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✨ CD10 ttc after loss 🌈 who's with me for the new year?

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Bellesjp · 29/12/2021 14:46

Hi all, does anyone want to join me for this cycle?

We're a year on from when we first started ttc last December after sadly having to have a TFMR in September as our baby was very poorly 😞 this will be our third cycle trying this time round, hoping for our rainbow in the new year 🌈💕

Sending everyone positive vibes and baby dust ✨

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Bellesjp · 04/01/2022 18:43

@Skl2021 I'm sure that won't be the case, as long as you ovulate I don't think it matters what day 🤞🏼 I think as long as you have at least a 10 day LP then that's all that matters 😊 the month I conceived I ovulated on cd16 I think! Going to test again tonight in the hope that it's got a bit darker!

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Skl2021 · 04/01/2022 18:45

@Bellesjp I hope it isn't the case as it doesn't happen very often 🤦 you just question every little thing after miscarriage! Yes I think I will when it decides to go a bit darker don't want to miss it! X

Lils25 · 05/01/2022 00:10

Hi everyone,
Hope it's OK to join you. I had a missed miscarriage at 9+5 in December and now that I've had a negative pregnancy test, we are ttc again. I have no idea if I ovulated but going by symptoms, it may have happened one day last week. Who knows! The uncertainty is driving me insane! If AF arrives, I'll try to see that as a good sign of my cycles returning to normal. Easier said than done when a BFP would be even better!

Sorry for all of your losses. Miscarriage is bloody awful.

Skl2021 · 05/01/2022 15:41

@Lils25 welcome! Sorry about your loss 💞 hope you get your bfp! Keep us updated! X

Skl2021 · 05/01/2022 17:34

@Bellesjp any change? X

Bellesjp · 05/01/2022 20:33

Hi @Lils25 welcome, of course it's ok to join :) sorry to hear about your miscarriage, hoping you get your bfp instead of AF! It's horrible when you don't know where you are in your cycle isn't it, it's good you have symptoms of ovulation to go by though 🤞🏼 will you be testing?

@Skl2021 got my peak this evening! Managed to sneak an opk at work earlier and was high so knew it must be coming :) here's something to make you laugh, probably TMI but I really didn't want to miss this month cos of DP's covid so we've masked up and had a quick dtd the last few days 😂 I basically got him to do his business and run in last min, so romantic TTC isn't it lol! Couldn't miss this month in case it was meant to be our month!

How are you doing?

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Skl2021 · 05/01/2022 20:42

@Bellesjp fantastic news! Off to the tww for you 🎉 mines still the same 🙈🙄 doing my head in now! Still no ewcm either so can't see it being any time soon! Haha don't blame you 🙊😉 can't be missing the month! How is he? X

Bellesjp · 05/01/2022 21:33

@Skl2021 I know, I've probably gone a bit mad but I just couldn't face missing a month with a massive wait until next months ov 🙈 he's actually fine just coldy, I've been keeping my distance apart from 30 seconds in the evening 😂 hopefully will stop manage to avoid covid!

Ah that's annoying, hopefully it won't be too much longer for you, I hate the waiting it's the worst part!

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Lils25 · 05/01/2022 22:07

@Skl2021 Haha that's impressive dedication masking up! Good luck in your 2ww!
Think I'll try to hold off testing until Monday but will probably crack before then 🤣 I have a feeling I've not ovulated so close to the miscarriage bleeding finishing (had a positive opk 2 days after I had a negative pregnancy test). Still been symptom spotting like a total nut case today though!

lionsmum · 06/01/2022 11:10

@Lils25 welcome, so sorry for your loss I hope you're doing ok & best of luck for you this cycle🤞🏼

@Bellesjp yay about the +OPK! & hilarious about DTD with covid around, it's all about the PPE lol. TWW time hoping for a BFP for you!

@Skl2021 seems like a bit more of a wait until we see our +OPK

Bellesjp · 06/01/2022 13:26

@Lils25 good luck for testing Monday, I'm like that always cracking and testing early, it's so hard not to isn't it, you just want to know! Made myself only use cheapies now until I get a line on them. Had a bit of a devastating situation using frer the other month as I kept getting faint lines but bloods showed I wasn't pregnant, I don't trust them now at all!

@lionsmum Thankyou hope the TWW goes quickly 🤞🏼 hoping for a temp rise tomorrow if I ovulated today, last month I think my ovulation was delayed as I didn't get temp rise until 3 days after my opk, very strange. Going to keep dtd until then if we can!

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Skl2021 · 06/01/2022 15:09

@Lils25 good luck for testing 🙌🤞 hope it's a lovely bfp you never know 😬🤞
@Bellesjp hows the masked DTD going 🙌😂
@lionsmum how's the ovulation testing going? I'm going insane it's not moving!!! Cd 14 today x

Bellesjp · 06/01/2022 18:58

@Skl2021 haha the masked dtd has gone ok, we've managed 5 days in a row so pretty good going 🤣 hopefully it's done the trick 🤞🏼

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Skl2021 · 06/01/2022 19:01

@Bellesjp oh wow well done u should be well covered now 😂 I'm trying every other day and I'm already sick of it 🤦 no signs of ovulation either 🙄🙈 xx

Bellesjp · 06/01/2022 19:10

@Skl2021 hopefully, although we did similar last month, (obv normal dtd not masked quickies 😂) and didn't work so we shall see!!

Oh that's annoying, did you say you usually ov a bit later? Hopefully it will show up soon, I didn't think mine was coming but it suddenly shot up to peak, still time yet xx

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Skl2021 · 06/01/2022 19:14

@Bellesjp the month I fell pregnant ovulation surprised me and I had sex twice as thats all I could fit in before it passed! It only takes one! Every other month I have DTD loads and nothing happened 😂🤦 last month was cd 17 so IV got three more days if it's the same. I don't even know if I will ovulate the way it's going! Sick of looking at them now 😩 might even be after cd 17. Lucky dip with my cycles 🙈 x

Bellesjp · 06/01/2022 21:30

@Skl2021 that's typical isn't it that it happens when you don't dtd as much!

Don't know what's going on with me but my opks are still showing peak tonight, this morning it was peak then lunchtime it was lighter for a high reading and tonight it's peak again 🤷🏼‍♀️ hope it doesn't mean my body's trying to ovulate but hasn't 🤔

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Skl2021 · 06/01/2022 21:34

@Bellesjp hahah you better mask up and get to it again 🙊😂 I have had months like that before. Don't know if I actually ovulated but once I had around 5 days of peak I was so sick of DTD by the end of it 😬 hope you get an answer soon and it's not up and down! 🤞 X

Bellesjp · 07/01/2022 17:56

Any update @Skl2021? Mines back to low now, dtd 6 days in a row so now calling it a day 🤣

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Skl2021 · 07/01/2022 18:52

@Bellesjp this month has really thrown me. I don't know if covid has affected it but I don't have the usual ovulation symptoms no ewcm but I'm sure today's test is best positive 🤔 well close if I'm not loosing my mind! But I have stomach ache and feel like my period is coming 🙄🤦 never had that before mid cycle. Heres my test anyway will take another soon that was this afternoon x

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Bellesjp · 07/01/2022 19:35

@Skl2021 looks like it's getting there 🤞🏼 maybe do another one later and see if it's darker, could well be covid affecting things, bloody covid 🙄

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Skl2021 · 07/01/2022 21:47

@Bellesjp yes I took another and it's the same so hopefully tomorrow it goes darker I'm so fed up already don't feel hopeful just want to write this month off 😩 x

Bellesjp · 08/01/2022 10:59

@Skl2021 so stressful isn't it, hope it's darker today for you!

Don't know what's going on with me but this morning I've got another high reading after it being low last night, I didn't get a temp rise so I thought I'd test again so looks like I might not have ovulated yet 🙄

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Lils25 · 08/01/2022 14:31

@Skl2021 That line looks like it's on its way!
Unfortunately I'm out this month 😔 What I was hoping was implantation spotting has turned into AF. Trying to focus on this as a good thing as it's the first cycle since my miscarriage and take it as a sign that my body is ready to try again.

If anyone has experience of clear blue digital ovulation tests, are they any good?

Bellesjp · 08/01/2022 16:34

Sorry to hear af came @Lils25 😞 you know everything is working ok now and onwards and upwards to a new month 🤞🏼✨

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