Ttc after miscarriage thread 2 ✨🌈🤞

[Skl2021]

Just a 2nd thread for people ttc after miscarriage ✨🌈

Morning ladies, hope we are all okay!!

@Cruz86 thank you for the reassurance lovely and well done for holding off testing you’ve got way more willpower than me 🤣

@Bridgey8 looks like really good line progression to me congratulations 🌈

@JuniperAndTonic definitely a BFP!! Congratulations 🌈 x

It hasnt even been 24 hours since my BFP but I havent bled or spotted since, nausea is present and been having some vivid dreams so good signs! I did another IC but was still really faint so I caved and did another FRER which looked slightly darker than yesterday so cautiously optimistic. So lovely to see some BFPs in this thread. Fingers crossed for the rest of you amazing ladies for your BFPs 🤞🏼🌈❤️

@Skl2021 how are you getting on this morning xx

Hi @Passenger87! Welcome. I've never heard of a heterotopic pregnancy before. Good luck for this cycle. When are you planning on testing?

They are lovely lines @Bridgey8 and @JuniperAndTonic! Congratulations. Hope you both have a healthy pregnancy.

My temp has decreased again today so I'm just waiting for af over the next couple of days now. No testing unless my temp miraculously increases! X

@Passenger87 welcome 💐

@Bridgey8 lovely lines definitely darker! ✨🙌 Yes try and relax enjoy the sun 🌅🏖️ x

@JuniperAndTonic definitely bfp! Lovely lines ✨🎉 you can start to believe it now!

@Cindy974 glad your lines getting darker! 🎉✨🤞 X

@Cruz86 sorry to hear that I will be right by your side on the next cycle 😩 onwards and upwards 🤞✨ trying to stay positive! X

As you can all guess I'm 11dpo bfn 😩 so I'm definitely out waiting for af now. It sucks but it's life. Finding it a bit hard this morning just want new cycle now hate waiting. Congratulations to everyone who got there bfp this time!! ✨🎉 Finally some luck on this thread! Am I the only one testing who hasn't got a bfp?! And ladies who got a positive how many cycles are you since miscarriage? X

@Skl2021 I don't think you're our yet!

I miscarried at the beginning of November (had surgical management) and we booked our honeymoon a couple of weeks later as a cheer me up... felt like we deserved a holiday after 4 wedding attempts (bloody covid), a restricted wedding and then a miscarriage. It took me 3 weeks to test negative after surgery and then I wanted to try again straight away but realised if I fell pregnant that cycle I would be at the same number of weeks pregnant on honeymoon when I miscarried so waited for my first period post miscarriage and then tried again the next cycle not expecting to have any joy. Can't believe it's happened so quickly but I'm very scared it won't end well... xxx

@Cruz86 I am also testing BFN so you aren't alone! I'm 16dpo now and AF should be here any day! I did another test yesterday as one last attempt and now desperate for AF to arrive so I can start my new cycle. As everyone says though you aren't out until AF arrives! X x

@Bridgey8 I think I am af is due in 2 days. Didn't feel this cycle from the start so it's ok. Ahh maybe it's the honeymoon that did it! New place less stress! Glad it's worked quick for you! I'm going into cycle 3 now as I miscarried in October! Thought it would of happened before now 🤦 xx

Sorry below post was meant for @Skl2021 as asked if only one testing BFN xx

@Emeal123 sorry your testing negative too! I feel the same I want new cycle now. Getting me down x

@Skl2021 sorry you’re feeling down, still not over till AF arrives but sending you so much positive vibes and baby dust 🌈❤️

@Emeal123 sorry to hear about bfn but you’re right about it not being over till AF sending you positive vibes and baby dust 🌈❤️

I had my complete mc on Christmas day and only bled for a week, tested negative pretty much a few days after, so I haven’t actually had a cycle yet but got positive opks on 12th and 13th. Think not having a cycle is making me even more nervous and that its too good to be true but praying this bean is my sticky rainbow 🌈❤️

Hi @cruz86. I hadn't either until I had one. Basically it was two but one implanted in the tube one in the uterus. Neither were viable and we were heartbroken.

DD is 13 and was a big surprise and is on the spectrum. So Hubby and I decided to wait and try until no2 could get plenty of attention and the house was sorted....the best laid plans eh?

I'm trying to hold off until Thurs or Friday to test but the FRER are calling me since yday!! I'll be strong as I can for as long as I can!

Trying to hold off on testing

Hey can i join, I had medical management just before Christmas, I then fell pregnant straight away, but the tests have got lighter and today was negative, so awaiting the bleeding and trying again 😭. I have one Ds who I’d love to have a sibling.

@Cindy974 I also had my MC on Christmas Day! Haven't had AF yet since but did a negative PT a week later and had the static smiley face on 9th Jan. ready for AF to come now and my body to get back into a regular cycle. Sorry to hear about your MC xx

@Skl2021 sorry you’re feeling down, I have everything crossed for you for your BFP 🤞🏻

Sounds positive @Cindy974!

Welcome @Passenger87 and @Bubblesandballoons - sorry for what you’ve been going through, it’s an awful club to be part of and an emotional rollercoaster, but sending all the baby dust your way!

So I had a natural miscarriage which started 31st October and confirmed completed on the 2nd November. We waited one cycle then started trying again in December so this is only my 2nd cycle since the miscarriage. My first pregnancy took 6 months to conceive so I’m shocked we’ve conceived so quickly this time! 🌈

@Bubblesandballoons welcome I'm sorry your going through that such a rollercoaster of emotions I hope your doing ok 💕 look after yourself x

@JuniperAndTonic mine was natural in October aswell. So we're roughly the same time wise. It took me 8/9 months to fall pregnant last time so guess I'm in for the long haul again! X

Congratulations @juniperandtonic that's wonderful news!!!

@JuniperAndTonic we are exactly the same timings how funny? Fingers crossed these are sticky beans this time!

@Bubblesandballoons sorry to hear you are going through this it really is awful, hoping there is light at the end of the tunnel for you 🌈❤️

@Emeal123 sorry you experienced that, I mean there is no nice day for it to happen but Christmas day just feels extra cruel! Hoping for your rainbow for your next cycle 🌈❤️

@aesgriff She's great isn't she; I wish she were my personal doctor!

Great lines on those BFP's!

@Bubblesandballoons (and anyone new I have missed) sorry you have to join this club, but it's really helped me to chat with such nice people, all of whom have been through a version of the same. Welcome :)

Hope everyone is ok today; it's helped me a bit to go out and try to do things (before I was watching crap tv alone) but it's all just really hard.

Eek just got a static smiley on my clearblue digital OPK

Nooo this can't be happening 😭😭😭

Omg what @Skl2021!!!!! Ahhhhhhhhhhhhh you were so convinced you was out!

@Cruz86 can you see it there so faint that's what's concerning me 😭 I'm in tears and shaking!!