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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

9 dpo

3 replies

aimeexyz · 23/07/2022 22:32

Hi,

Long time lurker and first time poster!

My partner and I aren't trying per see, we decided to just see what happens. Any mention of ovulating and the notion of having to have sex at particular times makes my BF totally clam up (frustratingly!).

Anyway, we did it twice this month. Once just before my fertile window and once after it (I'm tracking with the flow app). I'm now 9dpo and have unusual symptoms for me, such as very sore and tender boobs/nipples (which I never get, even before AF), strange cramps and waves of very subtle nausea but nothing crazy.

I just wondered if maybe I'm symptom spotting or maybe anyone has been in this position at 9dpo and perhaps ended up with a BFP?!

Full disclosure, I'm a maternity assistant on a postnatal ward and hopeful future midwife, so I try and keep my head in a realistic sphere but my nipples look how the ladies I assist look and are very tender so it is giving me (perhaps false) hope...

all the best,

A x

OP posts:
Nimbles22 · 24/07/2022 10:18

Hi I've read a few people have got a bfp with frer on 9dpo, I'm currently 11dpo and I've had a few cramps and lower back pain. Have you tested yet x

Iid0ntgetit · 26/07/2022 19:22

Can I join?

My other half clams up also...so frustrating! Been trying it on with him flat out this month and hoping he assumes I am being genuine!

I had a chemical last month :( TTC this month and having similar symptom spotting.

I could tell immediately the last time. Same again this time around starting with sore breasts.

Noticing a sore back, vaginal pain on LHS, dizzy spells etc.

I have been keeping a diary this time around to track if there is any consistency between this month's and last.

L0uise35 · 21/06/2023 17:20

Hey @aimeexyz just wondering how things turned out for u. I am in the same position, also same with my husband.

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