DH and I have been TTC for the best part of a year. I came off the pill a year ago after 16 years on it (I'm 32). To my surprise, my periods returned immediately, and stayed fairly regular, every 30 days or so, for the next few months. We tracked ovulation using the ClearBlue tests. It was on the late side, so then I was worried about a short luteal phase, but then my cycles started getting a bit longer (longest went to 40 days). I thought I had a couple of very, very faint positive pregnancy tests on a few cycles, including the 40 day one, but in the end, my period always started.
Fast forward to this cycle. I am now on day 63 with no period, and last week I had a clear positive test. The next day, I immediately went back to the very faint tests again. We had our hopes up, given the lack of period, but also considered I might have had a MMC.
In order to confirm, we went for a private early scan today. I was mentally prepared for three outcomes:
- Pregnant! Tests being weird :)
- A missed miscarriage
- Some undiagnosed medical issue, e.g. PCOS.
What I wasn't prepared for is the outcome we got. I was
never pregnant. No sign of anything at all, and certainly no miscarriage. Everything looked normal and healthy (uterus and ovaries), and no ectopic.
Does anyone else have any experience like this? I understood that false positives are very rare, and usually as a result of having been pregnant recently, or on fertility treatment. As I say, I am now on day 63 of this 'cycle', and still no period. The sonographer was baffled. I am trying to get a GP appointment, but they are like hens' teeth at the moment. I just feel like a fraud for going for the scan; and I don't understand what on Earth is going on. I know the pill can mess things up, but I would have expected things to have returned to normal after a year, especially as my periods did come back straight away initially. Please help! :( Sorry this was so long; I didn't want to miss anything out.