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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

SMEP (sperm meets egg plan)

45 replies

MooBugz · 11/05/2022 22:18

I had a miscarriage in March and will be trying smep @ opks for the first time this cycle as I have no idea when I have ovulated since the mc my cycle has been crazy.

Getting pregnant again is all I can think about and I never thought I would be planning to this extent but then I never thought I'd have a miscarriage either.

Looking for any advice or positive experiences using this method/opks if anyone wants to share Flowers

Thanks!

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trinity198 · 22/05/2022 09:32

My partner got ill do the plan went out the window! We managed it on the day of my peak opk and that's it! Oh well will have to try it next month instead

MooBugz · 23/05/2022 19:48

@RMS0209 time really does drag when your trying to make babies right 😩 hope you get your peak soon, mines been flashing smileys the last three days

@trinity198 you never know you might have caught if your lucky 🤞🏼

I really feel for people that have been in this game for a while, each day feels like forever in waiting

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trinity198 · 23/05/2022 20:18

@MooBugz I'm hoping so! Annoyingly I took the hcg shot prescribed by the consultant just before he got ill so feel like we've wasted that. Maybe it might have given us the extra boost. I took a pregnancy test today (2dpo) just to see what the hcg level was and will take one in another 4-5 days just to make sure I don't confuse it with a BFP. Really annoyed I took it now. Oh well. There's always next months if it's not happened this time!

Does a flashing smiley mean it's not quite ovulation? I've never used the clear blue ones, I always use the Tesco ones

MooBugz · 23/05/2022 20:48

@trinity198 yea the flashing smiley is high fertility so hoping park isn't too far although I've heard some people can get them for around 10days 🙈 still a good sign so sticking to the plan so far!

Is the shot something you can get every month? I take it your hpt will show a positive because of it for now and you'll retest in a week to see if it's changed?

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trinity198 · 24/05/2022 10:47

@MooBugz fingers crossed you get your peak soon! You'll be exhausted 😂

I think the consultant just gave it as a one off because usually it's given to people who don't ovulate but I seem to ovulate fine on my own. I think he just gave it me as a why not try for a bit of extra luck. Yeah the tests are apparently positive for about 10 days. I took the shot last Thursday so should be negative this weekend unless pregnant. Bit frustrating really that I'll be in limbo for a while

MooBugz · 26/05/2022 15:48

CD16 but getting closer lol that's me on 6th day of flashing smileys. That's what the FS on the tests stand for but I guess alternative meaning for FS works too 🤣🤦🏽‍♀️

@trinity198 tell me about it! I'm half asleep most times haha

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MooBugz · 31/05/2022 19:39

Hi all, got my peak cd17, the way it worked was bd cd16 then the three days so it was 4 days in a row! Yday was a break then today is the "good luck" bd and then the waiting game truly begins..

Hope your all managing ok 😵‍💫

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trinity198 · 31/05/2022 20:37

@MooBugz glad to hear you finally got your peak. Sounds like you covered all bases! Keep us posted later on the tww. I'm 10dpo today and test was negative but my partner was ill so we only bd once in the fertile period 🙄 will try again next month

gianaInfertilitySucks · 31/05/2022 21:38

I'm sorry for your loss, I don't have any experience I just wanted to wish you all the best x

MooBugz · 31/05/2022 23:12

Hi @gianaInfertilitySucks thank you appreciate the kind words and positivity 😊

@trinity198 lol covered all bases and lord help me if we need to do it again next month that was a lot of effort! Will keep you updated on the tww fingers toes everything crossed for this month and you never know one time is all it takes 🙈

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MooBugz · 06/06/2022 09:09

I Think SMEP came through for me first time!!

SMEP (sperm meets egg plan)
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trinity198 · 06/06/2022 10:47

@MooBugz oh wow congratulations! That's amazing! I will deffo be trying it this month

MooBugz · 06/06/2022 12:55

Thank you! It was hard to keep it going I have to say, and we did miss the one for 'good luck' after the one day break but it proves it works! 🤞🏼

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trinity198 · 06/06/2022 16:33

@MooBugz tbh the one for luck one seems like a bit of a waste of time anyway. Happy and healthy pregnancy to you ❤️

MooBugz · 06/06/2022 20:29

@trinity198 thank you and good luck to you next cycle 🥰
I'll be anxious the whole way through it so happy to finally see that positive line again x

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Tashyb123 · 09/06/2022 21:05

Hey guys! I had a MC end of March, and ill
be trying the SMEP (sperm meets egg) starting from Saturday (two days time)!!

please keep fingers and toes crossed for me!🤞🏼

anybody else trying it same time as me, please keep me updated !!

MooBugz · 09/06/2022 22:05

Hi @Tashyb123 good luck with it I hope you get your rainbow 🌈 it's hard work but success rate is really good!

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Tashyb123 · 09/06/2022 23:54

Thank you so much !
have you fallen pregnant using this method ?
i finished my period today, so I’m planning on having my first ‘❤️‘ on Saturday.

MooBugz · 10/06/2022 05:19

Yes @Tashyb123 pleased to say bite as my first time trying it and got my bfp this week. It was my first cycle of SMEP but 3rd since mc. Good luck 😉

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Tashyb123 · 10/06/2022 09:13

Oh thank you so much ! Fingers crossed! I’ve sent you a PM!

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