🦕🦕 The dinosaur crew - part 9 ttc after mc 🦕🦕

[Annny27]

Hi ladies,

You know the drill after this long haha! All of us ladies are ttc after miscarriage (whether that's MMC, MC, TFMR, ectopic or CP)

We have all been here a pretty long time and this is safe space to share our journey, troubles and worries with people who understand our losses 💗

The TTCers:

@babyghirl
@27donfin
@elm7
@peanuttybutter
@apwilso
@Kelb79

The recent BFPers along for the ride:
@kiwi17
@sunnysideup2020
@sweetbabydust1989

Apologies for those I have forgot to tag - please add yourself :)

I'm glad you can move on to the next cycle @Bubbles1995 and also I'm sorry AF came x

@PeanuttyButter thank you! Fingers crossed for the next one I guess. I'm not too bothered at this point now so just gonna go with the flow enjoy it and get some OPKS

Hey lovelies! How are you are?

so sorry AF got you @Bubbles1995 😐 especially after messing with your head by being so late, I hate that!

im 11DPO. Had a definite BFN on Boots cheapies yesterday but run out of tests today so not tested again. Not really feeling it this month tbh 🤔 I think my mind is on OH and going to Spain on Sunday 😬😬
OH is in a total mess with the stuff with his Dad - his brother and sister are being a complete nightmare! They’ll both phone him and keep him on the phone all night with their issues - he’s got his own situation to try to deal with but he’s getting so caught up in theirs that it’s messing his head up sooo much!! He just needs some space!
luckily starting the IVF journey is actually giving him that something positive that I hoped it would - he’s so excited!! ❤️
I haven’t told him too much yet about having to inject me daily and put up with me being put through menopause 🤣🤣🤣

Sorry about the BFN @Kelb79 it's still not too late, however I think focussing on the IVF is a good way to try and move forward. Must be so hard especially trying to deal with your other half, you must be mentally exhausted.
As for the IVF details best to leave them out until it's too late haha, men don't like extra work 😂 there was once a suggestion of me going on the pill for a few months post miscarriage to regulate my cycles again... DH said he was going to go live with his mother because he said it sent me crazy in the past haha

Anyone got any nice weekend plans?

How is everyone doing?? Been off this for a while had a car accident last week some plonker failed to give way on a mini round about and hit my car so that's pretty much taken over my life 😩 on the up had a surprise parcel today from a family member they brought my bottles and steriliser In pink 😍 xx

Hope you're ok @Sweetbabydust1989 must have been stressful and scary.
That's so nice of your family to send you stuff too. Hope you're managing to have a chilled weekend x

@PeanuttyButter iam all good a little peed off my sister in law just announced she is pregnant she planned it all she got pregnant a few weeks after I announced my pregnancy she couldn't just let me have this considering what We have been through xx

@Sweetbabydust1989 I've got a sister in law who would do exactly the same!

@Bubbles1995 I feel awful for being angry but after 2 ectopics and surgery in one year you think she would of let me have this moment but no she whacks her Implant out and gets pregnant my mum said it was planned due to the dates she kept saying they weren't trying etc now my rainbow baby has been hijacked every time I have fell pregnant she has announced hers a few months later x

Hello,

how is everyone? May I join this thread please?
We have found out our little one didn’t make it past 6weeks.
contacting the hos today to see if I can self refer before my GP on Monday. The moment we can, we will be ttc again.

Understandably apprehensive 😞

Hi @Izzyboo1234 welcome to the thread that nobody wants to be a part of.
Feel free to use this space to vent, ask questions and plainly just having companionship with people who know exactly what you're going through.

Thank you for the kind welcome, it means so much. I’m going to read through the thread and get familiar with everything. Thank you so much 😊

Hey gang! Happy Saturday!

@Sweetbabydust1989 really hope you’re ok after the accident lovely 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 Scary!!!!
as for your sister in law, rise above…. I know it’s shit but there are so many people in the world like that and we can’t avoid them completely (much as we’d like to!!) don’t let her ruin your experience, you’ve been through so much! It would’ve been much worse if you’d still been TTC 🫣🫣

@PeanuttyButter how are you doing??

@Izzyboo1234 im so sorry you find yourself here lovely ❤️❤️❤️ How are you feeling? Try to be kind to yourself and take all the time and space that you need. We’re here for you xX

12dpo today and another BFN. I’m not testing anymore - just going to concentrate on the IVF consult! I can’t believe we fly out tomorrow!! 😳😳😳 I’m a dead split between excited and terrified!! I’ve kept saying we’ll just try for another month but I’m done now, I just need to move forward!!!

This thread is incredible, in such a dark time the kindness is so warming. Thank you.
I am okay thank you, how are you?
I am understandably sad, but knowing people here get it - is powerful. Me and my OH are both on the same page and want to try again as soon as we can I just need to work out what’s recommended and I’m sure the hos will help on wed. But I shall work through these threads. Thank you 💐

I hope everyone gets there positives and/or answers soon 🙏

@Izzyboo1234
so sorry for what your going through, glad you found the group for support, we can answer any questions you may have, know your are not alone but I do know in the miscarriage world it feels that way, any thing you want to ask just ask I have had 4 miscarriages so kind of a pro at it.

Hello to the rest of the ladies sorry not been on in a while trying to lock myself away from the world its kind of helping lol how are yous all getting on had a scan 2 weeks ago and there was a heart beat omg never seen that before, have another one on Monday so hoping all is OK. X

@Izzyboo1234 welcome to the group, so sorry you’ve found yourself here. As the others said, you’re not alone and this group has been amazing for us all.

@Kelb79 good luck with your ivf consultation. I’m hoping it’s a very positive experience for you 💖

@Sweetbabydust1989 oh my gosh, that must’ve been so scary. I’m glad you’re all okay. How lovely of your family to send you those gifts. Sorry about your SIL. Some people can never understand what we go through.

@Bubbles1995 how are you?

@PeanuttyButter how are you getting on lovely?

I have my next scan Monday. Been very stressed and anxious this week. I’ll be 17+1 and they’re checking the heart in detail after what happened with our DS. Trying to stay positive.

@Babyghirl so pleased you saw a heart beat at your scan. I have everything crossed for you for Monday. Let’s hope it’s a positive day for both of us 🤞🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

@Babyghirl so incredibly happy for you seeing a heartbeat! I hope your scan goes extremely well on Monday! Loads of love xxxx

@Angelmama1121 Wishing you all the best for a great scan on Monday! Lots and lots of love xxxx

Thank you 💐

I am so sorry for your losses 😞

I hope Monday goes well, it is lovely to read you saw the heartbeat - amazing news!

Thank you 💐 it means a lot!

@Kelb79 good luck and I hope your appointment goes well!

@Sweetbabydust1989 people can't see others happy!! Well I hope she lets you have your time.

@Izzyboo1234 sorry your joining the group but your here with supportive girls! We're always a message or a DM away!

@Angelmama1121 I'm okay thanks. My heads a bit all over as it's my Nans 1st heavenly anniversary tomorrow so emotions everywhere. I thought I came on my AF On Thursday and only had spotting since. So dunno what's going on!

Do I test tomorrow just to double check? 🤷🏻‍♀️

Thank you, this group is providing so much support and comfort.

Thinking of you and your family 💐

A test won’t hurt and then you know
either way, good luck!

Just reading through the thread, you are all
so incredible. Such strength, resilience and honesty!

Good luck to all of those who have got their BFP and to those TTC!