Ttc after miscarriage thread 2 ✨🌈🤞

[Skl2021]

Just a 2nd thread for people ttc after miscarriage ✨🌈

@Skl2021 it was fairly strong but I've only got internet cheapies with me. Prob similar strength to my 15dpo (which I miscarried much later). Spotting seems to have stopped for now 🤷‍♀️

@Skl2021 ahh sorry to hear that. How long is your LP normally? Hope you are ok 😘 xx

@Bridgey8 I would say implantation and yes Ic take long to show a decent positive so must be strong! Hope the spotting stays away now 🤞✨ lovely news! 💕 Xx

@calimc83 af should be here on 13 dpo so three more days! Just want it over now tbh! X

Hi ladies, sorry I’ve been AWOL, been in the 2 week wait and didn’t have much to report. I’ve been feeling so down about not being pregnant this month and had already convinced myself it wasn’t my month before I even tested.

I started testing at 8DPO, got BFN on days 8 and 10 so was convinced I was out this month and had a few drinks last night. Tested again this morning at 12 DPO and got a faint positive 😱 I’m absolutely terrified and don’t actually believe it’s real at the moment, I’ve convinced myself it’s a false positive.

Hope this post isn’t insensitive to anyone, my head is all over the place and I don’t know what to do - I should be happy and excited but I can’t be

Hope you’re all well this morning.

It was a BFN for me again this morning, AF still not due for five days so I’m still hopeful. @Skl2021 when is AF due for you? X

@Bridgey8 that sounds promising keeping all crossed for you 🤞🏼

@Cindy974 due in 3 days! So I'm sure I'm out now! Yes u still have time 🤞🤞 X

@JuniperAndTonic that sounds promising! What test did u use? Lovely to finally have some luck on this thread today! Hope your tests get darker!! 🤞✨ Xx

@JuniperAndTonic wow congratulations!! From what I’ve read false positives are extremely rare so it sounds like the real thing to me, I can understand the anxiety I would be the same. Sending you all the luck for your sticky bean 🌈❤️

@Skl2021 definitely not out till AF arrives!

@skl2021 easy@home internet cheapie. I have a clear blue digital 6 days early test but I don’t want to use it as they’re so expensive and don’t want to waste it if it’s a false positive. So I’ve ordered some FRER on Amazon which will come tonight, I’ll try and wait until tomorrow to test again with the FRER.

I made my husband look at the test to check I wasn’t imagining the line and then told him not to get his hopes up I just can’t bear the thought of having another miscarriage!

Thank you @Cindy974 I know they are rare and I’ve never had one before, but still my mind tells me it’s not real 😂

@Cindy974 thanks ✨💕

@JuniperAndTonic I think it's positive 🙊 don't think IV seen evaps on them tests! I'm crossing everything for you! Can't wait to see your frer they should be lovely dark lines! 🤞🤞✨✨ I understand you will be incredibly anxious after what has happened but it doesn't mean it will happen again try and keep positive 💕✨ xx

@JuniperAndTonic congratulations!! How exciting! Lovely news for a Monday morning :)

AF due for me tomorrow, last tested at 11dpo BFN and out of tests so just going to wait for AF now. Kind of want her to hurry up and come as have all my normal symptoms for AF and would like to start my new cycle now!

Sending love and baby dust to everyone xx

Thank you all, you’ve made me feel a bit better, I wasn’t sure whether to post as I know it’s triggering for some people but I’m glad I did ❤️ I will keep you updated! Especially since I can’t actually talk to anyone in real life about it!

I’ve got my fingers crossed everybody else that there’s some more positive news soon 🤞🏻

Congrats @JuniperAndTonic! Sounds very promising :) baby dust to everyone xxx

Also sounds promising for you @Bridgey8, just send your post sorry! Hopefully it’s just implantation 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻Enjoy the rest of your honeymoon!

@Emeal123 sorry you got bfn too 😩 I feel same! Af due in three days and getting my usual symptoms! Just want new cycle now 🤦 x

Gentle congrats for positives! Please don’t be afraid to post, it’s lovely to get good news here x

The pains were like a full ache yesterday and then I had random sharp pains every now and then @Sparklesurprise29. How are your opks looking?

Ooh congratulations @Bridgey8! I know how terrifying it is to have some bleeding but if it stays as spotting only, it should just be implantation. Hope you're having a lovely honeymoon!

Sorry about the bfn @Skl2021 😩 if af arrives for me and you do get yours in a few days, I think we'll be starting our cycles around the same time. You do still have time though!

Sorry about your bfn too @Cindy974! But, like you say, you still have 5 days so you are testing early! Fingers crossed 🤞🏻

Aw congratulations @JuniperAndTonic! Of course it's not insensitive posting here, this is what this thread is all about! I can imagine the sheer mix of emotions after seeing that line but just remember, this is a different pregnancy and what's happened before won't necessarily happen again! (I hope I take my own advice when I get a bfp 😂).

Sorry to hear you've got a bfn too @Emeal123. Not out til af shows!

@Cruz86 thanks! Yes I just hope it's not a long cycle again 🙈🤣 everyone starts with me then ovulate and then nearly start a new cycle before IV even ovulated 🤦 does my head in! We can only hope! Have u taken a test yet? X

@Skl2021 Don't worry, I don't ovulate until around cd 18 anyway 😂 no I haven't. My temp dropped a bit this morning so I'm going to wait and see what happens tomorrow. If it stays around the same or increases, I'll test. But if it drops again I'm just gonna wait for af! I'll be about 8dpo x

@Cruz86 what about a cheeky opk 🙊🤣 yes your still early plenty of time! How's the cramps? X

Woke up this morning with the very clear thought "I could be pregnant right now and just not know it". I am 3DPO, someone needs to lock me away because I've clearly lost the plot.

Haha you're such a bad influence @Skl2021 and you're gonna make me want to do a test this afternoon 🤦🏼‍♀️😂 cramps eased off overnight but we'll see what they're like today.

😂 @Tofu35. We're all crazy! X