Devestated and feeling like a horrible person

[Arly90]

My best friend has just told me she's pregnant... They got married mid October and feel pregnant the week after.
We got married November 2020 and been actively TCC for 8 months. I've cried so much and feel like the worst person in the world. Brighter note... Its our fertile week... Thank god 🤞🤞

Ahh... Please excuse the spelling mistakes 🙈🙈

Be kind to yourself, you are allowed to be sad. Fingers crossed it happens soon for you 🤞🤞🤞

We've been TTC for another child for 18 months now. SIL who now has 4 kids asked me this week when we were having another 😭

It's crap sometimes. Hope this is the month for you OP!

Thanks for your kind worda. It's been a shit couple of weeks. We were home for Xmas and everyone kept asking about kids. And now to hear about my best Pal.... My heart feels so heavy 😢 I want to be happy for them but it's so hard.

You're not a horrible person, completely normal 💗 it's crap isn't it. My 3 best friends are pregnant, we lost our baby in September and been ttc since December last year after previous miscarriage. Pregnancy annoucments are the worst, be kind to yourself x

You're not a bad person. Ttc is hard and painful. I had a mmc nearly two years ago and one of my SIL's is pregnant with her second pregnancy since then and I'm still trying. It's so hard

You're not a bad person, you're allowed to be sad! Please don't feel bad for having a normal response.

You are not a bad person! And believe me, it’s difficult to be happy for someone when you are struggling yourself. It’s normal, many women feel like this, just not everyone talks about it. Fingers crossed for BFP soon!

Thanks everyone 🥰 its definitely gave my husband and I the motivation to DTD more. We usually try every other day during my fertile week but we are going for everyday the next few days (due to ovulate on Monday) 🤞🙏