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Please help calm me down

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Lotus1702 · 03/08/2022 20:29

Hi guys can’t talk to anyone you know how it goes…

got a vv faint positive at 9dpo wasn’t trying but got a darker line at 10dpo have many symptoms etc due on tomorrow and I’m finding myself freaking out and stressing as we had a Chem last year and I don’t want it to happen again this time round…last time I didn’t get a positive until 12dpo with no symptoms.

anyone been in the same boat I just need some positivity I’m scared of AF turning up tomorrow 😥

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Flowersflowers121 · 03/08/2022 21:02

Awwwhhhh, I'm sending ALL the baby dust your way that it's a sticky BFP xxx I had a chem back in March so know the feeling. Fingers and toes crossed for you and just try to relax (I know it's easier said than done!) Xxxxx

Mamitobe2023 · 03/08/2022 21:25

I remember being in your exact position, especially because we had a chemical last year too. I was sometimes even too scared to go to the toilet in case AF arrived! But somehow time just went! I'm now 15+2!

I know it's scary but stay positive! You've got this 👍👍💪❤️

NatGee · 03/08/2022 21:37

@Lotus1702 sending lots of positive vibes your way, you can do this !!!! 💆

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Lotus1702 · 03/08/2022 21:41

Thanks guys I’m finding myself tear up every now and again thanks for the positivity…Have a Dr appointment on Friday so hoping for dr to do a test and I will feel a lot better after if Af doesn’t come.

kicking myself for telling oh as I know he will be disappointed. This is too much on my nerves

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NatGee · 03/08/2022 21:58

@Lotus1702 what test will your DR do?

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Lotus1702 · 03/08/2022 22:00

NatGee · 03/08/2022 21:58

@Lotus1702 what test will your DR do?

I will ask them to do a pregnancy test for confirmation if AF doesn’t arrive as last time it didn’t show up on there’s but showed on home pregnant test.

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NatGee · 03/08/2022 22:03

@Lotus1702 sorry to keep at it, genuinely curious, but arent the tests they give you the same as the ones OTC? unless they take a blood sample, in which case youll have to wait sometime for results ? xxx

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Lotus1702 · 03/08/2022 22:10

NatGee · 03/08/2022 22:03

@Lotus1702 sorry to keep at it, genuinely curious, but arent the tests they give you the same as the ones OTC? unless they take a blood sample, in which case youll have to wait sometime for results ? xxx

That’s what they say but it didn’t show up on their test last time, they did a scan and nothing then they offered me blood test I got same day test and same day results so only waited 3hrs for results….she said at least you now know it’s easy for you to get pregnant as we wasn’t even trying just know we dtd around o day just like this time round.

So if/when I see a positive on their test on Friday I will be a lot more relaxed and happy.

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Lotus1702 · 03/08/2022 22:14

NatGee · 03/08/2022 22:03

@Lotus1702 sorry to keep at it, genuinely curious, but arent the tests they give you the same as the ones OTC? unless they take a blood sample, in which case youll have to wait sometime for results ? xxx

Oh and last time I started spotting day AF was due which made me go in that day…..I live in central London so not sure if that helped with getting results and seeing them same day.

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Lotus1702 · 03/08/2022 22:15

NatGee · 03/08/2022 21:37

@Lotus1702 sending lots of positive vibes your way, you can do this !!!! 💆

Are you currently pregnant or TTC?

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NatGee · 03/08/2022 22:17

Same day results is great, definitely worth going in then ! We're TTC, cycle #2 :D Sending lots of baby dust your way xxxx

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Lotus1702 · 03/08/2022 22:33

NatGee · 03/08/2022 22:17

Same day results is great, definitely worth going in then ! We're TTC, cycle #2 :D Sending lots of baby dust your way xxxx

I already have an appointment booked on Friday for something else so will ask for a simple preg test and will just let to flow from there.

good luck on your journey ✨

will come back and let you all k ow how I get in thanks I feel a lot calmer I think ha

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NatGee · 03/08/2022 22:41

Please do! hope you have good news for us :)

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Lotus1702 · 05/08/2022 15:43

Hi ladies quick update was due on yesterday did a test this afternoon and got this so looks like it’s progressing your thoughts would be nice

Please help calm me down
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NatGee · 05/08/2022 16:01

Looks like a positive result to me. Congratulations!

J1290 · 05/08/2022 16:07

As dark as mine also! Congrats
fingers crossed
how do chemical pregnancies go??

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Lotus1702 · 05/08/2022 16:29

NatGee · 05/08/2022 16:01

Looks like a positive result to me. Congratulations!

Thank you still a bit stressful as you can imagine

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Lotus1702 · 05/08/2022 16:30

J1290 · 05/08/2022 16:07

As dark as mine also! Congrats
fingers crossed
how do chemical pregnancies go??

Oh brilliant how far along are you?
don’t really want to get into the whole C pregnancy as want to keep my mind positive

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J1290 · 05/08/2022 16:35

Its ok i googled it in the end.

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