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Conundrum12345 · 19/03/2022 10:33

I got a bfp on Tuesday evening (1) and the following morning the line got darker (2). I tool a test this morning and it's nearly gone (3) :( I also took some cheapies and can barely make out a 2nd line.

This is my first bfp since a MMC last year

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Jayjane79 · 19/03/2022 12:07

I'm not a medical profession but unfortunately this looks very much like a chemical pregnancy. The only way to be sure is to get your HCG levels checked 48 hours apart to see if they are rising adequately for a viable pregnancy. Or just wait and see, at 6 weeks if you still have a faint positive have a private scan if the early pregnancy wront see you.

Conundrum12345 · 19/03/2022 12:18

Thank you. How long until bleeding starts? I'm 4+3

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Jayjane79 · 19/03/2022 12:21

I had a chemical in November, very very very pale bleeding started 19dpo by 21dpo it was bright red. Lasted 10 days and I ovulated on time as usual. I tried again straight away and I'm currently 12 weeks +2 days pregnant. I fell pregnant again in the January.

Jayjane79 · 19/03/2022 12:28

These were my tests with my current pregnancy. I could tell very early on it was looking more positive than my chemical in November.

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Conundrum12345 · 19/03/2022 12:35

Thanks all. I'm pretty devastated. We were trying for 9 months after MMC and were due to start IVF next month. First bfp since then. I'm 36 so worried it'll never happen.

I went running last weekend so could that have contributed to this?

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Conundrum12345 · 19/03/2022 12:36

@Jayjane79

I had a chemical in November, very very very pale bleeding started 19dpo by 21dpo it was bright red. Lasted 10 days and I ovulated on time as usual. I tried again straight away and I'm currently 12 weeks +2 days pregnant. I fell pregnant again in the January.
So ovulation will happen as per old cycle not when this bleeding starts?
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Jayjane79 · 19/03/2022 12:40

@Conundrum12345

Thanks all. I'm pretty devastated. We were trying for 9 months after MMC and were due to start IVF next month. First bfp since then. I'm 36 so worried it'll never happen.

I went running last weekend so could that have contributed to this?

I'm 36 hunny don't panic. Ovulation should happen as normal providing HCG has fallen below a certain number. My tests were negative pretty soon so I knew my ovulation strips would be accurate for that cycle. I started ovulation strips the day after bleeding stopped. Although I didn't fall pregnant that month I did the month after. Stay positive it will happen. At least you know your ovulating and can get pregnant.
L0ts · 19/03/2022 14:04

With my chemical last year the same happened.. I had a faint line, followed by a darker faint line and then the following day it was a proper BFP. I was elated. The following days it was just totally negative 😔😔 I think my period was about 5 or 6 days late! When it arrived it was really heavy and painful. I hope you’re okay xx

WutheringCripes · 19/03/2022 14:10

Nothing you have done will have caused it, please don't worry. In the whole of the first 12 weeks there's almost nothing mum can do to accidentally cause a miscarriage, it's almost always a biological thing at the stage. Especially not going for a run xx

Conundrum12345 · 19/03/2022 15:52

Thanks all. I'm trying to be strong and positive that naturally we conceived again but finding this very hard. Two losses in a row :(

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Jayjane79 · 19/03/2022 17:58

@Conundrum12345

Thanks all. I'm trying to be strong and positive that naturally we conceived again but finding this very hard. Two losses in a row :(
Stay strong it will definitely happen for you.
Conundrum12345 · 20/03/2022 05:13

Sadly I tested this morning, one digital and both were negative :(

How soon until I start to bleed? Thanks

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20viona · 20/03/2022 07:34

Sorry this is happening to you OP. The same happened to me in December. I got pregnant straight away and I am now 13 weeks :)

I bled about 24 hours after the first negative test appeared and it wasn't bad just like a normal period.

MrsRosaline · 20/03/2022 17:28

Hi @Conundrum12345. This happened to me in Jan. Positive FRERs that got lighter with each day. My period was two days later than normal. Sorry this has happened. X

ChickinMarango · 20/03/2022 17:33

Sorry this has happened OP. Please don’t be disheartened, chemicals are a lot more common then people realise and are only flagged up with these early tests.

It’s going in the positive direction, many women conceive again quite quickly too. Flowers

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