🌈 Ttc after miscarriage thread 7 🌈💕🤞✨

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New thread ladies 🌈✨💕

I was told to test a month after my surgical management, which I've just done and it's still faintly positive. So frustrating.

Oh god that's so annoying!! It's so crap how we have to deal with this afterwards. Wish our bodies would just go back to normal xx

@Sassy144 @Lizm1990 @curliegirlie how are you all doing? I had a bit of ovulation bleed (wasn't really a bleed but a streak on wiping) on Tuesday which I've never had before! I'm not 4dpo and feel diddly squat!

@bunnykins123 well I’m 6dpo and over analysing every single thing, but I’ve decided to keep a track of what I’m feeling as I haven’t had many cycles since coming off the progesterone only pill last year and then getting pregnant, so it’s a learning curve to see what is just hormones, what signs are for AF coming and then hopefully I can learn if anything seems different. Main things I’m getting is stabbing pain yesterday in left and right above and below my hip bone, dry mouth a lot and little stabbing pains in boobs, sore teeth only time will tell as it’s way too early still so I keep saying to myself it’s probably hormones 😩 I do have a log of things I was feeling last month and a log of what I felt when I fell pregnant and I’m ticking things off on both lists right now so 🤦‍♀️ We can symptom spot together 🤣🤣

@bunnykins123 I'm 8dpo and have had mild cramping feelings pretty much since ovulation, don't know what to think! Also bloated a lot and quite tired, really hope I'm not imagining it all but feel like something might be going on..

@bunnykins123 nothing to report, still ridiculously faint OPKs at CD21 on unless this turns into a ‘Jessie cycle’ with a positive OPK on CD24, I think I’m in for a long, anovulatory cycle 😬😩

CD6, still got AF but hopefully it’s tailing off. Went on until CD9/10 last time! Hoping the agnus castus will bring ov forward, really don’t want to wait another best part of 3 weeks for it.

Hi guys I was just wondering if you knew of any recurrent miscarriage groups as I can’t find any and I’m really struggling going through my 4th cp or maybe I can join this group? So fed up would love to talk to people that are going through the same thing ♥️

So sorry to hear about your losses. Sending lots of hugs xx

@youngiesophie so sorry you're going through this. I know the miscarriage association runs support groups online and in person in some areas, may be worth checking them out ❤️

@My2boysaremyworld You too, I’ve just been reading through the thread♥️🥺 Sending you hugs and love back x

@Sassy144 Thank you so much I’m gonna look into this now ♥️ Hope you are okay

Thank you xx

@youngiesophie hi lovely, I have had 3 cps in the past 6 months 😢 I went on the reoccurring miscarriage website but it's not very active so stumbled across this group. I'm so sorry you have had 4 losses, it's just awful. Have you registered with the GP regarding your losses? I've got an appointment in early June (3 months referral 🙄) big hugs, happy to chat as I know how beneficial it's been for me xx

@LuckyMoonstone what day do you usually O? Got my fingers crossed that AC works for you this cycle 🤞

@curliegirlie oh nooo! I'm so sorry, I hope it's not an annovulatory cycle. Do you have any signs of O being close?

@Sassy144 that's really exciting!! Sounds promising! 8dpo is about the time the little beanie would be burying in so I hope these are all promising signs. Do you think you'll test?!

@Lizm1990 exactly the same as me. There are so many things I've never noticed before about my cycle that seem to be fairly consistent. Ooo I've read online (I've never had it myself) that sore teeth is a real thing if pregnant, hopefully this means something 🤞 My issue is that my pregnant vs non pregnancy cycles seem to be fairly similar. In fact last month I had a mountain of symptoms and nope, nadda. Very sad face. The only thing I have so far is creamy discharge, nowt else!

@bunnykins123 I really hope so 🤞 I'm going to pick up some tests tomorrow, I'll see if I make it until Saturday to do one or not 🙈

@bunnykins123 well I googled sore teeth too but the issue is I had it last month too 🤦‍♀️ So no idea if it’s just my body lol it’s so frustrating not knowing isn’t it!

@youngiesophie sorry for your loss ❤️ I don’t know of any groups but this group has helped me a lot just reading what everyone puts and posting too, I know I’m not alone 🥰

I've just done a FRER at 9dpo and stark white 🙈 I got a v faint BFP at 9dpo before so I was really hoping. I'll try again at the weekend but I've lost hope now.

@Sassy144 faaar too early to lose hope!

I’m still getting sub 0.2 OPKs on CD22! All I can hope is that I ov in the next few days and can benefit from more frequent bank holiday sex! All this is so frustrating though after last month’s 30 day cycle, and my thyroid shouldn’t be causing issues as I got bloods done shortly before my pregnancy in March and my TSH was under 2. Just need to stop thinking about the fact that I should be approaching my 12 week scan….

Thanks @curliegirlie I'm kicking myself for caving early! Fingers crossed your ovulation hurries up, bank hol weekend would be good timing! It's hard not to think about where we'd be if things had gone differently isn't it.

@bunnykins123 I’m going to make another appointment about it when I start feeling a bit better, I tried to get my doctor to prescribe progestorone when I was ovulating when I miscarried this time but he was crap lol. Sorry to hear about your cp too they’re heartbreaking feels like your body is failing you ☹️ I think I’ll just stick to this group I like it :)))

@Lizm1990 thank you hoping it’s a bfp for you this month ♥️

Agree with @curliegirlie its far too early to lose hope @Sassy144 fingers crossed 🤞

@youngiesophie I hope so though I've had quote strong cramps this afternoon which feels like af is coming early 😞

@bunnykins123 well since MC it’s been between day 20 and 24! Far too long to wait😫 AF gone now which is great as my last period lasted 10 days! My CM is already quite wet rather than dry so I’m really hoping the agnus castus is helping me to gear up for ovulation a lot sooner 🤞

@youngiesophie thankyou ❤️

@Sassy144 i can understand why you tested the wait is horrible! I’m 7dpo and tracking every little thing I’m feeling. Fingers crossed for you 🥰

@youngiesophie it's such a horrible situation to be in. I defo would get in contact with the GP when you feel ready. I had a sympathetic GP who did a few blood tests and referred me. Have you had any testing done? This group is tres helpful - 10/10 fully recommended xx

@Sassy144 but is SO early! I think you are still massively in the game still so don't panic just yet. Also was it fmu? That makes a huge difference!

@curliegirlie ahh boo I'm sorry to hear that. And you're sure you didn't O earlier? I guess just keep BD'ing in the hope that when you do O you will catch the eggy.

@LuckyMoonstone that sounds really promising! Any cm is better than nothing in my view! Got my fingers crossed it's helping 🤞

@bunnykins123 thank you 🤞 no it wasn't fmu but it was still morning and I hadn't drunk much. Fighting the temptation to test again now with fmu but I know I should wait until at least tomorrow! The cramps getting stronger yesterday made me think af was coming but my temp is still elevated today so maybe there's a chance it was implantation? Maybe wishful thinking