Hi everyone,
I started on the complex plan with Dr S in September 2021, having had 5 miscarriages all naturally conceived. Last BFP was July 2021. Since being on the plan we haven't been able to conceive at all and have ended up down the IVF route as we just didn't want to hang around. I've read a few of us are in the same boat of no longer conceiving while on the plan - I wonder if there is anything to this or just plain bad luck (as if we need more).
I'm currently in the TWW after a fresh transfer, we got 4 blastos but only 2 were any good, we decided to put one in the freezer as didn't want to increase mc risk any further with twins (as if twins is even a remote possibility!!) Haven't done PGS testing this round. Feel mixed about that decision. If we had lots of blastos I think we would go for it.
Just really hoping we get a chance to at least test out Dr S' plan soon - I had humira in Sep 2021 and he said it lasts a year so running out of time before having to do that again 🙄 and also on 25mg pred. Did intralipids before egg collection.
I keep reminding myself that his clinic does have a lot of success stories for people, every time I visit there are couples clearly happy from a scan. Then there are those of us that unfortunately it hasn't worked yet, for whatever reason. Remember we are on Mumsnet on this thread for a reason - the people who have successes don't tend to hang about here!
It is tough though having to put trust in a clinic where the drugs clearly state not suitable got pregnancy etc etc and the amount they charge is disgusting - agree we are being taken advantage of! Of course we would all say it is totally worth it if else ever get our baby but sometimes that feels like a big IF.
Anyway sorry I meant to try and bring some positivity but ended up rambling on - think we all feel similar in being quite anxious about the future and clinging onto hope. This thread is lovely to have support on through this shit journey ❤️