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Could it be…?

34 replies

Novella12 · 06/03/2022 08:19

Just need to write this down! Been TTC for 4 years (with varying degrees of intensity), now at the stage where if it happens, it happens so I haven’t been tracking ovulation or anything like that. We took the pressure off.

I’m always a 28 day cycle. Always. Apart from once, the first month we were TTC, when it was 33 days. I remember testing, it was negative, then straight afterwards AF arrived.

Well, today I’m on day 33. Don’t want to test because I’m just sure it’ll be negative. But a little part of me is thinking, maybe…?

Haven’t spoken to DH about it because I don’t want to get his hopes up either (and I know he’ll just tell me to test - I think all the negatives in the early days have given me some kind of test PTSD!)

So, I’m just dropping this here. Limbo!

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ElleGB · 06/03/2022 08:20

I think you need to take a test Flowers

TeddyBeans · 06/03/2022 08:21

I had this last month. Got to CD34 before AF came - usually bang on 28 days. Take a test, it's the only way to know

Cakelover17 · 06/03/2022 09:47

Well it’s totally possible! You need to take a test OP. You Havnt had your covid booster or anything this cycle have you? Only mentioning that because I’ve read on here quite a bit that it’s delayed peoples cycles. Fingers crossed it’s a BFP!

unicornanddinosaur · 06/03/2022 18:59

Have you taken a test yet op?

Novella12 · 07/03/2022 07:21

Took one but the test was a dud!!! No more in the house now, will have to wait until at least tomorrow to take another.

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Cakelover17 · 07/03/2022 08:57

How frustrating for you OP! Still no sign of AF though? Good luck Flowers

Novella12 · 07/03/2022 09:17

No sign really. Bit of backache but that’s about it.

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Novella12 · 09/03/2022 16:03

Just an update ladies. Still no AF, and I can’t do a pregnancy test until Saturday (DH works away and I couldn’t do it without him) But I just found an old OPK in the cupboard from when we started trying and - well, it’s definitely positive. Dying to get my hands on a pregnancy test now! After 4 years this is taking a bit to get my head around!

Could it be…?
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flamingal · 09/03/2022 16:05

Ooh the OPK looks hopeful! Fingers crossed for you 🤞🤞🤞

Unsureaboutit9 · 09/03/2022 16:12

Looks hopeful! Can your do it with him via zoom? I would not be able to wait Blush

Novella12 · 10/03/2022 07:17

@unsureaboutit9 love the zoom idea but I know I’ll need a proper cuddle if it’s negative!

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CRbear · 10/03/2022 09:14

Everything crossed for you!

Novella12 · 10/03/2022 09:19

@CRbear thank you ❤️

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Tinkerbell098 · 10/03/2022 13:58

@Novella12 really hope this is a BFP for you. Keep us updated when you decide to test. Good luck xx

Novella12 · 12/03/2022 07:19

Well, I guess we have the answer!!! Wow. 4 years of TTC. Very good emotional today!

Could it be…?
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starlightmagic · 12/03/2022 07:21

That is super positive! A dye stealer Grin congratulations

Novella12 · 12/03/2022 07:25

Thank you @starlightmagic! Don’t quite know what to do with myself today!

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Marlena1 · 12/03/2022 07:29

Congratulations 🎊 What brilliant news!

Justilou1 · 12/03/2022 07:29

That’s bloody marvellous! Congratulations!!! So very happy for you!!! Please let us know how your DH reacts to the wonderful surprise!!!

Novella12 · 12/03/2022 07:30

Thank you!!

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MasterPretender · 12/03/2022 07:40

Congratulations! That's a very very pregnant test as the test line is way darker than the control line. I think it's called the 'hook effect' where if there's loads of hcg the dye is leached from the control line to the test line. You must be quite far along!

Unsureaboutit9 · 12/03/2022 07:53

Congratulations! Amazing news OP

Novella12 · 12/03/2022 08:14

Thank you! 5 weeks 4 days according to a tracker

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fancyfrogs · 12/03/2022 09:14

Oh I've been checking back here to see if you've tested 😁 congratulations!! Wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy x

TrooBloo · 12/03/2022 09:19

Oh wow OP! So happy for you.