Hoping for a BFP in July/august

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Do any of you believe in Pyschics? Iv had 2 reading since my miscarriage in April. The one guy I saw face to face and he was fab! He knew something had happened in my womb! He said I will have another baby and said the month of may. He also knew my mom had passed and got her name right!! He said things there's no way he could of known! Iv had a card reading from a lady who does fertility readings and she's said she can see a pregnancy in august of a baby girl ( that would make a May baby! ) the guy also said your only fertile in certain seasons which I totally believe is true as my boys birthdays are only 2 weeks apart. My eldest is in May and my youngest is June! Xx

@My2boysaremyworld I totally believe in this stuff! Which means that next cycle is potentially your cycle then!! I hope this is true for you xx

@Angie2018 well I defo don't think it's this cycle as only DTD once and it would of been old swimmers too 😩 I'm hanging onto that august is my month. Iv always joked im only fertile one month out of the year xx

@My2boysaremyworld well it only takes one! However I do think that it's likely your month next month. I've given up hope now and just keep telling myself it will happen one day 🤣 cycle 7 & getting bored 🤣🤣 xx

@Angie2018 it would be great. I'm already imagining it as we're away on holiday when I will be due AF in late august. Only time will tell.

Please try to stay positive. Like I said before it took me nearly 4 years to have my eldest. I remember though how I felt every month. I remember telling my then OH to just leave me and find someone who could give him a baby ( think he remembered me saying that when he finally left me for someone else 🤣🤣 got to laugh about it )

You will get your BFP soon I just know it and it will be the best day ever. I can still remember the whole day when I got mine. It was mad cuz we went to see Peter Kay in Manchester. Afterwards we went for something to eat and there was a lady sitting there and as I walked past her she said congratulations on your pregnancy!! Spooky!! Xx

@My2boysaremyworld suffered like 6 years on and off pain, sometimes months at a time. In-between the root canal pee treatment and the actual root canal I was in pain but only slightly and nothing like before when I was in agony. Clove oil helped a bit but the only thing that really worked was the root canal and killing the nerve. I don't believe in psychic myself but if they give you some positive hope then go for it and I hope it works for you x

TMI but I had a shit load EWCM this morning, like loads of it. It's gotten dryer now a bit so I must have had a dam bursting or something 😁Dtd tonight to hopefully catch early.

@BellaTheDarkOverlord thank you xx

Hope you've managed to DTD at the right time xx

Hi. I am new to TTC. My partner and I started TTC just a month ago. I timed everything to the day and DTD on the day before I ovulated. Now I am anxiously and impatiently waiting until AF is due to test and find out whether it will be a BFP or BFN.

Just hopping on here to join in on chit chat while I'm on my TWW

@My2boysaremyworld ahhh that would be so amazing for you!! I am also away at the end of august when a BFP could be due so I was thinking if it's then I'll surprise my OH and tell him.

That's crazy the lady said that omg!!!! Did you know you were pregnant at the time? Or test after she said that?

Thank you for you kind words I appreciate it so much!!

You are right and I just need to stay patient. I've kinda accepted it's going to take a while and I think hopefully by December I'll be pregnant.

Do you mind me asking why it took you 4 years? It seems you have regular periods and all the right ovulation symptoms etc so hopefully it is August for you!!xx

Hi Ladies,
Hope you're all okay.
I was due on either yesterday or today (27/28 days which I've been consistently for months) and nothing yet. Took 2 tests one basic and one early clearblue and both negative so had a complete meltdown/anxiety attack. Just so draining, been trying for 18 months and 13 months since my miscarriage and just don't know what else to do. The fact aunt flo seems to be changing dates is just another spanner in the works. Waiting on a referral to gyno but my friend who works in a doctors surgery says the wait time is 46 weeks so it just feels doom and gloom. I'm 34 in April and this would be our 1st and I just feel I'm running out of time to be a mum.
Sorry for the long post just feel you Ladies would understand more then others as to how difficult is xxx

Hey @Brunette1989 don't panic lovely you aren't out until AF shows and you could have implanted late and your HCG just hasn't reached a detectable level yet. The most reliable test this early is a FRER, basic ones are unlikely to pick anything up yet and clear blue also aren't as sensitive as an FRER. Do you have any symptoms?

Sorry to hear about your MC & that it's taking so long. Out of interest have you read "it starts with the egg" book?? If not it may help you as it's helped me.

Have either of you and your partner been tested? We are giving it until Xmas and then having tests done privately.

You aren't running out of time at all! Women have healthy babies into their 40s! There's still time and the fact you conceived before shows you both can. That's what I cling onto. My partner and I have both been pregnant before. He's got two teenagers from a previous marriage and we had a chemical pregnancy together two months ago.

We are both 34 in April btw! What day are you? I'm the 5th!! Aries people are my fav ❤️‍🩹

@Angie2018 hi lovely, thanks for the message made me cry ha ha.
By the tests I did I ovulated late and the premom app says due AF on Monday which would be 30 days which I've not been for years so I'm just like what the hell! No nothing, had slightly sensitive boobs for a couple of days but that's gone now. No I've not read it, will have a look for it as I'll try anything just to not feel like its hopeless to be honest. I'm booked in for acupuncture on Thursday to give that a go, no idea if it will make any difference but worth a shot I suppose.
Wow that's so lovely that we're very similar ages! I'm the 22nd so I'm a taurus. I just think there's so much pressure on women when you get to a certain age to have babies that it just makes me feel like I'm so old and that if I don't have them soon that's it. All my friends have already had their babies and on here it feels like everyone's a lot younger so hard to relate to if you know what I mean.
Hoe long have you been trying for? Have you found any tips? Thanks for the message means a lot xxxx

@Angie2018 id found out in the morning so yes I knew but there was no way you could tell!!

Iv got polycystic ovarian syndrome and endometriosis. I had ovarian drilling done and polyps burnt off twice to help conceive my eldest . I had a very early miscarriage before having him ( now sure it was a chemical now I know what they are ) xx

@Brunette1989 ahhh bless you!! I am glad it helped you!! We all need a boost at times, I defo do most the time as I am finding it all incredibly hard too!!

I mean the only month I did fall pregnant was the month with no symptoms so hoping it's your month! Mine ended in a chemical sadly!!

Definitely look into the book & also the spent meets egg plan book too. I needed a boost last cycle so read both, still reading it starts with the egg.

Acupuncture is great & I have that too!

I totally agree about the pressure for sure. I feel it everyday it's all I can think about and it's hard!!

Ahhh you just missed being an Aries by one day then ❤️‍🩹

We have been trying for 7 months, this is our 7th cycle & im due to ovulate tomo.

We've had Covid in that time which affects sperm for 3 months & we've had a chemical pregnancy so not great really.

We've started making a conscious effort to eat all the recommended foods, drink water, no alcohol, one caffeinated drink per day, lots of supplements & lots of sex following the SMEP.

I now track BBT & use OPKs aswell xx

Have you got any know issues? Are your periods regular? Xx

@My2boysaremyworld omg you poor thing you've bloody been through it haven't you! Amazing strength you have!! Keep going it will happen! I think that's what we all need to think xx

AF has arrived 2 days early so officially out 😭

@Tropicana1 so sorry lovely 😢

@Angie2018 I never thought I'd get there but it eventually happened. I use to be able to spot a pregnant woman from a mile away!!

Im trying to not think about it constantly trying to enjoy the present but it's hard at times. Im just missing my baby and then I feel bad cuz feel like im not doing enough with my boys.

Im not expecting anything from this cycle at all. Xx

Hope you can stay positive but it's ok to feel negative at times xx

@My2boysaremyworld you certainly give me hope!!!!

I'm trying to do the same now. Enjoying the horse, dogs, step kids & partner and telling myself statistically I should be pregnant by next feb..,,

I think it happens when you don't expect it xx

@Angie2018 I had just moved house when I conceived my eldest so wasn't really thinking of it. Xx

@Angie2018 here if you ever need to talk xx

@My2boysaremyworld yeah exactly it's when you least expect it. I'm just worrying it won't happen for us at all! Thank you that means alot xx and likewise I'm here if you need to talk too xx

@Angie2018 xx

@My2boysaremyworld have a lovely day today and keep us posted xx

@Angie2018 xx