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Ttc after miscarriage thread 4 🌈💞✨🤞

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Skl2021 · 08/02/2022 18:39

New thread ladies 💞🌈✨

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Passenger87 · 19/02/2022 14:43

@Prayingformyrainbow93 I'm not 100%. I got peak on cbd on Tues but peak on one step cheapies on Thursday. So either 3 dpo or 1 dpo.

Will like be symptom spotting by 5 dpo knowing me!!

I also got ' it starts with the egg ' on audible and started listening.

Every little helps I guess

Prayingformyrainbow93 · 19/02/2022 15:05

@arianasky sorry that you’re going through this again 😔 but in talks about your symptoms, I was exactly the same with this CP I felt awful, drained, headaches and the boobs like you say! It did pass probably after a week or so, hopefully you’re feeling a bit better soon lovely 😘

@Passenger87 I’m using the CBD too, haven’t ever used anything else and I always thought the day of peak was ovulation but then I’ve seen that O happens 12-36 hours post static smiley! My peak has come today so I might count tomorrow as O day! Xx

Sassy144 · 19/02/2022 15:08

@peachiekeen I'm really sorry 💛 I also miscarried my first pregnancy last month at 5w4d and I'm due af today. I just took a test and bfn, a mixture of emotions really like you say. Sending lots of love ✨

arianasky · 19/02/2022 15:31

@Prayingformyrainbow93 thank you 💕 hopefully the symptoms will pass soon then 🤞🏻

calimc83 · 19/02/2022 15:35

@arianasky so sorry to hear u are feeling awful. Could you be rundown with everything that's happened?
@Skl2021 can u have a chilled weekend?! Hope u feel better soon xx

peachiekeen · 19/02/2022 15:41

@Sassy144 Oh bless you I’m so sorry. I’m guessing our cycles are a bit messed up now. I hate not knowing what to expect. AF still not here but I don’t know what to think. I tested 2 days ago as I had a cocktail making class so wanted to just be sure and it was a BFN. It was a long shot anyway. Hope you’re OK x

Skl2021 · 19/02/2022 15:42

@arianasky I'm sorry your having a crappy time. I got the headaches and bad skin after my miscarriage. Hope It eases soon for you 💕

@calimc83 IV just got home from work. I could just go to bed. 🤣🤦 I might be getting draged out with family for tea 🙄 not exactly what I want to do 🙈 xx

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Cruz86 · 19/02/2022 15:48

Oh god, I can't stop symptom spotting 😩 I can't eat anything without getting terrible indigestion afterwards x

Skl2021 · 19/02/2022 16:01

@Cruz86 do you normally get indigestion?! X

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Cruz86 · 19/02/2022 16:05

I've just had a look at my symptoms from previous months and the last time I put indigestion in was when I conceived @Skl2021 😩😩 x

Skl2021 · 19/02/2022 16:08

@Cruz86 that's great news think positive!! 🤞🙌 What dpo are you? Xx

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arianasky · 19/02/2022 17:00

@calimc83 I think I am just exhausted tbh I'm going to have a complete lazy pyjama day tomorrow to recharge I think, I saw you're 1DPO how exciting I have everything crossed for you 🤞🏻

@Skl2021 ah thank you, yeah my skin is dreadful at the moment just another annoying thing to add 🙄 i'm glad your doing well 💕 well apart from the strong symptoms but you know 🙈

@Cruz86 oohh that sounds promising 🤞🏻🤞🏻

Skl2021 · 19/02/2022 17:35

@arianasky I said exactly the same 🤣 what else can I add to the list as if there isn't enough?! My symptoms haven't been here today which now is making me worry 🤦 don't know if it's because IV been at work so been distracted. Always something eh?! 🙄 Hope your skin sorts itself out soon 🤞 xx

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bunnykins123 · 19/02/2022 18:11

@peachiekeen I'm sorry to hear about your miscarriage. It's such a heartbreaking thing to happen. You'll get lots of support here. Sending hugs 💕

@calimc83 how do you feel now that you're in the TWW?! I'm a bit envious. My fertility week is now fast approaching which means becoming an obsessed woman to my poor DH. Any signs yet?! Or is that a bit ambitious...🤔

@aesgriff this was just the blood panel from the GP (thyroid etc) so I guess the fertility clinic could draw up something else? I totally was banking on having a dodgy thyroid though so now that it's come back in a good range, I'm a bit stumped 🤷‍♀️

@arianasky sounds all very normal, I think your hormones will probably be a bit off until your next cycle. I've now accumulated 5 lovely spots (initially put it down to acupuncture) so I am having a similar outbreak too.

Holidaycomedown · 19/02/2022 18:47

@peachiekeen sorry you're here Flowers were you tracking ovulation?

@speake horrified at your treatment Angry might be worth complaining/asking for a 2nd opinion, as the magic number clinically is always 3+.

@arianasky I'm so sorry for your loss. In my miscarriages I've always felt exhausted and depleted so soon afterwards. The sudden progesterone drop is like super-PMS before you factor in how traumatic it is.

So I'm CD20 and no hint of ovulation. Come on ovaries! Ideally righty so my remaining tube stands a chance.

peachiekeen · 19/02/2022 18:56

Thank you @bunnykins123 I’ve been dipping in and out for a while and you all seem so lovely and supportive. I think it’s so hard because everyone kind of expects me to be OK by now and I’m just not. Reading through this has been comforting. I can’t even imagine how it must feel for people who have been on this journey far longer than me.

@Holidaycomedown no I didn’t! And I’m gutted I didn’t. I bought a CB digital one and it didn’t blinking work - just flashed the book at me so I missed my window as didn’t want to buy another in the meantime. So I’ve got no idea where my body’s at 🤦🏽‍♀️ I might try that one you suggested earlier though if AF arrives.

calimc83 · 19/02/2022 19:22

@Skl2021 argh did u go?! 😖 get to bed if you can..@Cruz86 ohhh symptoms sound promising!! Eek @arianasky thanks!! Trying not to get obsessive this 2WW..will see 😆 xx

calimc83 · 19/02/2022 19:24

@bunnykins123 😆😆 trying to feel positive so far...and not obsessively symptom spot. Every time I've felt sick/crampy etc in previous cycles it was nothing so...🤷‍♀️..I'm trying to tell myself I know by body can do it..so it can do it again! 😬 xx

Skl2021 · 19/02/2022 20:04

@calimc83 yes at the sister in law's waiting for Chinese trying to stay awake 🤦 sickness ramping up as I'm starving 🙈 xx

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Ganesh2022 · 19/02/2022 20:52

@Skl2021 sorry you’re feeling crappy, are u feeling better emotionally?
@arianasky I had the similar, felt shitty/symptomy post bleed, real icing on the cake :( hope it all comes right—I think I read you have an appt soon with clinic? How u feeling in yourself/emotionally?

Lots of ppl I’ve missed, including new ones (welcome!) but have been thinking of this group a lot and hoping everyone is as ok as possible physically, mentally..I also believe I missed a bfp tho as I’m on my phone not sure how to go back and see who to congratulate without losing my whole message...! Back from holiday so gonna plunge in properly tomorrow and talk all your ears off 🤣
My own news...I caved and tested this morning as was bleeding slightly so just wanted a conclusive answer either way. Faint but visible bfp. Feeling shocked, anxious, hopeful.

Ganesh2022 · 19/02/2022 20:54

@calimc83 did I read you started acupuncture? Sorry if that was someone else!

aesgriff · 19/02/2022 21:27

@Ganesh2022 eeee!!! 😍😍😍😍

aesgriff · 19/02/2022 21:28

@Skl2021 I think the tiredness is starting to hit now!! Also I’m sooooo hot!!! I wake up in bed sweating is this normal?! Xx

aesgriff · 19/02/2022 21:31

Welcome @peachiekeen so sorry you’re joining us xx

aesgriff · 19/02/2022 21:31

So who have we got in the TWW….? @Cruz86 @calimc83