TTC after Miscarriage

[Bon234]

So I guess I’d just like to reach out for abit of support & advice

I had a miscarriage November 30th at 9 weeks which was only identified on a scan 🥺 absolutely devastating 2 weeks before my wedding day. I had a D&C a few days later.
We’ve been trying ever since. I’ve only really had 1 proper period last month & I use OPKs & BD every other day at least during the time we should but I’m losing hope & struggling to cope with the upset & disappointment each month. Everyone around me is pregnant, I work as a nurse & work with a girl thats due the same date as I would have been & it breaks my heart to see her bump 🥺.

How do people get by & not let it take over your life? Xx

Hi @Bon234
Sorry about your loss.
I had a MC last month and have just been given all clear to try again. I've been TTC for almost a year with 1 Ectopic and 1 MC so far.
I feel your pain ♥️
What I've found helps me (and I hope one of these things helps you too)

1. I talk to my partner and close friend about my journey. My family also know we are ttc.
2. I try and stay in control of my journey as much as I can so I track bbt, opk, cm and use an app every day so I know where I am exactly in my cycle. I also research a lot online & watch YouTube videos about supplements, diet, workouts, homeopathic remedies and have chosen the ones that relate to me and have made myself a daily plan.
3. I try and stay busy - work hard, plan things with my partner, family and friends, cleaning, reading, self care, I'm also planning my wedding so that helps.
4. Have something else to look forward too - a holiday, event, night out, spa day
5. I also journal everything

But also it's completely normal to feel upset and anxious so please don't beat yourself up.

How are you doing this cycle ?

Thankyou so much that’s really useful💜
It makes me feel better knowing I’m not the only one.

Well I’m meant to have AF on 17/2 but the app changed it to 15/2 bcus I ovulated early on the OPKs🤔 so I’m not too sure but I was feeling more positive & thought I’d had a few good signs this time but I did a test this morning & it’s negative 😕
It’s the worst just hoping for bfp always! Xx

It is.
The TWW is always BRUTAL.
What dpo are you ?

I’m 12 DPO but confused about when my AF will be bcus of the app changing it 😬