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BFN and disappointed!!

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ElleBelleLou · 25/01/2022 14:09

Hey guys,

Just a bit of a rant really. I'm only on my third month of trying for a baby but really thought it would happen straight away.

10DPO today and I've been tired, my boobs are sore, I'm nauseous, my skin is bad and I had weird cramps a few days ago when normally I have nothing at all until the day of AF (due Sunday)

Just feeling a bit down as I thought I'd be lucky and this month would be the month but BFN.

Tell me your stories of BFP to cheer me up? Grin

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TheHopefulMum · 25/01/2022 14:13

Try not to get too disheartened, I had a BFN on a clearblue digital and FRER on 10DPO and my BFP came 13DPO, but the lines were faint even at this point. Lines are now really dark and all going well.

Try to stay positive Smile

YellowLemonz · 25/01/2022 14:45

I don't think your out just yet! I would keep testint

YellowLemonz · 25/01/2022 14:46

Testing

Moonshine160 · 25/01/2022 15:40

I know how disheartening it feels when you get a BFN. 10DPO is still early so there is still hope.

I’m currently 5 weeks pregnant with baby number 2. It happened on the fourth cycle, just as I’d starting feeling fed up and like it might never happen. Stay positive.

Chanel05 · 25/01/2022 16:03

It is rubbish but most likely you'll be pregnant, statistically, by September.

Both my previous pregnancies took 8 months to conceive each time. I'm ttc #2 and somewhere in cycle 4. Most likely cycle 5 soon.

It takes time but you have to take the bad with the good unfortunately.

ElleBelleLou · 26/01/2022 09:17

Well 11DPO, FMU and the starkest white BFN. Hopefully next month is my month!

BFN and disappointed!!
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Bundaberg84 · 26/01/2022 13:38

I see it as my duty to provide this link wherever and whenever I can: www.countdowntopregnancy.com/pregnancy-test/dpo-chart.php?dpo=11

Over 20% of all pregnant women will still test negative at 11dpo. Also, depending on how you track your ovulation, you could be a day or even two off (not if you bbt of course).

Good luck!

Clarebear2511 · 27/01/2022 10:36

I'm in the same boat. 10dpo today. Got the most painful boobs and they've even been leaking which I've never had before despite two pregnancies and stopped breastfeeding about 4 years ago.
Bought a frer but bfn this morning. So disheartened 😔

ElleBelleLou · 27/01/2022 11:31

Well I'm 12DPO, been having cramps since Tuesday like AF is coming but no sign - I'm not due until Sunday and never usually get cramps until the day I'm due so it's all strange.

I'm bloated, can't stop weeing, I'm either starving or nauseous and my skin is just getting worse but I think I'll have to put it down to AF coming. I did have covid last month so wondering if that has altered my cycle somewhat.

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ElleBelleLou · 27/01/2022 13:25

I don't know why I keep testing! Another BFN. Just a painful wait for AF to turn up - how frustrating.

BFN and disappointed!!
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