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Hoping for BFP August/September

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BellaTheDarkOverlord · 02/08/2022 21:20

Follow on for those still hoping for baby dust and luck for those BFPs in Aug and SeptšŸ€Goodluck all x

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mamazac · 18/08/2022 10:24

EdinburghGirl1 · 18/08/2022 10:23

@mamazac do you get ovulation pain or EWCM? Do you know how long your cycles usually are? No harm in regular BD and continuing the testing to see how they are in case it hasn't peaked yet

I've never had ovulation pain but do get EWCM but not every cycle, usually homes around CD 10-13. Sometimes it's loads then others barely nothing!

mamazac · 18/08/2022 10:25

@EdinburghGirl1 we're gonna aim to DTD every night over the next week or so just in case and I'll continue the opks!

EdinburghGirl1 · 18/08/2022 10:25

@mamazac good plan

Tartanhaggis · 18/08/2022 12:09

Got a clear blue early digital today and got the book error šŸ˜‘. Ordered another for tomorrow

Tartanhaggis · 18/08/2022 12:32

EdinburghGirl1 · 18/08/2022 06:41

@Hopefulprincess I definitely see a feint line.

@Baby3herewego that like looks great and @Derinsea12 must be so nice seeing that word pop up on the test.

@ChickenT2b hopefully it's lucky number 3. I'm CD14 and 2dpo. That's good your bloods came back normal but I get how you would be unsure if you have to stop trying and might get placebo.

@Crazycatlady19 no I don't keep legs up. I've read it doesn't actually matter and not needed. I do try to stay lying down for a little bit afterwards though

@elm26 I'm in the tww with you. When will you test?

@BellaTheDarkOverlord welcome to the tww too. Both in it together like last month.

@1stimer16 oh no that's such a shame. DP and I had started booking a holiday to Tanzania for September a couple months ago but ended up cancelling and booked Greece instead in case I got pregnant as there's a yellow fever and malaria risk and couldn't really take the anti malaria drugs. I hope you find something else. We are going to Athens then a couple of Greek islands.

@mamazac I agree you probably have had your peak. When do you normally ovulate? I got my peak on CD10 last month. Will you test again this morning to see how it's looking?

@Lollywhite that seems like a good plan and at least you'll be covered. And yes maybe leaving the OPKs will help you relax a little. I can see how it could become obsessive. Good luck for this cycle.

@Tartanhaggis I understand how you must feel like that. There's some girls on another thread I'm on who got bfp this month and said they had no symptoms and thought they were out but then got their bfp so not everyone feels pregnant straight away and sometimes symptoms start later. It's still early days. Maybe try the digital on day AF is due To help out your mind at ease?

Sorry this was a long one. Just catching up. Yesterday was my daughter's first day at school but finished at 12 so had a mummy daughter afternoon together then didn't really come on here last night

Thankyou x I guess im just scared it goes away like last time but IL try and chill and take my mind off it somehow šŸ˜… till tomorrow lol

twigsterable · 18/08/2022 13:00

New to all this it's our first month TTC. Got my positive OPK on 16th all a bit up in the air as only came off implant in July but you never know!

Absolutely no idea what happens next as my positive OPK was 2 days before the end of my cycle (period is due tomorrow but again did come off implant last month so clearly ovulating late)

Way too early for any tests for me now but just saying hi and hopefully will be back here in a couple of weeks 😬

BellaTheDarkOverlord · 18/08/2022 17:40

@EdinburghGirl1 Tww together x I'm now 1DPOI šŸ˜€Counting down until I get my BFP (being positive!)

@twigsterable I think maybe coming off the implant your body is still regulating. Never been on it myself but I had the same coming off the pill first time. You're welcome to stay even if you're not near testing. I'm 2 weeks off testing yet. AF due 31st šŸ˜…

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twigsterable · 18/08/2022 17:43

BellaTheDarkOverlord · 18/08/2022 17:40

@EdinburghGirl1 Tww together x I'm now 1DPOI šŸ˜€Counting down until I get my BFP (being positive!)

@twigsterable I think maybe coming off the implant your body is still regulating. Never been on it myself but I had the same coming off the pill first time. You're welcome to stay even if you're not near testing. I'm 2 weeks off testing yet. AF due 31st šŸ˜…

Thank you 😊

I'm not sure if the normal rules for implant apply to me as I had it in for more then four years despite it only apparently being effective for 3?

I got my periods back a while ago and they've been regular up until this month

Purple29 · 18/08/2022 18:14

@Lollywhite when I was ttc #1 I was going to the fertility dr because we had been trying for 2 years and that's what he told me, my cycles were regular tho, but he said to dtd every second day over ov.

He recommended this because it gives the sperm a little more time to mature. You don't want it older than 5 days either!!!

He said most importantly to STOP peeing in sticks!!! He said you can miss it, as the right hormone level can be very quick.

His recommended days for my 28 days cycle was 7 (just to empty out the old stuff) 11,13 and 15. Assuming I was ov on day 14.

I was pregnant after 2 months!!!

The same every other day worked last year for #2 but we lost that one.

Chloo22 · 18/08/2022 19:38

Update…

BFN on my FRER today.. Still no AF, had some yellow tinted cm/little bit snotty today. - could be a sign of AF though? Although I have no other signs/symptoms of AF like I usually would.

strange..?

no idea what’s going on 😬

Lollywhite · 18/08/2022 19:48

@BellaTheDarkOverlord ahh fingers crossed we get our positives this month!!

@EdinburghGirl1 I know definitely obsessive I mean I probably will still use them but I’m not going to solely focus on the results (easier said than done lol)

@Purple29 oh wow that’s good to hear, it does make sense too! I’m defo going to try focus on every other day regardless of what OPKs say .. so sorry to hear about your loss xx

BellaTheDarkOverlord · 18/08/2022 19:51

@twigsterable It sounds like you should be regular then I guess if you've had regular periods for a while. It's strange really x

@Purple29 I think next month I'm going to try that DTD every other day around ovulation rather than relying on sticks. I can see I ovulate every month between 14-16 which is regular so I don't need sticks now. I might try every other day from like CD11 and see if it helps. Only problem is dh starts getting annoyed if it's so often as sometimes we're both too tired.

@Chloo22 Sorry for BFN x What DPO are you? I wonder if you implanted later. Not out until AF shows though x

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LucyLoopyLu · 18/08/2022 21:11

@Purple29 we are going to try your method this month I think šŸ¤ž day 9, 11, 13 and 15

Really hoping it works!

elm26 · 18/08/2022 21:17

@EdinburghGirl1 oooh good luck! I think CD21/9DPO roughly so 24th Aug, I'll try a cheap strip test, if nothing I will wait until my AF is due! How about you? X

EdinburghGirl1 · 18/08/2022 21:19

I'll probably test around 27th August 10dpo @elm26

jalu47 · 18/08/2022 21:38

Joining along. Ovulation day, TTC 6 months, one early miscarriage in June. Hoping this month is the one šŸ¤ž

Purple29 · 18/08/2022 23:55

@BellaTheDarkOverlord I found that because it was only the 4 days it had to be scheduled in it wasn't too much. Even when tired. Its not a guarantee but it def worked for us and I know it worked for a couple of friends too.

Good luck @LucyLoopyLu really hope it brings you your bfp, fingers crossed we all get it soon.

@Lollywhite thanks, im slowly getting over it and really hoping for my little rainbow 🌈 soon.

mamazac · 19/08/2022 08:53

Morning ladies! Hope everyone is doing well? What CD are we all on now?

I'm currently CD12 and my first month using OPK's, and I'm confused!! Was doing them every 24 hrs and they looked to be darkening, then started getting lighter, so I'm thinking I might have missed my peak inbetween tests, but this would mean I would have ovulated early at CD11, which would be early for me as usually have 28 day cycles, however last month was only 26 days so don't know if that's affected it?

OPK's are now barely even visible lines so a bit confused with what's going on. Would appreciate any feedback!

Baby3herewego · 19/08/2022 09:58

Didn’t post yesterday so here is another line progression from 7-11 dpo and a clear blue 9 dpo and 11dpo so happy ti see it all getting darker.

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Baby3herewego · 19/08/2022 10:03

Oooop missed day 7 on that photo of the easy at homes..

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LucyLoopyLu · 19/08/2022 11:11

@Purple29 thanks, you too!
Just realised I mistyped the first number on my last post put you get what I mean šŸ™‚

Just done my first OPK this month and could barely see a line at all so plenty of time yet, Ov should be next week some time

Missgemini · 19/08/2022 12:26

@mamazac oh that’s annoying. From your description, it seems you’ve probably ovulated then. Were you DTD in the lead up?

@Baby3herewego that looks like a lovely progression :)

mamazac · 19/08/2022 12:33

@Missgemini yeah, looking back to when I conceived my 1st on the Flo app, our DTD dates didn't match up with ovulation on day 14, as only DTD early in the month.

We DTD the day I saw the peak and the day after (yesterday) so fingers crossed there was something there waiting for it!

Going to unofficially class today as 1DPO unless I get a peak on the opks in the next few days x

BellaTheDarkOverlord · 19/08/2022 13:39

Hope everyone is ok today x Looks like some nice BFPs.

I'm 2DPO now. Woke up to a call from MIL saying dh's nans died this morning. She was very unwell at 80. Dh says he has a strange feeling I may get pregnant this month. I hope that'll be a nice glimmer of hope during bereavement.

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My2boysaremyworld · 19/08/2022 14:04

@BellaTheDarkOverlord sorry to hear your sad news. Fingers crossed for you this month, I'm still waiting for my peak at cycle day 14 xx

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