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Ttc after miscarriage thread 4 🌈💞✨🤞

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Skl2021 · 08/02/2022 18:39

New thread ladies 💞🌈✨

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Cruz86 · 18/02/2022 23:00

Yay!! Well done @calimc83. I think you've done enough 😂

Great news @aesgriff!! So happy for you. Good luck with your scan.

@speake I'm sorry you had such a shut experience at the clinic, how completely and utterly insensitive.

I went out for dinner tonight and ate way too much food, but I'm obviously now in overdrive questioning why I've got such bad indigestion now 😂 xx

Sassy144 · 19/02/2022 06:16

Af due today and my temp has dropped this morning so don't think I'll need to test. I'm actually okay that it's not our month, I had a little cry last night as thinking about potentially being pregnant again brought back everything from the MC. I don't think I'm ready to potentially go through that again yet, it's only been a month.

theblueflowers · 19/02/2022 07:33

OMG!

Ttc after miscarriage thread 4 🌈💞✨🤞
calimc83 · 19/02/2022 07:50

Morning all 🤗 1 DPO..where are those tests?! 😆 @Ganesh2022 how are u getting on?
@theblueflowers huge congrats 🥳 how many DPO are u? Xx

bunnykins123 · 19/02/2022 08:13

@calimc83 sounds like you're in with a good chance this month! And now it's time to symptom spot...here's to overanalysing everything for the next 10 days 😂

@theblueflowers oh wow big congratulations!! 💕 I'm so happy for you!

@Sassy144 awh I'm sorry to hear that. It's such a stressful and emotional journey ttc. Try and have a stress free and relaxing weekend if you can.

@aesgriff those numbers are GREAT! I think you can take a deep breath and try and relax a little bit now you know that your numbers are more than doubling (very good sign!)

@Cruz86 remind me how many dpo you are? Indigestion could well be a good sign (or a food baby 🤷‍♀️)

@speake god that's so upsetting, I'm so sorry you had to experience that. I do think some of these clinics completely lack compassion and empathy for women who have had miscarriages. Fingers crossed everything is going absolutely fine though so you don't need the blood tests and prog for reassurance. How are you feeling?

@Skl2021 how are you feeling? Are you having any symptoms?

calimc83 · 19/02/2022 08:20

@bunnykins123 😆🙈 going to try my best not to...and have told myself absolutely no cervix checking this cycle! 😩..how are u getting on? X

Cruz86 · 19/02/2022 08:22

I hope af stays away for you @Sassy144 but I completely understand what you mean about not feeling ready.

Ahh congratulations @theblueflowers!! What a lovely line. How many dpo are you?

I'm either 2dpo or 4dpo @bunnykins123, so still very early 😂 x

Skl2021 · 19/02/2022 08:35

@theblueflowers huge congratulations 💕✨ xx

@bunnykins123 I'm feeling rough. Sickness headaches dizziness. Just want to sleep. IV just finished antibiotics so don't know if it was them or pregnancy. Both started at the same time 🤦 how are you? Xx

@calimc83 definitely no cervix diggin 🙈🤣🙌 xx

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theblueflowers · 19/02/2022 08:39

Thank you all so much! Really hoping to see more BFPs on this thread really soon.

I'm 9dpo! Can't quite believe it really. I've been having symptoms- sore boobs and cramping for days now, but was trying to convince myself that I was just symptom spotting.

I was weirdly calm taking the test, like it was just confirming what I already knew.

bunnykins123 · 19/02/2022 08:56

@theblueflowers that's a really good line for 9dpo! I'm really happy for you!

@Skl2021 oh noooo! Looks like your in that dreaded 'morning sickness' period where you just feel rough for a month. I'd take it as a very very positive sign! I'd suspect it is the pregnancy as you're at the classic time now for all those symptoms to kick in. I'm fine, CD10 and spotting still. Wish it would just hurry up and be over with but I guess this is typical with what I've had with all my other chemicals 🙄

@Cruz86 nevvvver too early to symptom spot! Got my fingers crossed for you!

@calimc83 haha I can never tell the difference! The old 'boobie grope' is usually a good indicator for me 😂 I'm all good thanks, just getting myself up for my fertile week next week. I'm going to try and be as chilled about it as possible (who am I kidding 🙈)

Skl2021 · 19/02/2022 09:02

@theblueflowers super line for 9 dpo! 🤞💕 Xx

@bunnykins123 I usually start with it at 6 weeks but this time I'm over 7. It all started the same time as I started antibiotics which made me question is it them 🙈 can't stand constant nasuea feeling 🤦 sorry to hear your still spotting 😩 hope it stops soon for you 🤞 will you be ovulating soon or is that delayed aswell? X

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Cruz86 · 19/02/2022 09:33

@calimc83 I had some acrylic nails done on Thursday for the first time in ages, so definitely no cervix digging for me either! 😂😂

Sorry you're feeling so rough @Skl2021 😩 hope you feel better soon.

@bunnykins123 honestly, i symptom spot from 1dpo, it's ridiculous! Thank you x

Sassy144 · 19/02/2022 09:51

Thank you @bunnykins123 @Cruz86 such a mix of emotions ❤️

Hug congratulations @theblueflowers, lovely to see!

Prayingformyrainbow93 · 19/02/2022 10:08

Congratulations @theblueflowers 🌈♥️

@calimc83 Absolutely, so difficult to switch off it’s constantly on the brain! But I am trying to be better this month with the over thinking and also decided I’m not going to test until I’d be over 5 weeks, the CP last month was too much after the MC I’d rather just wait! Hopefully you’ll get your BFP this time, when do you think you’re going to test? Xx

Passenger87 · 19/02/2022 10:38

Congratulations @theblueflowers!! That's a beautiful line for 9dpo.

Isn't it funny how sometimes you just "know"!!

Trying to keep myself busy through the tww. Gonna try hold off testing till the 27th...let's see how that goes Grin

Prayingformyrainbow93 · 19/02/2022 10:54

How many dpo are you? @Passenger87 hope it goes quickly! Xx

Cruz86 · 19/02/2022 12:01

That's when I'm going to try and wait till as well @Passenger87. Fingers crossed for us both x

Tofu35 · 19/02/2022 12:41

Under the tyranny of the flashing smiley right now, the mocking wee brute! We've just booked a few long weekend breaks for the next two months, let's see if that can't tempt the fates to give me that BFP before I board a ferry!

bunnykins123 · 19/02/2022 13:03

@Cruz86 is that not entirely normal?! 😂 I symptom spot after we've just DTD 🤷‍♀️

@Skl2021 I think 7 weeks is totally bang on normal to get your symptoms. It all sounds super promising 🤞 I know, the spotting is annoying but it's only in the morning so I'm hoping it'll stop over the next couple of days!

@Tofu35 im not sure if I love the flashy or hate it (I got 9 flashys last month 🙄). I mean it's helpful to know that my hormones are doing something but it makes me way more obsessive during the period. Good luck!

I got my bloods back today from GP (I'm quite impressed - I only had them done yesterday morning!). All normal. I'm not sure how I feel about this. I think I actually wanted to have a deficiency somewhere so that I could sort it out. Boo.

aesgriff · 19/02/2022 13:36

@theblueflowers congrats!! Xx

aesgriff · 19/02/2022 13:36

@bunnykins123 that’s annoying about the blood test results 😞 are there any next steps? Xx

calimc83 · 19/02/2022 13:42

@theblueflowers fab line for 9 DPO..☺️
@Cruz86 😆😆 defo no digging about with acrylics on...@Hopingforarainbow27 I might test end of next weekend. I think getting a negative helps me draw a line under that cycle somehow? But will see how I feel..
@Passenger87 i 💯 start symptom spotting straight after DTD xx

calimc83 · 19/02/2022 13:42

@bunnykins123 meant to tag u in that! 😅 xx

peachiekeen · 19/02/2022 13:50

Hi, I’m a newbie here. I miscarried my first pregnancy last month at 5 weeks 3 days. I was devastated. I’m now currently due AF today and am overthinking every single twinge. I was as regular as clockwork before but I’m not sure now. I took an early test 2 days ago but it was negative. I’ve got mixed emotions too. I desperately want to be pregnant again but am also so scared of going through it again. The waiting is the absolute worst. Sending lots of love to everyone on here. I’ve tried to catch up with your stories as best as I can

arianasky · 19/02/2022 13:51

@theblueflowers congratulations lovely line for 9dpo 🎉

@Skl2021 sorry to hear you're feeling so rough. 💕

I'm CD6 today and bleeding has stopped but I feel awful? I'm so exhausted, my boobs are still full and I feel nauseous and pressure headaches a lot! I've stopped bleeding and my pregnancy tests are completely negative now has anyone else felt like this a few days after miscarrying at all? Also it's not COVID I've tested to check, the exhaustion is out of this world! Oh and I've got the joy of an acne breakout including some cystic ones 😭🙄