🌈Ttc after miscarriage thread 6 🌈✨🙌💞

[Skl2021]

Flying through these threads ladies 🌈🤞 let's get some more rainbows 💞 xx

I have had similar with ovulation where it's suddenly gone to peak. I think if you DTD every other day you're good. All three times I'm conceived it's been that or less

My clear blue digital progressed to 2-3 weeks today but when I thought the bleeding had stopped i had a little bit more red blood just now :-( feeling hopeless tbh.

Roll on the appt tomorrow and hopefully at least understanding what is happening. Really feel like it's pointing to an ectopic as hcg is going up but I'm bleeding and have no other pain or anything

@flowergarden16 not much longer now hang in there I'm praying it's good news 🤞 I know it's constant worrying hope your ok 💕 xx

Thank you @Skl2021 - hopefully this time tomorrow I will have some answers :-(

So... after feeling like a misery guts the other day, my Amazon order of FRER tests came and I just took one... there is a line! I feel so happy! But now the anxiety is going to kick in. One miscarriage and one ectopic pregnancy in the last 10 months.

Do you think my GP will give me progesterone? When do I ring my EPAU about a scan to check it's not ectopic again..?

Ahh congrats @scoutcat !

If you are worried definitely speak to your GP. But keep the faith, the chances are you'll have a totally perfect pregnancy

I think ring EPU asap, they can book you an appt. I will be 5w3d tomorrow when I am having mine to check for ectopic but I have bleeding. I think if no symptoms 6 weeks x

Good luck with your appointment @flowergarden16, I really hope you get some answers. It must be horrible being in such limbo.

Congratulations @scoutcat! I think there's definitely no harm in ringing your gp/epu to see if there's anything they can do.

Xx

Congrats @scoutcat, agree with the other posters - ask your gp/epu xx

@scoutcat congrats 💞 yes I would ring asap and see what they say xx

@flowergarden16 it sounds positive that you've progressed on Clearblue. I didn't when I had mine. I really hope everything goes well for you tomorrow lovely.

@scoutcat amazing news :) I've got everything crossed for a sticky bean!

I went to the loo today to discover some blood so I think I'm out of the running. Slight plus side is my cycle may be back to 28/29 days instead of the super long 34/35 days but also means I've had a really short luteal phase as the bleed on Saturday could have been start of AF and that was 7dpo. I wasn't tracking ovulation before I got pregnant so I'm not sure if it's always been like this. Is that a bad thing?

Thanks @peachiekeen I'm feeling super anxious and stressed tonight expecting the worst (ectopic and surgery) but just glad we might have some answers tomorrow. I'll let you all know

Good news on the cycles sorting out x

@Sassy144 I'm good thank you got my 2-3 weeks on a CB digi today, I'm away at the moment so only popping in when I have 2 mins 💕 how are you?

@flowergarden16 sorry you're still in limbo I have everything crossed for your appointment tomorrow 🙏🏻

@scoutcat congratulations! 🎉

@flowergarden16 thinking of you today

@flowergarden16 hope everything goes ok today 💞 xx

@calimc83 how are you doing xx

Thank you everyone! I can't quite believe it. I've just phone EPAU and need to ring back when I'm 5 weeks so they can book me in for a scan at 6 weeks. Exciting!

@flowergarden16 good luck today! I'm thinking of you!

Hi everyone. Good news. They can see a sac in the right place. No yolk etc yet but she said it's normal at this stage for it to be like that as you don't know when conception happened.

There is some blood in my uterus but that could be from a pervious period and should be re absorbed.

There is a slightly higher risk of miscarriage (she said 30% vs 25% for normal pregnancy) and have to go back on two weeks for another scan to check if it's grown and we see a heartbeat. If not that would be another MMC.

So the best outcome I could have hoped for. Still not out of the woods but at least I don't have to worry about ectopic now which is a relief.

X

@flowergarden16 that's good news! I hope this puts your mind at ease xx

Thanks @Tofu35

Oh and they prescribed progesterone too without me having to ask. She said it can make a small % difference but anything is worth a shot x

That's good news @scoutcat fingers crossed for you

@flowergarden16 great news at least u can breathe a little now and they offered progesterone without asking! So happy for you xx

@flowergarden16 That's very good news. I bet you feel relieved.

@arianasky that's wonderful, and great that you're having a break away. I'm doing okay thanks, my sister who got pregnant around the same time as me in Jan has her 12 week scan today so preparing myself for mixed emotions around that 💛

Hi, I'm new in this thread. I had a miscarriage last Friday at 6+6 with my first pregnancy. With it being my first I think me and my husband are very worried that this will happen again. It took us 9 months to conceive and I don't know how I'll cope if it's anything like that again. We were almost at the stage of speaking to the GP about fertility investigations but I don't know how long I have to wait for that now.
I know they can't tell me why I miscarried but I have hypermobility in my hips and I'm really worried that my condition has caused this somehow.
My husband has been fantastic with everything that's happened but the rest of my family don't seem to get why I'm upset, it's like they think I was only a few weeks pregnant so it doesn't matter as much.
Just looking to see if anyone here has any advice or anything.

@Frida9 welcome and I'm so sorry. I also lost my first at 6 weeks and am terrified it will happen again. I don't have much advice but I will say that this is a very supportive space and you can share anything here 💛 I also have felt that people think I shouldn't still be upset because it was early, but we all know that isn't true. Grief is grief and it is all valid, no matter when it happened.