won't be as bad.

Before these we were ttc for 2 years also.

Fingers crossed and don't rule anything out yet x

Thanks for replying @potogold just feel like I can't take another tww! Are you currently pregnant? Sorry for your losses x

@ItsMeHiImTheProblemItsM3 any good news?
Fingers crossed for you.

I'm currently 4dpo, been here so many times and I really try to just live my life now as the pain and annoyance from mc's and bfn's is crap isn't it!

Any idea why you lost yours? Did you have good support?

I got to 6 weeks then 7 weeks and no idea what went wrong- my trust won't help until 3 mc's which I'm now in the mindset of 'if' I get pregnant there Will hopefully be a healthy baby but if a Mc at least they'll help- hopefully!

Are you trying any particular methods/ vitamins etc?

Hope you're ok.

No good news I’m afraid, AF arrived in full force yesterday. But we move!

It was a mmc, and no one said the words ‘blighted ovum’ but I think that’s what I had, as there wasn’t really any development. It sort of feels worse I think, like there wasn’t even anything there? I’ve tried EVERYTHING and I mean everything. Every supplement, acupuncture, bone broth. I’ve given up caffeine and alcohol. I use opks, I feel my ovulation every month… we dtd every day in fertile week. I don’t think there’s anything more we can do. Luckily I have a phone consultation with consultant this week re: ‘subfertility’. Last time we spoke she wasn’t concerned as I’d ‘been able to conceive’. Which I don’t think means everything is fine!? But her plan seems to be IVF eventually. I’m 38 though :(

Anyway. My fingers are crossed for you! 4dpo is always a time where you have some excitement for the tww! What kind of things have you tried? X

any updates