TWW starting 12th October

[anotherscroller]

Anyone want to wait with me? I’m aiming to start testing at 9dpo.
cycle 9, baby 2
baby dust to all 🪄

@anotherscroller sorry to hear that but at least everything is working as it should be. Hopefully it'll be your time very soon 🤞💗

@Hopefulfor4 ooh exciting I think I can see a faint line on the bottom one 😊 how old are your other children? This would also be my 4th and I feel like I must be made actually 🙈

CD28 today and still no AF. Just some pink every time I wiped a couple of days ago which never happens for me normally.

Sorry a bit late to the party, wish I found this thread a few weeks ago! Am about 10dpo. Sadly mc in June at 11 weeks with our first so feel like everything has been a bit out of sorts. Only ttc ahain properly past 2 months. I can't remember what symptoms I had last time as fell pregnant first time and wasn't expecting it so wasn't symptom spotting. Now however...obsessed🙄cramps lower down past few days and headache like I normally get the first day of AF. I think AF due on 30th/31st Oct. So anyway, I am the opposite with testing and am literally too scared to test, so might need some morale support!!

Hi @TulipVictory
My other kids are 12, 10 and 7 so a big gap!!! And yes I'm mad too! Xx

I'm starting to doubt it all, feel so scared of another chemical or early loss. I got an early digital as I just wanted to see the words pregnant come up and it said not pregnant!! I've convinced my self it's not staying. Sorry to be a downer. Xx

@Hopefulfor4 how many dpo are you? Might just be too early x

@TulipVictory I'm 12Dpo roughing as I don't test. But the box says it can do 6 days early xx

@Autumngal we sound very similar! I fell pregnant first month had a mmc in July! I was so obsessed symptom spotting last month but haven’t this month and I’m waiting to test till AF is late xx

6dpo anyone around the same ? Getting tingly boobs 🤨

@Beck208 DPO 5 here! Just feeling mild cramping like I usually get a couple of days before my period, but DPO seems kind of early for implantation...
Breasts/nipples actually don't feel sore

@Olegia I’ve had a few cramps since ovulation, and tugging on and off on the right side, let’s hope the cramps are good things to come 🤞🏻

@ChloeN aww I'm sorry you had to go through that too, worst experience ever❤️ helps me to know someone else who's not conceived straight away the month after because everyone I know keeps going on about how fertile you are after mc, not overly helpful! Last month was first month of properly "trying" and I was crazy with symptom spotting, then when af arrived I was crushed, because only experience I have is falling first time. However, I think I've levelled myself this month haha and same as you am going nowhere near tests until I'm def late if I even get that far! It's definitely normal to take a few or more months, I'm just sad that my happy naive view of pregnancy is now gone. When is AF due for you? X

@Hopefulfor4 stupid digital. Can you bear to wait another couple of days?
welcome everyone else!
Even though I’m bfn my af hasn’t come yet so I’m still happily DJing the thread

@anotherscroller I should wait but I'm tempted to in the morning! I just want to see a darker line! I hope your Af stays away. When are you due on? X

@Autumngal its such a pressure for it to happen straight away isn’t it!! Nothing happened for me in august, probably didn’t even ovulate as was still bleeding at the start of the month, then had a very early chemical last month which didn’t help matters🤦🏻‍♀️ think that’s why I don’t want to test early because it didn’t make a difference to the outcome anyway and it gave me a glimmer of hope! I’m due Friday so only a few days before you, if it doesn’t show by Sunday planning to test then, but honestly I’m expected it to arrive xx

@ChloeN ok that's enough reason for me not to test early, because that sounds awful! Did you have d&c in July? The pressure is unreal, my sister is due the week before I was, joyful. I used flo app last month but I've deleted it already because I don't think it's accurate and also I was obsessed 😅

@anotherscroller hi sorry I meant to say in last msg!

@Autumngal oh that’s just gutting, having to watch someone so close experience what you should be! I find people I don’t knows journeys online hard enough so can’t imagine how you feel!
I had medical management for mine, luckily worked in the end but took quite a few days!
I’ve been trying not to think about how many dpo and symptoms so I haven’t been looking at my apps either 🤣🤣

@ChloeN yeah it's brutal, think I'm in denial! If I was pregnant again by Dec it would probably help but then that will bring with it a whole load of fresh anxiety, such a fun time😄honestly humour is the only thing that gets me through xx

@Hopefulfor4 I’m due on today but I’m experienced enough in this game to not think anything of it if it doesn’t come
today. I know when I ovulated if I did (I got a peak but I don’t temp), so I know a 12dpo bfn is a bfn full stop.
i used to read all those stories about late positives, but it’s so unlikely I’m not interested in them anymore. I think it’s a stage everyone has to go through though. I also used to test every day from DPO8, now I just do the one test. Learnt a lot in 10 months. Unfortunately!

What do you think? I'm due today, like I said yesterday I've been experiencing mild period cramps since Sunday but nothing. I've had watery clear discharge when wiping again this morning that's it.

@Butterflygirl23 I can see a line 🤞🏼

I can see a line @Butterflygirl23 how many dpo are you?

Guys what do you think of this at around 15DPO but could be 13-14DPO I suppose. It seems quite faint if it is anything at this stage doesn't it 🤔 period is now late

@anotherscroller
It is crazy hard isn't it. Other than a 16 week loss 13 years ago this is the first time I've struggled to get pregnant. The chemicals and 5 week loss and bFn through this year for me have also been bloody awful especially as I've set a time limit! I really hope you get your precious little one soon. I'll be praying for you all xx