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How long did it take to conceive your second?

26 replies

Theawkwardblonde · 24/06/2022 16:49

How long did it take you to conceive your second? Was it longer than your first? My friend and I are both TTC number 2 and curious to see how different it was second time around for people. For context- It took me 18 months to conceive my first, 16 months for my friend.

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MountainMummy95 · 24/06/2022 17:05

Found out 2 days ago that I am expecting my second.

Took one cycle with my first, and I know how unusual that is so was fully prepared for it to take months this time. It didn't. Conceived on my first cycle this time around as well.

custardbear · 24/06/2022 17:22

19 months for first and 2.5 years for second (both scattered with various miscarriages)
I was 35 and 39 years old when conceived

tryingtofindmyself · 24/06/2022 17:23

First proper cycle (after my withdrawal bleed) both times.

I know I was very, very lucky.

33goingon64 · 24/06/2022 17:25

DC1 first cycle
PG2 (MC) third cycle
DC2 fourth or fifth, can't remember

SirChenjins · 24/06/2022 17:26

A week - which was a total shock after many months of not conceiving followed by fertility treatment with our first.

Amipreg1 · 24/06/2022 17:35

Second cycle after coming off the pill for our 1st. Currently pregnant with no.2 after just 1 cycle. I wasn't expecting it to happen so quickly both times!

Gettissuesgotissues · 24/06/2022 17:42

1st - 1st cycle

2nd - 2 years!

3rd - 5/6 months, all in my 30's

Lilbunnyfufu · 24/06/2022 18:05

1st we wasn't actually trying.
2nd 10 years we got to the point where we thought it would never happen and stopped trying within months was pregnant.
3rd again we wasn't trying.
4th 3 months after giving birth to number 3 again we was not trying.i had the coil fitted.

SuperlativeOxymoron · 24/06/2022 18:21

3 and a half years for first, we're almost a year in trying for second.

DramaAlpaca · 24/06/2022 18:28

Eleven months for my first.

For my second, 10 minutes! A bit of a shock considering DC1 was only seven months and I was still breastfeeding.

It was four months for my third, I think.

Hoping43 · 24/06/2022 21:28

1 month for my first aged 29, 8 months for my second aged 31 and 15 months and still trying for my third 😭💔 aged 35 x

underneaththeash · 24/06/2022 21:32

Surprise for first! 30
1 month for second - 32
2 months for 3rd - 35

Live4weekend · 24/06/2022 21:33

Nearly 3 years TTC 1st

1st cycle TTC 2nd

cptartapp · 24/06/2022 21:37

Three months for first. 30.
One month for second. 33.

Charl881 · 25/06/2022 08:44

DS - 13 months. Trying for DC 2 now and on our 10th cycle but have had two chemicals during that time.

Theawkwardblonde · 25/06/2022 10:10

Thanks for your replies everyone! I find it so interesting to see the different experiences people had.
Sorry to see some of you have had losses, and for those still trying good luck!

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Chasingsquirrels · 25/06/2022 10:12

About 5 mins.
1st took about 9 months.

OldTinHat · 25/06/2022 10:30

I was also lucky. I conceived first time every cycle for all of mine.

DecimatedDreams · 25/06/2022 10:34

DD - 7 years
PG2 - 5 years - miscarriage
Never got pregnant again.

Labdo · 25/06/2022 10:34

1st was s a surprise so technically 1st cycle? I was 19.

2nd conceived on first try, 26.

lilroo87 · 25/06/2022 10:37

Almost a year with my first. Currently 9 weeks pregnant and not really trying this time. Just happened. My DD is almost 11 months old so wasn't really planned and my periods have been very irregular since they came back

lilroo87 · 25/06/2022 10:38

lilroo87 · 25/06/2022 10:37

Almost a year with my first. Currently 9 weeks pregnant and not really trying this time. Just happened. My DD is almost 11 months old so wasn't really planned and my periods have been very irregular since they came back

Although tbh, it was literally one attempt and we're now pregnant 🤣

Theawkwardblonde · 27/06/2022 14:17

Thanks everyone. It really is amazing how different it is for everyone. Makes me laugh that in sex Ed in school we were essentially told if you have sex you WILL get pregnant.
Clearly not the case!
Thank you again for your responses.

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Amyrosa · 27/06/2022 19:17

pg 1 - first cycle, didnt even have a period after stopping pill, had to have a termination. Was 17.
pg 2 - 10 months after stopping pill, ended in a MMC at 8 weeks. was 24.
pg 3 - 3 months after MMC, resulted in my daughter, I was 25.
pg 4 - wasnt trying, was still breastfeeding and had no idea I was pregnant until I went for a scan and was told I was 8 weeks along. resulted in my son, I was 26.

no rhyme or reason to it!

Kitty901 · 28/06/2022 10:21

1st 6 months
2nd 8 months, just found out a few days ago❤