🌈Ttc after miscarriage thread 5 💕✨🤞🌈

[Skl2021]

New thread ladies 🌈🌈🌈

@Cruz86 my eyes are shit and I 100 percent see it 👏

@Cruz86 ohh I see it!! Eek...sorry for the TMI but have u noticed any change in CM with this BFP? X

Ergh the EPU just rang me asking why I didn't show for my scan and is everything ok!? 🙄 I'm so upset/angry I rang them and told them I'd miscarried and that's when they referred me to recurrent miscarriage clinic and apparently cancelled all future appointments and scans. The midwife then filled in the recurrent miscarriage clinic form on the phone and booked my first apartment for 11th April. That was another heartache since my due date should have been 6th April so the thought of being seen for that reason 4 days after I should've given birth is heartbreaking 💔 I'm sorry to rant but had to get it out 😞

Eeek!! Let's hope your shit eyes haven't failed me @Ganesh2022 😂 How are you today?

@calimc83 this probably sounds ridiculous and the opposite to what others say, but I haven't got anywhere near as much cm as I usually do at this stage in my cycle. I hope that doesn't mean anything 😬 but with my bfp in October, I had loads! Not this time though 🤷🏼‍♀️

@Cruz86 nope that was done at EPU. Wild actually isn’t it there’s me stressing about not seeing anything on an ultrasound yet I’m literally 21dpo today 🤯 xx

@arianasky oh I feel so angry on your behalf!!! It doesn’t take two minutes to read someone’s file and double check before ringing. I’m so sorry xx

My poor doggie has just been sick and in turn I have just been sick.. what a day to be alive!! Xx

@arianasky I’m so sorry you’ve had to go through that today, they don’t seem very well organised atall. You’d think they’d be doing their upmost given most if not all pregnancies they see will be sensitive. It is positive that you have a date to attend the recurrent miscarriage clinic although I understand that having it so close to your due date hurts 😞 Could you ask them to delay it by a week if it would make you feel a bit better? Sending hugs xx

I'm so sorry @arianasky, I absolutely understand why that's been difficult for you. How insensitive for them to call you, clearly something went wrong with their cancellations. I'm glad you've got a date to be seen, even though it's at a really tough time 😞 xxx

When you put it like that @aesgriff, it really does make sense that you can't see anything yet!! X

@arianasky I'm sorry 😥 I don't understand how there can be such a mix up when u cancelled them all. They only had to look on your file before ringing and upsetting you. Try not to let it bring you down 💕 xx

@aesgriff exactly, it just comes accross as so unorganised on their behalf, I'm someone who will push things like that aside as I don't like to deal with it but if they did that to someone who was very vulnerable and upset I hate to think 🙄

@speake thank you 💕 I know so daft of them tbh. I was thinking of that on the phone but the reality is wether I have it then or a few weeks later it still should've been when I had my baby so just aswell get it done ASAP.

Sorry to bring the thread down ladies I'm over it now just had a funny few minutes where I was upset and needed to vent, thank you ❤️

You have absolutely no reason to apologise @arianasky. That's what this thread is for ❤️

Thanks @Skl2021 ❤️ I'm not going to, I've forgotten about it already ( sort of 😂 )

Another ovulation question sorry ladies, does anyone ever get feelings similar to pins and needles like a twinge type feeling where their ovary is near Ovulation? I've never heard of it before but I had it last month and I'm getting it at the moment? Like it twinges on the skin very strange 😂

Thank you @Cruz86 ❤️

@arianasky WTF! :( In the age of computers and instant communication, literally no excuse for that kind of thing happening. So sorry they did that.

@Cruz86 I just looked again on computer versus phone, and it's even clearer. Funny you should say that re CM...I was dryer than usual at BFP, it's only the last couple days it's been wet (and thus scary in a diff way...always something...)

@calimc83 Well done on holding off testing!!!!

@Cruz86 ha agree with @bunnykins123 re your nails...if I posted that, mine would be all chewed and ragged

@Ganesh2022 @Cruz86 I'm dry as a bone! 😂😂😂 x

@aesgriff does this help your stomach...I had to check DD's bum for worms 🐛 this morning! Oh the glamour 🤢😩 x

@aesgriff that dream made me lol! I’m a fellow Potter head too 🤓

@Cruz86 I can see faint lines too! I’ve got everything crossed for you!!!

@arianasky I’m so angry and upset for you. Why is it so hard to get the right support and for people to communicate these days?

@Sassy144 thank you - she still hasn’t properly arrived and it’s doing my head in and I feel like I’m actually possibly losing the plot a bit. I just need her to arrive in full force so I can rejoin society as a semi-normal human being again!

@calimc83 your living the rock and roll lifestyle 🙌🤣🙊 xx

@peachiekeen I know right? It's not exactly hard 🙄

@Ganesh2022 thank you 💕 exactly no excuses at all!

@calimc83 omg we’ve done the worm thing. Nastiest thing I’ve ever seen 🤮

Just been to the toilet and started with alot of pink discharge now. I think it's over. Something isn't right. Will have to wait until morning now to contact midwife xx

@aesgriff @calimc83 grim 🤢😂 I’ve got one for you too, my dog picked up my dd giant poo out the potty yesterday & ran through my downstairs with it 😭 I was chasing her screaming, DH came running downstairs thinking someone had broken into the house with all the commotion! Kids & animals 🙈🙈

@Skl2021 sending you the biggest hugs, I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Is there an out of house number for the EPU that you could try? Thinking they could give you progesterone or something to help if you’ve started spotting xxx