We're in the early stages and I wondered if anyone has any tips? It's so unromantic and lacks passion and feels very mechanical. I'm tired after work and looking after 1 child already and don't feel in the mood. Neither of us are enjoying this and I know they say you shouldn't overthink and should have fun, stress free sex but it's just not working for us. The gap keeps getting bigger with our DC and that is stressing me too.