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🌈 Ttc after miscarriage thread 7 🌈💕🤞✨

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Skl2021 · 28/03/2022 17:44

New thread ladies 🌈✨💕

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Skl2021 · 28/03/2022 21:59

@Tofu35 your welcome hoping it brings luck to all you ladies 🌈✨😘 let's get some more bfps! 🤞 Xx

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Skl2021 · 28/03/2022 22:00

@bunnykins123 thankyou 💕 hoping you lovely ladies can join me soon 🤞🌈 xx

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bunnykins123 · 28/03/2022 22:03

@curliegirlie hoping it's fresh HCG 🤞 keep us updated. I see the line too, btw!

calimc83 · 28/03/2022 22:28

@bunnykins123 can u do another OPK? Hmm...maybe you've ovulated a day or so later. Yep we all have covid! 😩🙈..not too bad with it tbf. Just shattered really..yeah I've heard ( or Dr Google) has told me it can definitely affect your cycle...I'm gonna order a bumper load of OPKs for the next cycle I think xx

calimc83 · 28/03/2022 22:29

@curliegirlie everything crossed for you xx

bunnykins123 · 28/03/2022 22:34

@calimc83 noooo 🤦‍♀️ we had it over Xmas, wasn't too bad but it defo screwed with my period. Hope you all get well soon! Oh 💯 grab yourself a bumper box of opks. I use the One Step ones from Amazon and double up with CB. I should have done one for my last pee but forgot. It's so weird but will add in an extra attempt just for luck 😂

calimc83 · 28/03/2022 22:56

@bunnykins123 argh did it make it late as well?! What a bitch it is xx

TTBAM91 · 28/03/2022 23:03

Hi Everyone, newish here. I’ve suffered two early miscarriages (5 weeks) and have gotten a positive today. I have nothing but pure dread as I am sure it will go wrong as the others did but it was quite a strong positive. (Attached).

It’s been such a help reading this thread as I feel much less alone. I hate not being able to talk to anyone about it. Congratulations to everyone who’s gotten their positive. I just hope this ones my rainbow baby.

I did a digital which said 2-3 weeks so hoping in a few days to get a 3+. I just have that awful feeling it will not last and don’t know if it’s ‘intuition’ or my own paranoia from the previous losses.

Hope it’s ok to post this here! And thanks for sharing your own stories it’s honestly making me feel better.

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flowergarden16 · 29/03/2022 08:06

Congrats @TTBAM91 ! Looks very strong. So you know when you might have conceived?

It's such a stressful time but I'm sure it's third time lucky for you

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TTBAM91 · 29/03/2022 08:24

Yes! I use ovulation sticks so have a rough idea, it’s really tough especially as my symptoms have not really progressed and my boobs are quite tender but haven’t gotten worse over the last few days. If anything they’ve lessened.

I still don’t have any of the other symptoms either like morning sickness or metallic taste etc. so hard not to over think!

Lottie2267 · 29/03/2022 08:28

Congratulations @TTBAM91 that does look strong! I will keep everything crossed for you. It must be hard! I’ve had 2 x miscarriages, one at 12 weeks so I can only imagine I will be feeling exactly the same as you are if I get a BFP any time soon.

I’m currently 10dpo, I haven’t tested yet and won’t be until after AF is due but I’ve not felt the same as when I’ve been pregnant and miscarried before so I deffo think AF is on her way. Fingers crossed for next month 🤞🏼

TTBAM91 · 29/03/2022 08:32

Fingers crossed for you! 12 weeks is tough 😭 it’s all torture isn’t it?

You’re right not to test until due, last one I tested early and then obsessed over tests and did them daily for a few days. Did no good for me at all but I couldn’t help myself! This one I waited until I was almost a week late then caved.

I really hope you get good news and you never know! This could still be the month.

Thank you btw, I am too scared to get my hopes up but I really really hope this is the one 🤞

curliegirlie · 29/03/2022 08:46

Nothing particularly exciting this morning - I think the squinter was even squintier if that’s possible. At the same time the ov test I did had a slightly darker line than yesterday, so maybe I’m gearing up to ovulation instead 🤷‍♀️ (Why does it have to be midweek when we’re knackered?!). In any case I think I’m going to lay off testing for a bit - if it’s HGC from earlier this month it’s nearly gone, if by some miracle it’s new I’ll have a much better picture in a few days time.

@TTBAM91 huge but tentative congratulations, that’s a stonker of a line!

Lottie2267 · 29/03/2022 09:02

@TTBAM91 yes the whole thing is torture 🙈 couldn’t agree more!

Yes I was the same a couple of cycles ago and it drove me mad - lesson learnt!

Thank you lovely.

Awww I hope so too, like I said, keep everything crossed for you. Just try and think, this is a completely new pregnancy so don’t compare it to your others. Is this you first baby? Xxx

@curliegirlie hope you’re ok. I’ve been there and it’s super frustrating! Hopefully things will be come a little more clear in the next few days. I think everything is a bit out of whack after mc. How many weeks were you when you had the MC? Sorry, I know you have probably already said but I can’t keep up with all the messages xxx

curliegirlie · 29/03/2022 09:17

@Lottie2267 4 and a bit weeks I reckon (was a surprise pregnancy so I’d been rubbish with tracking periods). I was amazed that the positive tests have lasted so long - when I had a CP a few years back they disappeared a day or so before my period, but it’s nearly 3 weeks now. Bodies are strange things.

TTBAM91 · 29/03/2022 09:45

It could just need a few more days to darken! Hopefully and keeping my fingers crossed for you.
Why does time go so slowly when you’re waiting for confirmation of a successful pregnancy 😭

flowergarden16 · 29/03/2022 11:47

@TTBAM91 with my son (who is now 2.5 I had no symptoms whatsoever except I was a bit tired) very healthy and easy pregnancy, this time I am all over the shop stressing due to MMC in December. It's totally normal. X

TTBAM91 · 29/03/2022 13:41

[quote flowergarden16]@TTBAM91 with my son (who is now 2.5 I had no symptoms whatsoever except I was a bit tired) very healthy and easy pregnancy, this time I am all over the shop stressing due to MMC in December. It's totally normal. X[/quote]
@flowergarden16 that’s reassuring. I have no symptoms and today my boobs are only tender if I press them. I did do another test and it’s even slightly stronger looking than the previous at least so hopefully that’s something positive.

I just have to wait for a few days. I have a call to discuss the results of an internal ultrasound I had yesterday. I have two large fibroids so unfortunately I think they’ve been a reason for my previous losses. Hopefully they won’t cause this one to go the same way.
Attached my second test I did today, it wasn’t on fresh urine but still seems very strong.

I have a feeling deep down this won’t last because of the fibroids but still never had any test as strong as this.

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flowergarden16 · 29/03/2022 13:47

@TTBAM91 that's super strong! Congrats

I wouldn't worry at all about symptoms. Like I said. I didn't have them and the only ones I have now is a tiny bit of nausea. Plenty of my friends have had babies and been the same

Keep the faith x

Mfinch225 · 29/03/2022 14:42

@Lottie2267 I’m 10DPO and been impatient and test the last days to be greeted with a BFN! So impatient 😂! However I’ve convinced myself that because my cycles are on the shorter side (25 days) that I’d get a line by now if I was pregnant!?

Congratulations @TTBAM91 that looks very strong! Some people have no symptoms at all! Very excited for you! All fingers and toes are crossed for you!

Mfinch225 · 29/03/2022 14:42
  • the last two days I tested and got BFN!
Lottie2267 · 29/03/2022 14:49

@curliegirlie yeah bodies are so strange, very frustrating for us! I hope it will sort itself out soon for you xxx

@Mfinch225 oh bless you! Which cycle day do you ovulate on? Don’t count yourself out just yet, which day is AF due? I’m usually around a 30 day cycle.

Mfinch225 · 29/03/2022 15:25

@Lottie2267 well my Flo app was saying 19th March but it’s just jumped to the 20th for some reason so that will be cycle day 12 or 13! AF is due on the 4th April! Fingers crossed but been having lots of PMS symptoms the last day or two!

Lottie2267 · 29/03/2022 16:24

Ahhh @Mfinch225 you have the same ovulation day as me on Flo 😀 fingers crossed for you hun. My AF is due Saturday. I think PMS symptoms can be similar to early pregnancy symptoms so you never know xxx