Second miscarriage

[CRA994]

Hello just wondering if anyone has been in the same situation really...
I had a miscarriage in November not sure exactly how far I was but I think it was quite early on, fell pregnant again on my last cycle which I found out around the 10th of feb I believe I was between 6-7 weeks I didn't quite make it to my early scan which was booked for tomorrow as over the weekend I had another miscarriage the doctor had taken my bloods to check my hcg level not sure why as I'm sure it will be low my tests are nearly negative already!
I just don't know where to go from here I don't know why it's happening 😥 I'm so worried that I'm never going to be able to get past this point.
Any happy/helpful stories from anyone who's had anything similar would help right now xxx

I am so sorry@CRA994. It's just so unfair. But you're not alone and statistics will tell you that you will have your rainbow baby sooner or later.
There is a thread here on MN for everyone who experienced a loss, or several, with awesome ladies and lots of support if you're interested in joining us?

@Bundaberg84 thank you that would be lovely if you could tag me I just need some reassuring stories I think to help me feel a little more positive xx

I tried, it wouldn't let me - I think I can only tag users that are already within that thread? But anyways, here it is: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/4487775--Ttc-after-miscarriage-thread-5?pg=19

I went through 2 miscarriages last year, same like you but got pregnant after and ds is now 1 month old. As you have gotten pregnant twice, chances are you are okay and it's just the matter of time.

@jesfie could you please talk a bit more about your experience? I've had two early miscarriages and feeling like there's no hope. Sorry to jump on your post @CRA994

Hi @MrsRosaline,

I'm sorry you went through 2 miscarriages. It is never easy. My first mc happened in January 2021 at 7 weeks. We were very happy to welcome our first baby and when we went to the ultrasound, the fetus had no heart beat.

I had to take the pills and abort it forcefully as the body thought I was still pregnant. We took a month break and tried after my next period. We got successful but it was a chemical pregnancy.

We got very discourage and both of us went to do some tests. Everything came normal and doc recommended to do saline sonohystergram which cleared pathways for semen. We had to pay out of pocket though. Next cycle we got lucky and pregnancy was successful. Thank god

If u r worried, go see a doctor and maybe it will help you. I know this can be a stressful time and miscarriages are never easy to deal with but just remember there is always a light at the end of the tunnel. Good luck

@MrsRosaline no not at all I feel like talking to others helps me.
@jesfie sorry about your losses but it's a little reassuring to hear stories with a happy ending,
My first miscarriage was between 5-6 weeks but when I got to my early scan the pregnancy hadn't progressed at all really there was a sac with nothing inside.
I missed a cycle to try give myself a break which I'm not sure if you need to or not or what is recommend but my second pregnancy seemed to get a little further I think I was around 7-8 weeks but not 100% completely came from nowhere I had symptoms of pregnancy started feeling nauseous then Sunday hit and midday I got abit crampy didn't think much untill the bleeding started in the evening so I'm just still in shock and really confused why!
I have an appointment with a private doctor as my gp is so slow. Hoping for some answers xx

@CRA994 most likely it's all good for you and just taking time. I remember this period being very stressful last year and until I had the 12 weeks test, it was stressful