🌈 Ttc after miscarriage thread 7 🌈💕🤞✨

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New thread ladies 🌈✨💕

@Sassy144 I think if you're testing that easily, it needs to be super concentrated to pick up the line so there is still hope 🤞 what day is AF due? DD has hidden my thermometer so no more temping for me 🤦‍♀️

Fingers crossed 🤞af is due Monday though possibly tomorrow it varies, I have quite a short luteal phase. I've refrained from testing today, I'll see how I feel tomorrow morning. Probably not a bad thing that you can't temp as it makes me even more obsessed, I'm waking up at 4am thinking is it time to temp 😂

@Sassy144 everytime I’ve been pregnant I’ve had cramps the whole time x

@bunnykins123 yesss had scans and bloods everything looks normal

My follow up scan has shown retained products. Hence why my tests are still very positive. I just want them to be negative so I can ttc again 😭😭😩

I have opted for more tablets of medical management in hoping to shift the last bit of tissue that remains.

such a drawn out process!

i just want a negative and to ovulate!

I’m also finding the waiting for ovulation so hard. Apologies for TMI, but it’s 15 days since my miscarriage and the last day or two I’ve been having lots of clear stretchy CM but the clear blue digital is still showing a blank circle. Do you think this means I might not ovulate this cycle or should I just be more patient? In the days immediately after the miscarriage I wasn’t sure how soon I wanted to try again but now I am desperate to get on with things. The baby would have been due mid-December and I am also really grieving the fact that I won’t be having a Christmas baby this year.

Hi ladies,
I posted a few weeks ago on the 18th April my photo of what I thought could have been an indent. I did a couple more FR tests the days later and they were so negative. Last week I did a clear blue digital as AF hadn't arrived and not pregnant. This morning as AF still hadn't arrived (10 days late) and I'm supposed to be going to bottomless brunch later I thought I'd do one just in case and.... I feel all the emotions - mainly terrified!!! I have no idea when this happened as we weren't ttc this cycle post the miscarriage, and I have definitely ovulated late, so this lack of control over it is giving me real anxiety. I have ordered the clear blue digital weeks ones from Amazon to hopefully be delivered by 7pm tonight!

I MC on the 6th april and was still getting positive tests at 3 weeks on…. so was sent to hospital yesterday. They did a 25mlU sensitive test and it was stark negative.
They then did bloods and hCG levels showed 8.2. The lady said as ive had unprotected sex twice since my MC, it could be a new pregnancy, and the tests I’m using at home are positive because they detect from 6.5mlU of HCG. They’ve told me to test again in a week…. I’m getting cramping in my lower back, mood swings, tender breast and going to the bathroom more frequently but really trying not to get my hopes up.
If the hormone is still in my system can I even have a period yet??
Has anyone had this before or going through it now?

@bumpy22 I'm so sorry you're going through this. With my first pregnancy (mmc) my HCG didn't go undetectable until 3 months post operation. I think I was an unusual case. FRER did pick up an insanely low amount of HCG and I was still getting faint lines at 5. I was ovulating and getting periods throughout al this. You're best bet is to test in a few days to see if it gets darker as that's really the only way to know whether it's a new pregnancy or not 💕

@buntywindermere oh wow tentative congratulations! That certainly looks very positive! Keep us updated 🤞

@AKM89 id say that's all sounding really positive. I have some months here I get globs of the good stuff and still get the blank circle. I would keep bding just in case.

@Indianna2006 oh no I'm so sorry to hear that! It's stressful enough without having to worry about retainer products. Here's hoping the medication works 🤞

@youngiesophie have you tried aspirin and/or progesterone?

@Sassy144 well done for not testing. Give it a bit longer to at least give you a clear answer either way! Really hoping it's your month 🤞 I literally forget every morning so maybe it's a good thing she's hidden it 😂 do you have any remarkable symptoms?!

@bunnykins123 thank you, I just want to know either way! I've been having mild cramping and bloating throughout the tww, plus I've been more tired than usual - I fell asleep in the garden today and I never nap. But don't know whether it's just af messing with me! How are you?

I'm shaking...! 11dpo, it's a bit of a squinter but it's definitely a line right? The cramps two days ago must have been implantation!

I think I took that before the 3 mins was up I was too excited, it got clearer

OMG!!!!! Congratulations @Sassy144 so so pleased for you! I’ve stayed off this thread this month but just saw your post and had to say congratulations ❤️ Xxx

@Sassy144 omg CONGRATULATIONS!!! That isn't even a squinters! I'm so so happy for you 💕💕 how are you feeling?! X

@Lottie2267 @bunnykins123 thank you!! 🥰 I'm so pleased (and terrified), and glad I wasn't just imagining symptoms as I was starting to think I was going mad 😂 xx

So sorry to hear this. How long have you been testing positive for? Xx

I'm just like you. Our baby should have been due 8th November and I had the lovely vision in my head of its first Christmas this year 😢xx

@Sassy144 oh my goodness!! I'm so pleased for you! I've got everything crossed that this is a sticky bean! I so hope I join you this month 🤞🏼

@peachiekeen thank you!! 🤞 I hope you do too xx

@Sassy144 oooh what are you on about woman, that is no squinter!! Congratulations and please try not to be too anxious over the next few days and weeks xxx

@Sassy144 did you do anything differently this time lovely? Stupid question but I want to do everything I can this month!

@Sassy144 big congratulations!! 🤞 for your sticky bean ❤️

@buntywindermere really pleased for you, did you do the digital test in the end?

Girls I’m struggling to hold off testing! I’m 9DPO and keep saying to myself stop thinking about it 🤣🤣 I just want to know but I know if I test now there’s a real chance it could be way too early for a BFP anyway 🤦‍♀️ I’m feeling things but I felt things last month so I’m trying not to get my hopes up. It doesn’t help I woke up feeling sick, then this morning I felt sick, still have sore teeth, been very tired and getting twinges in boobs/lower stomach. I’ve said to myself I’ll wait until Wednesday lol

hi everyone this is my first time on a chat like this. I had MC a year next month, and still have not been able to concieve, it was with the help of medical pills and I am convinced something still isnt right? I have had pelvic scan only since saying everything looked ok, I am still doubting though.

Have not seen any EWCM in a long time, postive opk last two months (only)Has anyone taken over a year to concieve again? really soul destroying and becomes an obsession with opks and tests I wonder after this month should I just give it up. The stress of it all!. I have one amazing 6 year old so maybe I should just accept that it is just the 3 of us and get on with life. We had been trying for over a year before the MC.

33 this year ttc 11 cycles

I tried aspirin this time when I miscarried which I think helped bc I didn’t have a lot of bleeding with this mc and I did push for progestorone from ovulation but my doctor was quite crap and told me to come off aspirin which I will not lol. 🤣🤣

guys thank u so much this group has made me feel way better like I have people I can talk to :)

@Sassy144 i knew you were from all your symptoms and it’s so easy to feel like your imagining symptoms but when you know you know 🎉🎉 congratulations and good luck ♥️♥️💋💋

@Avdd I would say to not to give up!! I have been trying over a yr w 4 cp so I know how u feel it is draining lol have you been to see your doctor for a blood test for when you’re ovulating as I think they can test your progesterone? Xx

@youngiesophie thank you, I'm glad I wasn't going mad! I hope you get yours very soon ❤️

@avdd. No don’t give up. I fell on cycle 11 for this baby would be dc2. I have a 4 year old dd and worry about the gap.
but unfortunately I lost it. And the mc is still ongoing. Retained products and more medical management hasn’t caused anymore bleeding so I’m stuck in limbo what to do.
also concerned how long it will take to ttc again and wanted to avoid surgery.
but how long do I wait with retained products?!

it’s all so stressful. But if it took you a while before May just be norm for you. Have you tried all the supplements etc to improve EWCM and eggs etc. and a conception cup? I used that cycle I got pregnant finally xx