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🦕🦕 The dinosaur crew - part 9 ttc after mc 🦕🦕

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Annny27 · 01/02/2022 22:31

Hi ladies,

You know the drill after this long haha! All of us ladies are ttc after miscarriage (whether that's MMC, MC, TFMR, ectopic or CP)

We have all been here a pretty long time and this is safe space to share our journey, troubles and worries with people who understand our losses 💗

The TTCers:

@babyghirl
@27donfin
@elm7
@peanuttybutter
@apwilso
@Kelb79

The recent BFPers along for the ride:
@kiwi17
@sunnysideup2020
@sweetbabydust1989

Apologies for those I have forgot to tag - please add yourself :)

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PeanuttyButter · 04/05/2022 09:58

@apwilso ooo interesting. Got my fingers crossed for you

@Angelmama1121 I should get a scan at about 6 weeks to start clexane. Before that I don't know. I'm not calling the hospital until Friday incase it's a chemical

apwilso · 04/05/2022 11:43

@Angelmama1121 amazing. Hopefully you get the answer you need!

@PeanuttyButter thank you!

apwilso · 04/05/2022 11:57

Don't ask why I've done this but was wondering my due date if I was to be pregnant and it would be my Nans birthday who I lost last year and she was my absolute world. Imagine if that's the case🥹🥹

Annny27 · 04/05/2022 11:59

@apwilso that would be lovely 💗 keeping fingers crossed!

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PeanuttyButter · 04/05/2022 13:31

@apwilso yea that would be a lovely. When did you think AF is due?

SLCxxx · 04/05/2022 14:33

@PeanuttyButter congratulations, have everything crossed for you 🌈

apwilso · 04/05/2022 16:21

@PeanuttyButter I'm on day 21 so between a week and 9 days roughly

Angelmama1121 · 04/05/2022 17:41

@apwilso that would be lovely. Keeping everything crossed for you!

@PeanuttyButter i will be praying for your little bean x

H0peing · 05/05/2022 07:52

@PeanuttyButter Amazing line at 11dpo! Congratulations!!!! Yes, I am definitely praying for you. Xx

H0peing · 05/05/2022 07:54

@Annny27 Feeling great as she arrived yesterday! Xx

H0peing · 05/05/2022 08:00

After 4 miscarriages, my beautiful little Rainbow arrived yesterday morning within 30 minutes in a birthing pool! So relieved for a positive birth experience and thankful for her. It was great that they let us home the same day as well. Thanks so much to everyone who's supported me on this group! I simply could not have got through it all without this group! I am still here to cheer you all on as your Rainbow babies arrive. Loads of love. Xx

Annny27 · 05/05/2022 08:14

@H0peing huge congratulations to you on the arrival of your little girl 💗💗💗 sounds like a really lovely birth experience (well deserved!)

Enjoy the newborn bubble xxx

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Angelmama1121 · 05/05/2022 08:43

R@H0peing huge congratulations on the safe arrival of your baby girl. Enjoy the newborn bubble. 💖💖

PeanuttyButter · 05/05/2022 08:51

That's fantastic news @H0peing so so happy for you. That's made my morning that for sure. So glad you and baby are doing well and you had a great birth experience. Is she early or on time etc? If you want to share your story I'd love to hear it xx

Annny27 · 05/05/2022 09:51

@PeanuttyButter have you retested or leaving it a few days? My first retest was lighter which panicked me ofcourse! But turns out my FMU is not great for pregnancy tests

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H0peing · 05/05/2022 11:16

@PeanuttyButter She was about a week early. It was all so quick! Wireless tens machine and gas and air were both extremely helpful, as was the pool and the lovely Midwives. I loved using the Birth Centre at my local hospital and it was lovely to have a positive birth experience after the journey to get to this point. Xx

PeanuttyButter · 05/05/2022 11:43

@H0peing sounds perfect. Let us know when you've decided on a name xx

@Annny27 I tested with a cheapie and it didn't look any darker than yesterday to be honest. However I'm just on my way to get bloods done as called the EPU to get my last HCG result back so I know what my baseline was from the other loss. They said it was 3 on 20th. They want to make sure it's doubling as it should and it's not another PUL

H0peing · 05/05/2022 12:45

@PeanuttyButter Her name is Alannah. Glad they are monitoring you carefully Xx

Annny27 · 05/05/2022 13:02

@H0peing absolutely beautiful name 💗💗

@PeanuttyButter I wouldn't worry about the test darkness. I stopped doing line progression as I was getting too anxious and just did a clear blue digital once a week untill I got to 3+. Good that they woll monitor your hcg xx

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emhope · 05/05/2022 14:56

Hi,
I’m new here and wondered if I could join. I had my first MMC last week at 10w so still trying to come to terms with it all and recover but was looking for a group to join with other people that have been through the same and now TTC. Obviously early days for me but feel like I do want to start thinking about TTC again soon. Unsure whether to straight away or wait for AF.

PeanuttyButter · 05/05/2022 15:48

@H0peing beautiful name, congratulations xx

@Annny27 well I've had bloods so if they do serial ones that will help. I've got a weeks digital but don't want to do it this weekend incase it still says 1-2 (I would just about be 2 this weekend) and I'm going on holiday next week so don't want the stress. I also don't want to buy more to retest because they aren't cheap are they (DH doesn't understand my poas addiction lol). But il be in the same situation the weekend after..wanting a 3 plus lol. Il see when they want to do bloods and go from there

Sweetbabydust1989 · 05/05/2022 21:59

Just catching up on the thread... congratulations to all the BFPs all well deserved!!! It's amazing to see this thread grow so much we have all been on such a journey... I am 20 weeks and 3 days finally half way through now... 20 week scan at 21 weeks 1 day cannot wait to get this one done so I can finally start shopping kids are dying to buy some baby bits.. finally feeling some movement now my placenta is at the front on the right so only get movement on my left so happy xx

PeanuttyButter · 06/05/2022 06:57

Welcome @emhope unfortunately it's the thread nobody really wants to be on, but you've come to the right place everyone understands what's you're going through as we've all been there x

@Sweetbabydust1989 can't believe you are 20 weeks already, where has that time gone at all!

H0peing · 06/05/2022 09:19

@PeanuttyButter Thank you. It's easier said than done but I recommend waiting for your hcg test results to monitor progression rather than using the CB weeks indicator as I know a lot of people have said they never saw a 3+ with healthy babies and Midwives have told me how unreliable and unnecessarily stressful the weeks indicator can be. It's great that you're going on holiday next week! Hopefully you can enjoy having time to relax with a break from testing. Xx

Sweetbabydust1989 · 06/05/2022 13:29

@PeanuttyButter I no it's gone so quickly I kinda don't want this one to end knowing it will be my last even with the anxiety and sickness I am enjoying it.. How are you getting on?? Xx

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