🌈 Ttc after miscarriage thread 7 🌈💕🤞✨

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New thread ladies 🌈✨💕

@Pluckedblueberry I feel the same, I'll never get over losing my boy and I'll always be mum to two boys even though only one of them is with me. Losing him has changed me just as it's changed my life and I very much understand you wanting people to know your little girl existed, because she did. You loved her from the moment you found out about her and she was with you for every beat of her heart

Thank you thank you very much!! It feels much much better when someone understands exactly how it feels! Makes me feel I'm not an alien. I'm so sorry for your loss and thank you very much for your message....

Huge congrats to those who’ve gotten their BFPs since I last posted! I finally got the sold smiley face on a Clearblue digital yesterday morning, 20 days after my miscarriage. Part of me is relieved that things kind of seem to be working (though I am kind of worried I may not have ovulated), and the other part of me is dreading the next 10-14 days and what feels like the inevitable disappointment that will follow. I hate how all-consuming this process is, and it feels even worse to be back here after getting that second line two months ago.

Sorry for emotionally unloading!

Lovely words @Pluckedblueberry ❤
@AKM89 I feel like the first positive opk after miscarriage is a huge milestone. Try not to put too much pressure on yourself this cycle though and be kind to yourself.
My line this morning was much darker so I’m going to step away from testing as I’m away this weekend and will test again next week. I am pregnant today, and I can’t control tomorrow or next week or next month, but today I am pregnant (I have been saying this to myself since 6am). Still haven’t told DH as I can’t believe to say it in real life. Thank you for this safe space and good luck to everyone xxx

Congrats @buntywindermere @Lizm1990 and @Sassy144 :D Amazing news!

I'm... either 6 or 10 dpo x__x After I had ovulation pains on Sunday the 24th I kept getting EWCM until Friday the 29th when I had more O type cramps. Not sure where I am or what's going on. I hope I did actually ovulate. Today my boobs are a bit sore so something is happening, just don't know what. I don't know when to test either haha.

Thankyou all 🥰🥰 good luck to you all and I hope you get your rainbow babies very soon 💗

@Louisa89614 im the same going to test again tomorrow and Sunday but that’s it then and wait for the dreaded scan 😊 there’s another thread if you want to join navigating pregnancy after a loss (thread 2) ❤️

Thanks for your kind words @Louisa89614. Enjoy your break - it’s hard to step away from the tests, but they definitely increase your anxiety, hopefully being away will make it easier for you. All the best of luck!

@TheBirdintheCave that has happened me too this month. Cramping over the weekend whilst still getting the blank circle and now more cramping yesterday and today after getting the solid smiley circle. I often wonder if stuff like this always happened or if I’m just hyper aware of it, especially after loss.

Hi all hope you don't mind me joining!

Had my first mc in March followed by a 3 and a half week period after exactly 28 days had passed. Each day I was bleeding felt like a lifetime.

Flo app told me my next period (28/29 day cycle pre mc) was due few days ago but I definitely felt what felt like ovulation pain on CD24 and currently on CD31 so waiting till next week to see what happens and maybe allow myself some hope that I've conceived this cycle..

Hello all,

Sorry I've been MIA I haven't been able to access anything since Mumsnet's update.

I had a miscarriage back in March, I'm back to TTC as of now. I'm only 7DPO but been feeling so sick and so tired (think 10 hours sleep and still yawning the entire day tired).

I know it's far too early to test, especially with cheap £1 tests but since my MC I just can't get it out of my mind

In person I can almost see a shadow like a tiny little tease of a line. I know it's wishful line eyes and it's especially not visible on camera but can anyone see anything too?

Nope, nothing. Sorry @ElleBelleLou :(

@TheBirdintheCave don't apologise I knew it was very wishful thinking thinking I could see something 🥲 Only 7DPO anyway so not losing hope just yet 🙏🏻

@ElleBelleLou def no need to lose hope, 7dpo is so early, thibn they say implantation happens at 9dpo on average. Can you get your hands on some FRERs or the easy at home early results and test in a couple of days? Keeping fingers crossed for you!

At 7dpo the line wouldn’t be too visible and if you think you can see a barely visible line in person you probs can bc I’ve been the same with all my tests that turned out positive and started off barely visible xx

To anyone worrying that their ovulation has gone wafty after mc - this might help make you feel a little bit better. Before mc I had a clockwork cycle. Ovulated CD14, AF CD28. Since my mc in Jan they've been all over the shop. 30-32 day cycles and ovulation not until CD21/22. Some months my luteal phase has been 8/9 days. But FINALLY this month I've just had a positive OPK on CD15. I'm gonna throw the kitchen sink at it this month 🤞🏼

Hi all just me with another 7DPO test but it is safely out of my system now until I'm more likely to get an actual positive test if I am pregnant.

Don't worry about hurting my feelings - I have complete line eyes and I think I've given my partner line eyes because he thinks he can see a hint of something too!

Any opinions?

I see something x

Keep forgetting to tag u sorry @ElleBelleLou

@youngiesophie Oooh do you really? I think I am definitely getting my hopes up but I can't stop myself!

100% i think the first tests u couldn’t see much bc it has a plastic over it doesn’t it? Whenever I use them I can never read see if there’s a line because I always see reflections in the plastic lol 😆 defs seeing a faint line hopefully it goes well for u x

Forgot to tag again 🤣 @ElleBelleLou

@ElleBelleLou It's really not possible to get a positive if you are actually 7dpo :/ Even if you implanted 6dpo (earliest possible) then the HCG wouldn't show for at least two days. As someone said above, the average implantation day is 9dpo. I'd wait until at least 10dpo and then test again.

Also, if that's an EasyAtHome test then (with me at least) they tend to give a slight evap line after ten minutes or so.

Hi all,

Me again with a test at 8DPO. I know it's very early, but I can see something on this (so hard to photo though!)

I had cramps 2 days ago, quite persistent in my left side which now I think back could have been implantation?

I've been feeling nauseous the last 2 days which I felt before I found out I was pregnant previously (which I sadly lost)

Can anyone else see anything? After today I'm going to hold off testing - which is easier said than done - but I know it's that early I need to chill out. It's just hard!

@TheBirdintheCave Hey, sorry late reply - not Easy at Home tests, and all shadows came up within the timescale. Still an internet cheapie though (but they picked up my last pregnancy before my FRER did) so we'll see

I think I can see a line coming. Fingers crossed for you xx

@ElleBelleLou i can see a line and you can get positives at 7dpo I have got the same kind of lines your getting at this time too xx good luck guuuurlllll😜