TTC but scared??

[Chunkymonkey13]

2DC had HG in previous pregnancies. Started to TTC for #3 but I am freaking out and not in a good way.

My heart wants another baby but logically two makes more sense. House is big enough, car isn’t but we have enough money (not loads but enough)

Due to HG I’m panicking, why would I put myself through it again. If we stop at two we can give them more money more attention etc but would I regret not having another?

I know no one can help in the decision, but anyone else freaking out??

I had the same concerns but decided my dining table would always feel one short if I didn’t go for it. I sort of wish I did only want two though, would have made my life easier.

This is me right now. I have three kids, all girls... first two no sickness. Third girl with a new dad full blown hg. I want another but I don't want hg. I also don't want it to be something I regret if I don't it. Plus I'm nearly 40 I need to get on with it if I'm gonna do it. Big hugs it's awful I know x

@DarlingDarwin I know I wish I felt this done feeling after 2 it would make this all a lot easier and less stressful. Do you have three DC? Any regrets?

@MummyNWife yes I am completely torn, glad someone else gets this. I worry I will regret it too, but then not feeling like the worst parent ever for 9 months would be great also. I think we might TTC for a few months then stop due to holidays in July (I can’t be under 16 weeks on holiday due to the HG). I just feel so nervous 😬

[quote Chunkymonkey13]@MummyNWife yes I am completely torn, glad someone else gets this. I worry I will regret it too, but then not feeling like the worst parent ever for 9 months would be great also. I think we might TTC for a few months then stop due to holidays in July (I can’t be under 16 weeks on holiday due to the HG). I just feel so nervous 😬[/quote]
Good luck hun xx

I’m currently pregnant and nauseous but I’m glad I made a decision. Whatever your decision is you’ll feel better after making it