Anyone 9/10dpo

[Fifi1086]

... and driving themselves insane? I'd love to be the kind of person who can hold off to test but I'm just not 😂

I think I'm 10dpo going by ewcm and pains and my app says I'm 9dpo going by opk. I had a really (really) faint like on frer yday that could have been an indent; and another today that was exactly the same and no darker.

Im in bed now with bad cramps, sore boobs and I'm dizzy, all of which could be AF on the way.

I find it so difficult to deal with uncertainty. Is anyone else around the same stage and obsessively testing 😂

Hey @Fifi1086! I remember you from a previous thread ☺️

I'm 11dpo today! Haven't tested since 9dpo... I got a verrrry faint line that could have easily been an evap on a FRER! Really going to try and hold off testing until Monday 🤞🏽

Sorry to hear you're not feeling great!

Hey @S0220 I'm jealous of your willpower!! My test today was no darker than yesterday but I've convinced myself it's an indent!

I have to try be positive, I have had issues with ovulating late and a short LP so even ovulating on day 14/15 and making it to 9/10 dpo is huge progress for me!

@Fifi1086 when is AF due for you? You're not out until that happens don't forget ☺️

I'm really trying to keep my mind busy this weekend and not think about it all! It's really hard not to though. I know in myself I just don't feel "right" if that makes sense...so I'm feeling hopeful! If I'm not pregnant then god knows what is wrong with me 😂

I'm the exact same. Just don't feel right. Which could be AF but who knows. I'm lot sure when it's due because I've never had a normal cycle. I guess if going by other peoples normal it would be due in 4 days. I'm gonna do one more test tomorrow and unless it's a clear positive I'll be keeping my last FRER until Wed!!

Hi everyone, I'm 2 days out of my fertile days according to flo app but I'm pretty sure I ovulated earlier, think I'm around 8 dpo. Driving myself mad, can't wait to test. Had some light period type cramps yesterday and had sore boobs for a few days. I hate the 2ww 😩
I feel your pain ladies

I feel your pain too @Sarahmayo and it's so hard to know for sure when you ovulated if you don't temp. I refuse to temp anymore because it was always the day that I thought and I got obsessed.

Tonight I really feel like AF is coming.

@Fifi1086 I keep my fingers crossed for you that it isn't. I'm not 100% sure when I ovulated either but DH and I DTD everyday anyway he has a very high sex drive so there's never a chance for us to miss it anyway but I have been trying to get pregnant again since MC in December and I think my body has only just started to get back to normal. If it was as simple as just DTD we would definitely have it covered but age is not on my side, I think a lot of the time my eggs just aren't good enough to stick. But still live in in hope. Just done a test BNF, I knew it would be as too early anyway but can't help torturing myself anyway

Argh ladies I'm 12dpo today and just caved and got the cleared BFN 😔 really not feeling positive.

Sorry to hear about your MC @Sarahmayo ❤️

Meant to say clearest BFN! 😩

@S0220 ugh I'm so sorry, if it makes you feel any better so did I 😭😭 tested with FMU and it was as blank as anything. I'm having really awful cramps, especially last night. I never get cramps before AF so I don't know what is going on. Today I'm either 10 or 11 DPO.

Ahh I'm sorry too @Fifi1086 🥺
I wish I hadn't tested. I feel really down now. All of my symptoms are convincing me I would have got a positive today and now I just feel like the negative this morning is completely messing with my head. I literally just broke down and had a little cry to my husband just now and agreed I would wait until at least Thursday to test again is AF doesn't show up by then (AF due is on Wednesday).

@S0220 I'm due Wednesday too and I'm not going to test again until at least then or Thursday so we can keep each other strong!!

Ahh let's do this @Fifi1086 we can keep each other going! How are you feeling?

I haven't actually got out of bed yet because I'm afraid the cramps will come back 😂 other than that, tired and sore boobs. Sort of willing AF to just come now and put me out of my misery 😂 how about you?

Ahh I feel the same, I just want to be put out of my misery at this point too 🤦🏽‍♀️

I feel a bit deflated to be honest but just going to get out of the house and keep myself busy as best I can! (And avoid popping into my local boots or supermarket to buy more tests 👀)

As I was just getting ready, I noticed bright blue veins all over my boobs, chest and running down my arms - so noticeable! And I remember this vividly from when I was pregnant with my first as my husband said I looked like a map 😂😂 so god knows what is going on!!

I have read that's a sign 🤷🏻‍♀️ my last pregnancy was nearly 14 years ago and at 21 I definitely wasn't expecting it or looking for signs 😂 so I've no idea. Best I can hope for at this stage is that the faint positive was an indent and that the bad cramps last night at 9/10 dpo were implantation

#ClutchingAtStraws

Keeping my fingers crossed for us both @Fifi1086 🤞🏽

Morning @Fifi1086! How are you feeling?
I've been getting AF type cramps since yesterday evening and my boobs no longer feel AS tender...so I've accepted im more than likely out for this cycle! 🤷🏽‍♀️

@S0220 you aren't out until you're out! What day is AF due again?

I hadn't really any symptoms yesterday other than sore boobs. Woke up during the night feeling a bit unwell. I'm fully expecting AF any day now

@Fifi1086 AF due on Wednesday! Any sign for you yet? Tbh I've been so busy with work today I've barely even thought about it!

Due Wednesday too. No sign at all! I had the teeniest red specks in my cm today so I don't know if that's the beginning of AF or what. I'm crampy and have an upset tummy which is usually a symptom for me so I'm just waiting on the red mist to descend 😂😂

@Fifi1086 Isn't it just torture?! 😩 I'm just going with the idea that I'm out now for this cycle. My tiredness has suddenly disappeared and I'm bursting with energy...although it was only two nights ago I couldn't keep my eyes open at 7pm 😳 what is that about? My boobs are still heavy but not as bad. I just want AF to hurry up, do it's thing and LEAVE so I can focus on the next cycle 😂

@Fifi1086 AF arrived for me this morning so I'm out 😔😔

Aw @S0220 I'm so sorry. It's such a pain isn't it! I'm still in limbo. Got pink spotting last night and fully expected to wake up to AF but spotting has stopped. Got another faint line on FRER. Really no idea what's going on and AF due tomorrow!

@Fifi1086 thank you. On to another cycle! ahhh keeping my fingers crossed for you! Hopefully AF stays far away from you 🤞🏽