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Ttc after miscarriage thread 4 🌈💞✨🤞

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Skl2021 · 08/02/2022 18:39

New thread ladies 💞🌈✨

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Skl2021 · 16/02/2022 22:35

@Cruz86 takes my mind of my situation and I like rooting for you all 🙌 we will get you all some lovely rainbows!! Well I hope you get an answer soon but your covered incase you have ovulated 🤞 keep going!! 💞 Xx

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Holidaycomedown · 17/02/2022 06:06

@aesgriff I hadn't heard of MyOva, but I've just ordered some! The reviews look amazing

I thought I might have freakishly ovulated on cd10, but I'm now on cd19 and my opk is picking up again. I usually ovulate around cd21 so my guess is it was just an early surge which led to nothing. PCOS is annoying! I hate my long cycles

Those that use premium, do you have to temp?

Sassy144 · 17/02/2022 07:05

@Skl2021 bless you, I'll be testing on Saturday if af doesn't arrive before, but I don't have high hopes.

It's such a mix of emotions, I desperately want to be pregnant but at the same time I'm terrified to go through it again.

calimc83 · 17/02/2022 07:59

Thanks for the advice girls! I decided to 'get back in the saddle' last night..just incase! 😆😆 hope u are all ok? Xx

theblueflowers · 17/02/2022 08:10

7dpo today and of course I'm feeling all the symptoms Grin

Trying to leave it as long as possible to test!

Holidaycomedown · 17/02/2022 08:29

Premom, not premium!

Ganesh2022 · 17/02/2022 08:41

Hope everyone is doing ok, not caught up yet. Somehow on our trip I managed to both damage my finger and avoid testing. So scared of a negative, I just might not do it til period due. Dunno how I’ve held off. I saw there are lots of new ppl...welcome; shit club, lovely ppl ❤️

JuniperAndTonic · 17/02/2022 09:21

Good morning, been trying to catch up but I had a busy couple of days at work and I’ve now got a horrible cough/cold so I’ve been feeling really rough and not sleeping well 😞

Hope you’re all okay! Ive tried to read through but sorry if I’ve missed anything!

Welcome to all the newbies, sorry you’re having to join us but this thread is so supportive and understanding 💕🌈

Raindrops2015 · 17/02/2022 09:44

Newbie here. Got my bfp on 9dpo 3 cycles after mmc surgery. Is it too soon to get my hopes up? Anyone else get a clear bfp this early?

Raindrops2015 · 17/02/2022 09:46

Also should I start taking aspirin? I'm 40 and 1 missed miscarriage.

theblueflowers · 17/02/2022 09:50

My friend has just told me she is 5 weeks pregnant. First month trying. We're seeing each other next week and she wanted to let me know before.

So happy for her but man is this hard!

MiaGrace31 · 17/02/2022 09:58

@Raindrops2015 congratulations, I got my bfp 10dpo now about 18dpo and seems to be progressing ok. I am also wondering about the asprin? My anxiety is through the roof thinking should I be taking it. Ive read it cant hurt but if I take it without being told and something happens ill think its because of that, cant win arrghh. xxx

Sassy144 · 17/02/2022 10:01

Congratulations @Raindrops2015 I previously got a BFP on 9dpo. By 11dpo it was clear as day.

arianasky · 17/02/2022 10:06

Hello all I'm back, I've been quite down so haven't kept up to date and I don't want to go back and read incase it brings me down again, I'm on day 4 of bleeding today so CD4 technically, I've been referred to the recurrent miscarriage clinic and should be seen in about 6 weeks they said. I got a negative FRER yesterday. I'm anxious to try again but I'm also desperate too 🙄 I'm taking literally every vitamin now, I took baby aspirin and it didn't help so will try a higher dose after O day and I bought progesterone cream to take then aswell. Has anyone else got any tips? I can't believe I've had a MMC, 2 CP's and a MC in 5 months 😞 how is everyone?

arianasky · 17/02/2022 10:14

Also congratulations to all the new BFP's 🎉🌈💕

PamelaDoov · 17/02/2022 10:19

@arianasky you are so brave, I’d have lost my mind if I’d gone through half of what you’ve been through (which I kinda have, so should be fully loosing it any day now!)

Skl2021 · 17/02/2022 10:20

@Sassy144 good luck 🤞✨ xx

@calimc83 u trying again today? Have u taken another opk? Xx

@theblueflowers good luck for when u test. Aww that must be so hard 😩 it's a tough situation to be in obviously your happy for them but it's hard as u want it so much. Take care of yourself 💞 x

@Ganesh2022 well done in holding off! Good luck if you do decide to test! Have u any symptoms when is af due? X

@JuniperAndTonic sorry your feeling rough hope you feel better soon 💞🤞 xx

@Raindrops2015 welcome and congratulations 🌈 xx

@arianasky welcome back lovely 💞 your going through such a hard time take it a day at a time! You will get through this! Glad you have been referred to the miscarriage clinic hopefully they will help you or give you some answers 💞 look after yourself xx

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calimc83 · 17/02/2022 11:02

@arianasky welcome back lovely, I'm so sorry for what you've been through. That's good you have been referred to the recurrent MC clinic. Hopefully they can give you some answers. Xx

calimc83 · 17/02/2022 11:03

@Ganesh2022 well done!!! ( shame about the finger though 😫) what DPO are you?
@Skl2021might go again tonight, no opk today yet...might do one later xx

arianasky · 17/02/2022 11:14

@PamelaDoov I know what you mean my mind has gone aswell 😂

@Skl2021 thank you, yes I'm glad they're looking into things? How are you feeling?

@calimc83 thank you lovely 💕

aesgriff · 17/02/2022 11:20

@Cruz86 it contains myo-inositol which helps to regulate your cycles and also stimulate ovulation. It had really good reviews so I thought, worth a go! I can’t say if it regulated me as I caught the first month taking them.

@Skl2021 here’s to bubble living 🥰🤩

@bunnykins123 woo let us know how you get on with MyOva. I have used Premom with and without temping. If you don’t temp then you don’t get a cover line but still works fine in my opinion.

@Ganesh2022 sorry about your finger 😞 what dpo are you today?

@Raindrops2015 I got a BFP on a FRER on 9dpo too 🙂

@theblueflowers Ohh I feel this. It’s so tough but fair play for her letting you know beforehand. I suppose it takes away the surprise in person element. How do you feel about meeting up?

@arianasky welcome back lovely lady ♥️♥️ I’m so pleased you’ve got a referral and 6 weeks is a good waiting time (I know it’ll feel like forever).

@calimc83 giddy up girl 🤠 🤣

Xxxx

speake · 17/02/2022 11:46

Welcome back @arianasky I hope you are doing as ok as you can be 🤍

I don’t know what your situation is but if you are looking to progress things quicker I would really recommend Nova Fertility, based in Manchester. It’s £150 for an online consultation and their consultant will prescribe medication based on your history rather than you having to wait for tests & test results, I think I could’ve got an appointment within the next 1-2 weeks of booking but waited until after Christmas. They try things like high dose folic acid, progesterone, steroids & blood thinners (just an example will depend per person). The prescriptions are then private so cost but I found it so much more efficient this way. I can’t tell you yet if my treatment plan works but I was recommended to go there from others who have had successful pregnancies so I’m hopeful.

Just wanted to let you know about that option as I’m super impatient & although I did go for my nhs testing (no results yet) it made me feel better having this going on in the background. Fell free to PM if you want any more info xx

HoneyLemon29 · 17/02/2022 11:53

I got my thermometer and OPKs yesterday. Cycle day 9. Is it too late to start taking temp? I've logged this mornings anyway. Not sure if I'll even ovulate ok this month with one tube but will see 🤞

bunnykins123 · 17/02/2022 12:40

@calimc83 excellent news! I bet DH was delighted. Did you get a positive or still waiting for one?

@Ganesh2022 sorry to hear about your finger - how did you do that?! I think that should be the name of the group moving forward - very apt 😂

@Raindrops2015 if you have a clear line at 9dpo, I'd say that's a very good sign! I only ever get squinters from about 11dpo onwards. Aspirin is something you can take but would probably recommend speaking to a specialist / GP to confirm first. Oh and congrats on bfp!

@theblueflowers it's hard isn't it. Someone told me yesterday they are 6 weeks pregnant and weren't trying. Very happy for her but sob just makes me feel more lonely. Hope you're doing ok!

@arianasky welcome back! I hope you are doing okay. No advice but I'm in the same situation as you - tried 75mg aspirin last month but was another chemical. I'm trying 150mg after O this month and have upped my folate to 1200ug. I'll also be trying Cyclogest from 3 dpo (I used this after bfp but it was too late I think!) have you asked the GP if you can get some basic bloods done? I think my GP felt a bit sorry for me and I'm getting thyroid test done tomorrow. I'm hoping to tick off all the things as and when I can get tested...

@HoneyLemon29 not sure but I'm about to start tracking temps too!

HoneyLemon29 · 17/02/2022 12:51

@bunnykins123 what cycle day are you?
Sorry if you live posted below there's a lot to catch up on 😂