Active discussions

Meet the Other Phone. A phone that grows with your child.

Meet the Other Phone.
A phone that grows with your child.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Talk
Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

Original poster

Trying for 13 Months help plz

3 replies

LizzeyBenett · 31/10/2022 09:28

Hi all so long story short I had my IUD out last September and we started TTC for In October and fell pregnant in December . I had a MC at 7 weeks and have been trying since with no joy. My periods have become very short a day two at best . I appear to still be ovulating . My GP is investigating I've had an internal ultrasound womb and ovaries look ok. I'm waiting on AMH blood test. I'm 35 and I'm really trying not to but I'm getting very worried that it's not going to happen. Any advice would be welcome is there things I should be doing to Increase my chances ? I'm using ovulation tests for the days leading up to ovulation .

OP posts:
Scottishgirl85 · 31/10/2022 09:37

Really feel for you, I've been there and in the end had IVF. It is all consuming and difficult for people to understand if they haven't experienced it. Bin all the tests and just dtd every other day throughout cycle whilst investigations are ongoing. Make sure to push things as can take a while if you let things drift along. Has your partner had sperm test? That should be next before anything more invasive is done for you.

I'm now expecting no.3. Always have hope!

Saturnsmoon · 31/10/2022 09:38

Not sure I can offer much in the way of advice of things to do but didn’t want to read & leave.

I’m a few months behind you but a similar age and although I was quite relaxed about the whole tcc to start with I’m struggling not to panic about it never happening.

Its good that you are getting checked out - is your partner doing the same?

there’s a few additional things I’ve seen people on here do like using conceive plus lube and the fertilily or trying something like the smep plan. I haven’t done any of these so can’t really advise but might consider it next month if no luck in November.

sending you positive thoughts for your tests & results.

Original poster
LizzeyBenett · 31/10/2022 09:46

Scottishgirl85 · 31/10/2022 09:37

Really feel for you, I've been there and in the end had IVF. It is all consuming and difficult for people to understand if they haven't experienced it. Bin all the tests and just dtd every other day throughout cycle whilst investigations are ongoing. Make sure to push things as can take a while if you let things drift along. Has your partner had sperm test? That should be next before anything more invasive is done for you.

I'm now expecting no.3. Always have hope!

Thank you for the reply, my other half has t had any tests yet I was so convinced it was me with my periods practically disappearing that I didn't even think of that sounds ridiculous I know . I will get my next blood test and if that's ok it's definitely his turn

OP posts:
New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread