Ttc after miscarriage thread 4 🌈💞✨🤞

[Skl2021]

New thread ladies 💞🌈✨

@HoneyLemon29 I'm CD8 now, so will start tracking tomorrow morning onwards.

@bunnykins123 hopefully we get good positive LH tests next week 🤞

@Raindrops2015 congratulations! A BFP at that DPO is not unheard of- you probably just implanted early if it's pretty clear?

@arianasky welcome back, glad to read that you have an appointment in the near future- hopefully it can give you some answers for the shitty situation you are in.

@Skl2021 @aesgriff Thank you- I knew a situation like this would come up, but am actually surprised at how much the message affected me! Felt like I was hit in the gut. To be honest I think seeing her is going to depend on if I have a BFP or not by then... my period is due next Thursday and we're meeting on Saturday so i'll definitely know. I'm just glad that I will have a little while to process/get over it if it's not a positive before we catch up.

@Cruz86 I was using MyOva when I got my first BFP. Not sure if this was the answer, but I have irregular cycles so never really knew if/when I was ovulating. We were trying for about 7 months and the second month since using it I got pregnant. I am now taking the Viridian brand that @Ganesh2022 mentioned as it is cheaper! I ovulated just over a week after a negative pregnancy test from my miscarriage, so again, whilst I don't know if this is what did it, I'm going to keep taking it as it can't hurt!

@HoneyLemon29 definitely not too late- temping is all about confirming ovulation really, and getting to know your cycle. You want to combine temping and OKPs for the clearest picture. I also think the sooner you start, the sooner you get into a good habit with it, as if you are using a mouth thermometer you have to be really strict with when you take your temperature. It takes some getting used to. I couldn't get on with it so now I use Ovusense which is so much easier.

Sorry I’ve been MIA for a few days, just trying to take my mind off things and just enjoy being pregnant without the constant worry. I had quite abit of cramping yesterday and abit today so of course I’m really worried, I think alot of it is to do with the amount of gas and bloating I have tbh. So nervous about my scan on Sunday its not till later afternoon but will keep you all updated.

Hope everyone else is okay and can’t wait to see some BFPs! Welcome to the new members also, its a lovely supportive place 💕 x

Hi everyone,

I hope you don’t mind me joining. I had a MMC in December, baby stopped growing at 8 weeks and we found out at 12. Finally had my first positive OPK this morning on CD22. DTD last night and unsure on whether to wait till tomorrow or just go for it 🙈🤷🏼‍♀️ @calimc83 you’re similar timings aren’t you?

Well done for not testing @Ganesh2022! Hope you've had a lovely break but not such good news about your finger.

Hope you feel better soon @JuniperAndTonic!

Congratulations @Raindrops2015. I got a clear faint bfp with my son at 9dpo. He's now 4.5 ☺️

Welcome back @arianasky. I really hope you get some answers soon. What a shit hand you've been dealt with 😞 Where did you buy the progesterone cream from?

Giddy up girl, I love that @aesgriff 😂 I'm going to have a look at MyOva. Thing is, I do ovulate but it's normally just very late in my cycle so I wonder if it would have the same effect for me? Thank you for the info @theblueflowers, I'll have a read!

Hi @Pearl93, sorry you're joining us here but welcome! I'm on cd21 so we're around the same time! I'd say dtd tonight and tomorrow as well ☺️

I thought ovulation happened yesterday for me but I've had the most ewcm all cycle today, so looks like we'll be getting down to business again tonight! X

@Pearl93 I'm sorry to hear about your loss. And if I was you I would just go for it as you may ovulate tomorrow. Good luck 🤞 😄

@Pearl93 sorry you find yourself on this page. I normally use the Flo app along with the OPK’s and dtd every day that the app predicts (normally 5ish days) whilst also testing to make sure I don’t miss it so i’d definitely go again tonight. I basically try to cover off a few days before ovulation, day of peak and a couple of days after… literally don’t want to look at my husband for a good couple of weeks after 😂

Well I’ve had a really bad few days but I’m feeling a bit better now. Spoke to my line manager and from next week I’ll be WFH. I haven’t been coping well coming in to the office at all.
My cycle this month is exactly the same as it was 2 years ago- CD1 on Valentine’s Day. DS was conceived that cycle. I’m hoping it’s a weird sign of fate or something that I’m in an identical cycle. Hoping for an identical outcome…

@speake thank you for letting me know about that I'll have a chat with DP later and see what he thinks is best 💕

@bunnykins123 I did ask but I can't have any bloods done until my referral they said, did you get the cyclogest from your GP? If you bought it where from please?

@Cruz86 I bought it off Amazon I'll attach a pic below I'm not sure if it's any good but I thought it's worth a try 🙏🏻

@arianasky I registered with a clinic after my second chemical and asked if I could have some then. They gave them to me, no questions asked (expensive though!!) another op mentioned below an online clinic, perhaps that's worth exploring until you get your referral through?

@calimc83 3 new spots today. All on different side of my face to all the 100000s I've ever had before. That's weird. Maybe the acupuncture is doing something?! 🤷‍♀️

@Pearl93 so sorry to hear about your MMC. Welcome 🤗 yes, just had my positive OPK. Think I might go one last time?!
@aesgriff yea hah! 😂🐴
@Cruz86 do u think u have ovulated now?
@bunnykins123 ohhh..could well be?! I tend to find my spots are all hormonal based..where are u again in your cycle? Xx

Am going to catch up properly on where everyone is at on the 5 hour drive we have back home on Sat...my DH doesn't want my mood to completely tank the remainder of the holiday, so I haven't caved/hopefully won't cave...I have two tests right here...this is major for me lol. I'm 8 or 9 dpo. Not feeling positive at all, but I know from the past that's not an indicator either way for me....welcome to anyone who's joined today, hope everyone is as ok under their own circumstances as possible...

Oh that would be great, thank you @arianasky. I keep looking at different ones but don't have a clue what's good or not!

I'm not sure what's going on @calimc83 but my cramps have calmed down (slightly) so I'm hoping today is the day 😂 my last near peak opk was on Tuesday but I never captured full peak so that could've even been Monday. I must just be someone who doesn't actually ovulate until about 36 hours after a peak! I think you should dtd for a couple more days in case that's you too! X

Thanks for all the welcoming messages 💖

@Cruz86 oo briliiant, nice to have someone else at the same time! ☺️ Have you ovulated yet?

@HoneyLemon29 & @speake thank you! Definitely going to go for it and cover all the bases. He’s going to think all of his Christmases have come at once 😂

@calimc83 can’t hurt, right? How many dpo are you?

I think I've ovulated @Pearl93! My temp increased this morning 😀 my app has now put me at 3dpo but I think I'm only 1dpo. Did you end up dtd last night? Xx

@Cindy974 Cramping is really normal, it probably just means your body is getting to the business of growing that bean

@Pearl93 Have you ovulated yet? My OPK picked up today so I think I'll be fertile in the next 24hrs. I've told DH he's busy this weekend

@PamelaDoov fingers crossed for some valentine's magic x

The MyOva is coming today.. pregnant ladies on it, do you carry on post BFP?

@Cruz86 woo, that’s good… TWW time! Yeah managed to squeeze one in, DH didn’t get in from darts until gone midnight so I was fighting to keep my eyes open waiting for him to get back 😴😂 xx

@Holidaycomedown no I don’t think so, no temp rise this morning. My LH is still high but it’s declining, had my peak yesterday morning. Oo enjoy 😉 got any nice plans for the weekend other than DTD? Xx

@Cruz86 @Pearl93 I think we're all roughly around the same time on our cycle! Whoop..cycle buddies! My app says ovulation today but I think I might of ovulated yest...do I go again tonight?! Not sure if there's much point 🤷‍♀️ xx

I think I am due to ovulate tomorrow so will be also with you on the TWW @calimc83 @Cruz86 @Pearl93 still testing with the clear blue still a flashing smile today! Do you count the fixed smiley as O day? So worn down after the past 2 months and losses that I’ve not really tried this month but still hoping for a miracle Xx

Woo! So good that we're all at similar points!! Personally I'd dtd again tonight @calimc83. Glad you managed to get one in last night @Pearl93! I'm not sure about the clear blue tests @Prayingformyrainbow93, sorry. I normally just use the cheap ones and then temp! Fingers crossed this is our cycle!! Xx

Wooo lovely to see so many ladies ovulating at the same time 🤩 will keep all my fingers crossed!!!

@Cruz86 😀 ovulation sounds like it’s happened! Xx
@Skl2021 are you okay? Xx
@bunnykins123 I’ve continued to take it since getting a positive test. I’m also still taking metformin too xx

@Holidaycomedown oops sorry @bunnykins123 I tagged you instead of holiday in my MyOva comment above xx

Hi ladies

Jumping back in if that's ok. BFN hit me hard last cycle.

Then we discovered family were expecting only to find out they had lost the baby.

We questioned if we should try at all but it kind of happened naturally.

So now in the tww again. Got positive clearblue digital opk on Tue, cheapie one step showing peak today but plenty dtd over the last week.

Congratulations to all who have received their BFP in the last few weeks and wishing baby dust for all xxx