🌈Ttc after miscarriage thread 5 💕✨🤞🌈

[Skl2021]

New thread ladies 🌈🌈🌈

@bunnykins123 it’s frustrating that the tests aren’t more comprehensive. My husband hasn’t had any tests, his view is that we can get pregnant so his swimmers must be fine. But if we ended up having to get more testing privately, if this pregnancy didn’t stick then I think he would get tested if he was told to. I guess up until this point no medical professional has suggested that he could be part of the problem xxx

@Skl2021 how frustrating they can't see you until then, how are you feeling? 💕

@arianasky Thank you. I’m hoping it is just late ov for me. I’ve had a couple signs today, fingers crossed. My dh is working away tonight so can’t dtd , didn’t do it yesterday either do fingers crossed ov happens tomorrow or sat, so we might be in with a chance.

I hope you are feeling ok today, just read your posts from y’day x

@Skl2021 I’m sorry you are going through such a worrying time, I really hope it’s good news, thinking of you 💚

I'm doing ok I'm just numb trying to hold it all together I don't want to break down I won't let it beat me I'm stronger than I think. My oh has today off as we thought we would get scanned today but now with it being tomorrow I don't know if he will be there. Just have to wait it out going to be another long day 😩 thanks everyone for the support 💕 xx

@Skl2021 that's such a shame he won't be able to be there. Would he consider pulling a sickie? Hope you're feeling okay, we are all here for you 💕

@speake that's a good point. The clinic suggested he could be tested for fragmentation but like you say, so far we've actually conceived relatively easily so not sure 🤷‍♀️ it's an absolutely minefield!

@Skl2021 so frustrating that it’s tomorrow. I hope your hubby manages to get tomorrow off as well. I asked my partner not to come with me on Friday last night 😫 if it’s bad news I just can’t handle my own emotions and his as well. I just need to be on my own for it xx

@bunnykins123 he might be able to but we would have to tell family the situation and I don't know if Im ready to tell them. X

@aesgriff I said the same to mine that I should be ok as I'm expecting the worse anyway but I can't guarantee I won't break down in the room so I'm in 2 minds but he would also have to miss work. It's a horrible place to be in. I hope it's good news at your scan tomorrow 💕 wil be thinking of you xx

Thanks @aesgriff, i thought that would be the case but I'm just hoping I'll get a sympathetic gp who understands 😂 I'm waiting for a call back from them.

I know @bunnykins123, I'm glad it's not more than brown but I'm worried it'll progress 🤦🏼‍♀️ thank you, I'll take a look!

@calimc83 im 9dpo today.

@HoneyLemon29 your confusion this morning has made me laugh 😆

Thank you @Ganesh2022.

Ah amazing, thanks @speake! I'm definitely going to take a look at nova.

@Passenger87 I feel okay today thank you! Just absolutely starving 😂 how are you doing?

I'm so sorry you've got to wait another day @Skl2021 😞 Glad you oh is with you to keep you company though. I agree, can he pull a sickie? It is extenuating circumstances. Has the spotting stopped? ❤️

@MangoLipstick ooh hopefully you don't O until he's back 🤞🏻 I have some symptoms but think my body is just messed up at the moment can see it being a week or so before I actually do O

There's no denying it now 😬

That's a good line @cruz86, how are you feeling?

Thank you @Tofu35. I'm actually not feeling too bad. There's obviously some anxiety there but symptom wise, I feel quite normal 😂

@Cruz86 that is a lovely line 💕🙌 xx

@Cruz86 🎉🎉🎉

Thank you both.

@Skl2021 how are you holding up? Xx

Eeek so exciting @Cruz86 congratulations 🥳 did you hear back from the GP?

Omg girls those medicheck tests aren’t for the faint hearted, my husband had a heart attack when he saw how much blood I had over the kitchen 🙈 Don’t think having long nails help for aiming it into the little test tube! Away to post it back & wait with anxious breath for hcg levels
Xxx

@Cruz86 I'm holding up 🙌 I can do this trying to stay strong and I will get through what ever happens. Have alot of cramps and pains tho tummy and back but nothing will change the outcome xx

@speake hope your levels come back ok 🤞✨xx

Thank you @speake! No not yet, could be any time up til 6.30 😩 Omg yes!!! Mine kept pooling in my nail and it was so hard to make it drip into the tube 😂 I ended up with a really sore finger and bruise too. Let us know how you get on with the results!

Oh it sounds like you're staying level-headed @Skl2021 👏🏻 Has the bleeding stopped now? Xx

@Cruz86 it might be different when I get in there 🙈 trying to prepare myself for the worst so it doesn't hit me as bad as last time when I was blissfully ignorant of what could go wrong 🤦 yes bleeding has stopped for now. The way I'm feeling it could start at any moment I'm really crampy xx

@Ganesh2022 oh wow!!! 🤢 definitely non visible so she must be worn free then! How are u getting on?
@Cruz86 that's an amazing line!! Eek x

@Ganesh2022 worm 🪱 even! X

I have everything crossed for you @Skl2021 - what time is your appointment?

@Bridgey8 it's tomorrow at 10 long wait still 🤦 xx

Thank you @Cruz86 & @Skl2021, I don’t think I’ll get them back until Tuesday/Wednesday next week 🙏🏼🤞🏼

@skl2021 it sounds like you are doing so well at remaining calm, roll on 10am tomorrow. I can’t imagine how you’ve felt waiting all day, great that the spotting has stopped at the moment too!

@aesgriff hope you aren’t feeling too anxious for your scan tomorrow too. I totally understand your reasoning for asking your partner not to go with you, there’s something about seeing my husband in pieces that just kills me. Although that’s not going to be the case because positive thoughts that all is going to go well & you’ll see something tomorrow 🙏🏼🤞🏼