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🌈Ttc after miscarriage thread 5 💕✨🤞🌈

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Skl2021 · 21/02/2022 19:19

New thread ladies 🌈🌈🌈

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Skl2021 · 23/02/2022 19:38

@calimc83 I'm going to sit tight and ring at 9 and hope they get back to me. Hoping it doesn't get worse xx

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calimc83 · 23/02/2022 19:40

@Skl2021 if it does ring 111. have you told your OH? X

Skl2021 · 23/02/2022 19:42

@calimc83 I'm hoping if the worst happens I will manage it at home like last time and there's no complications. Yes he knows he's obviously gutted but more worried about me and how I will cope. He's staying off tomorrow incase I get a scan as I can't do it alone xx

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speake · 23/02/2022 19:44

@Cruz86 I’m glad my dog isn’t the only one, she’s such a princess all the rest of the time but clearly her dog instinct gets the better of her now and again 🙈🙈

@Skl2021 wish we could do something more to help xxx

bunnykins123 · 23/02/2022 19:44

@arianasky I'm so sorry that happened to you. I can't believe they hadn't checked their their files! It's such a sensitive issue that you'd think they'd be on top of things like that. I hope you are doing okay though 💕 regarding O pains, I get the whole works - cramping, one sided pains - you make it, I get it. Although I never know if it's before, during or after O 🤷‍♀️

@Ganesh2022 @calimc83 @speake omg that sounds tres yuck (but I have been LOLing at your stories!) The joys of parenthood!

@Skl2021 awh hun I'm so sorry the spotting has come back. Sending you the biggest hug and hand hold. @aesgriff makes some really good suggestions, I would defo consider A&E as I think they do have those portable ultrasounds that they can use. I know your scared but please remember ever pregnancy is different and I've seen so many posts from women who spot for their entire 1st tri with successful pregnancies. This could well just be one of those 'things'.

calimc83 · 23/02/2022 19:48

@Skl2021 he sounds great, try and get some sleep tonight if u can and distract yourself if at all possible xxxx

Bridgey8 · 23/02/2022 19:49

@Skl2021 yes I had brown spotting which the midwife said was fine but to contact my gp if it changed (midwives can't refer here until 16 weeks) and then over a weekend it started to be a bit more pink so I rang the gp on Monday and had the scan on the tues. all seemed fine on scan so they said if stayed the same not to go again but if it changes again to contact my gp to be referred xx

arianasky · 23/02/2022 19:49

@Skl2021 I'm glad your DH can stay off tomorrow to support you, I have everything crossed for you ❤️

@bunnykins123 thank you 💕 hmm maybe that's what my twinges are then

Skl2021 · 23/02/2022 19:54

@speake thanks but nothing will change the outcome I just need to prepare myself xx

@bunnykins123 I just don't want to be alone and you can't have anyone in our a+e so would rather wait. Xx

@Bridgey8 yes mine was brown the other day and now it's pink. I have never bled in my successful pregnancies only in my last one were I had the miscarriage that's what's worrying me. Xx

@arianasky thanks that's even if I can get hold of them tomorrow 🤦 and epu shuts at dinner so not alot of time to try and get in xx

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Cruz86 · 23/02/2022 19:57

My dog is an absolute princess too @speake! What breed is yours?

I feel okay thank you @calimc83. I've got a little bit of pink spotting now though, so not holding out much hope! X

bunnykins123 · 23/02/2022 19:58

@Skl2021 I'm glad you have DH with you and he will be with you tomorrow. Totally agree with your decision, see what the midwives say tomorrow. Really hoping for good news 💕💕

Bridgey8 · 23/02/2022 19:59

@Skl2021 mine went a bit pink but then back to brown after a day. It could be anything causing it lovely. But I get protecting yourself - my husband doesn't understand why I can't be positive about this pregnancy but I'm just protecting my heart. Sending love xxx

bunnykins123 · 23/02/2022 20:00

@Cruz86 if bean has only just implanted, it could totally be delayed implantation bleeding? What day do you usually get AF?

Skl2021 · 23/02/2022 20:03

@Cruz86 sorry you have the spotting too 😥 what a day! Hope your ok 💕 keep strong xx

@bunnykins123 thanks I hope I get somewhere this time 🤞 xx

@Bridgey8 Im to scared to go back to the toilet incase it's worse 🤦 got alot of backache aswell. Yes it's such a hard place to be in after a loss you never feel safe xx

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Bridgey8 · 23/02/2022 20:05

@Skl2021 I've been having on and off back pain. I think that's normal in pregnancy - bloody hormones xxx

Passenger87 · 23/02/2022 20:06

Ladies I want go run a few errands and make dinner and I had some catching up to do. We are some chatterboxes

@arianasky I'm so sorry that happened. Its so thoughtless! Glad you've received an investigation referral and will hopefully get some info. Knowledge is power.

@Skl2021 I can only imagine the stress you must feel and totally understand you bracing for the worst. 4, 7,8 breathing can be really helpful if you find yourself feeling very anxious. Breathe in for 4, hold for 7, Breathe out for 8. It's what I use to help me sleep when my mind is racing xxx

Cruz86 · 23/02/2022 20:08

I hope that's what it is @bunnykins123! I would've normally been spotting for about 3/4 days already by now so that's a positive. Af would probably arrive in 2 days.

@Skl2021 I'm glad your OH will be with you, it's scary enough to go through, let alone being on your own xxx

aesgriff · 23/02/2022 20:24

@Skl2021 keep us updated ♥️♥️ Xx

@Cruz86 deffo implantation if you’re 8dpo 🤞🏻🤞🏻 Are you going to test in the morning? Xx

Skl2021 · 23/02/2022 20:26

Just been to toilet and it's now red blood when I wipe. Just getting worse. X

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aesgriff · 23/02/2022 20:27

@Skl2021 ooooh 😖 how much red blood? A few drops or start of a period? Xx

Passenger87 · 23/02/2022 20:34

@Skl2021 I'm so sorry that you Re going through this. Maybe call a&e and see if they will allow your partner in under the circumstances. They might show some compassion

speake · 23/02/2022 20:40

@Skl2021 my heart is breaking for you, praying that it’s not the worst 🙏🏼🤍 You’re really in my thoughts tonight xxxx

@Cruz86 aww our little furbabies, mine is a cross between a Maltese & a poodle (maltipoo) so she’s just a tiny ball of fluff. What about yours? Xx

arianasky · 23/02/2022 20:44

@Skl2021 I'm thinking of you 💕

@Cruz86 sounds like implantation bleeding as you're only 8dpo 🙏🏻🌈

bunnykins123 · 23/02/2022 20:46

@Skl2021 😢 I'm so sorry. Sending you the biggest hug. I hope you are being looked after by DP 💕

Skl2021 · 23/02/2022 20:58

I have put a pad on now see what happens going to be a long night ahead. Just hope it doesn't happen through the night. Can't believe I'm doing this again just feels surreal. Thanks everyone for the support 💕 means alot to have u all with me xx

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