Completely on the fence about TTC again. It’s very heart vs head situation.
Background we have two older children and the youngest is nearly school age. Ideally we would want to TTC soon to not leave a massive age gap. We did fall pregnant in Dec last year but due to an awful pregnancy and health issues with HG we lost the baby at 8 weeks.
Questioning whether we should logically stick at 2. Or go for a third? Risk of HG could be the same or it could be better (other two pregnancies with DC weren’t great but not as bad as the 3rd pregnancy). I also worry if I can give them all the time needed. I came from a large family and never felt like my parents had enough time for us all.
If I could fast forward to having a 6 month old (never liked the new born stage) that would be the ideal situation.