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Is it all over

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Coastaldreamer · 29/01/2022 08:08

Hi. Please can anyone help?
I did a FRER on Tuesday on 14DPO And got a blazing positive

Did another today 18dpo and the line is so faint. Does this mean I'm going to miscarry?

Still got some nasuea etc

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Tinkles78 · 29/01/2022 08:14

I'm sorry, ttc is so hard!

It does look like it's potentially a chemical pregnancy. The next few days will let you know, if the line keeps getting lighter you'll probably just have a late period.

Either that or was your wee very dilute?

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Coastaldreamer · 29/01/2022 08:19

So hard Confused

I have a feeling it's a chemical/early miscarriage. Last time with DD when I tested again a week later it was a much darker line

So gutted and upset

This was on around a 3 hour hold

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Bubblesandballoons · 29/01/2022 08:22

Sadly this is how my tests went this month and I am now bleeding, so was a chemical for me. I’d test in a few days and hopefully that will tell your either way. Sorry you are going through this rollercoaster too.

teaandchocolate1 · 29/01/2022 08:25

I am so sorry. Don't want to sound pessimistic, but this is how my early miscarriage announced itself. With lines not progressing, getting fainter.

I started bleeding at 4 weeks and 5 days and the pregnancy test then cruelly confirmed "not pregnant" anymore.

I fell pregnant again 4 months later and currently 36 weeks along.

So even if this doesn't have a positive ending for you (and it might not be a miscarriage, who knows), there's hope xx Take care

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Coastaldreamer · 29/01/2022 08:35

Thank you ladies Thanks

No it's fine I'd rather have the honesty. Don't want to get my hopes high. It was only cycle 1 for us TTC#2 and I thought oh wow I've been that lucky for it to happen first time and then I've gone to "why me"

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Coastaldreamer · 29/01/2022 14:15

Edit... chemical/early miscarriage confirmed. Started bleeding this afternoon

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Bubblesandballoons · 29/01/2022 14:37

Sorry to hear that @Coastaldreamer 😔

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Coastaldreamer · 29/01/2022 16:41

@Bubblesandballoons thank you and I'm so sorry to hear about your chemical too. Fingers crossed for us both next cycle x

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Tinkles78 · 30/01/2022 11:47

So sorry @Coastaldreamer 😔

Toanewstart22 · 30/01/2022 11:48

I’m so sorry

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Coastaldreamer · 12/02/2022 21:26

Hey, so I didn't want to hijack anyone else's thread or create a new one but post the chemical pregnancy we have tried again this cycle but I don't know if ov is being affected by it..

So we did DTD yesterday and today and after getting what I thought was peak yesterday (also said peak on the app) but the line was even darker. Does that mean the first peak was a false positive as such?

Should we just DTD again tomorrow
Too? That would be yesterday, today and tomorrow to be covered ? And keep testing ?

Sorry and thanks for help x

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cakeislife123 · 13/02/2022 15:53

It might just be that you were more hydrated for the lighter one in between maybe?
I'd just carry on DTD just to be safe, it can't hurt!! Xx

cakeislife123 · 13/02/2022 15:54

And I'd keep testing until it dropped and stayed faint for a couple of days, apparently you can be more fertile after a CP so be worth DTD until after lines have become faint xx

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Coastaldreamer · 13/02/2022 16:19

Thanks @cakeislife123. We DTD again this morning to be covered and I think I'm done! Have DTD 5 times since last Sunday so hopefully it's enough

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cakeislife123 · 13/02/2022 16:38

Got my fingers crossed for you! X

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