Anyone else 10dpo?

[Floralgirl]

Hello lovely ladies.
Is anyone else 10dpo and pulling their hair out?! When will everyone test
What's everyone symptoms

I'm 11! This is my 10th month and I now only test when I'm late so don't normally end up testing. After 10 months I'm also skeptical of symptom spotting as I've thought I had every symptom under the sun during TWWs but no BFP, kind of takes the pressure off actually not second guessing everything. How about you, will you test?

I don't know how many days I am PO but imagine it's around then. My period was 27th Nov to 2nd December, do you know how I work it out?

I'm also pulling my hair out here @Floralgirl. I've been really grumpy, had a few cramps etc but all feels a bit like period symptoms (sorry I don't know all the acronyms on here!)

@kmbegs I really hope this is your month! It's only my first month and I'm hating the 2WW and will feel a bit disappointed when my period comes as very likely to happen! I conceived first time with DD1 so putting unnecessary pressure on myself! Any tips would be really helpful!

Me! Think I’ll test Tuesday. Having PMS symptoms so doubtful but I remember feeling like this with my last pregnancy in the tww - literally feeling like AF was about to arrive and lo and behold had a bfp. So fingers crossed

@LittleMrsMama you can't tell based on last period, it's generally 14 days before your period (rather than a certain number of days after). I have longer cycles so for me it's normally about CD20. How long are your cycles and are they regular? Or when is your next period due if you know? If so should be able to roughly work it out.

Also conceived my first on month 1 so this has been really unexpected. I knew that was very lucky but I really didn't get just how lucky or how much heartache I dodged. It's been awful. Can't really say I have many tips other than maybe to track your cycle to make sure you're having sex during your fertile window as it's obviously quite short.

And thanks - I really hope it's my month too, been such a hard year.

Thanks @kmbegs. I'm due on my period on Christmas Day (lucky me!) so estimating I must be around 8 DPO. My cycles are around 28days.

I feel like what you've just written will me in 10 months. I can't imagine how hard it must be, especially when you go in with expectations it will happen quickly, and possibly, like me, not factor in lots of time to conceive when planning to grow the family because it happened so fast before. Of course I feel very very lucky but didn't realise how lucky I was at the time with my DD.

I really hope this is your month, please keep us updated this week. I'll have everything crossed for you!

Welcome @frenchie4002 ! Sounds promising for your BFP! Only 2 more sleeps until testing!

I caved and tested yesterday which is way way too early but had an extra pregnancy test. Just not sure when I should try again

Hi! @kmbegs
Oh bless you i rewlly.hope this is your month! That sounds like a very good idea! i know the feeling of constsntly trsting snd your right i bet it does take the pressure off! How many days until your period is due?
Im stil not sure if i will test, i have a hospital app on tuesdsy and i think they may want me too before hand but i would much rather wait to see if AF arrices on friday!

hi @LittleMrsMama fingers crossed you get a postive this month! any plans to test soon?

Hi @frenchie4002
Ah rhats exciting i hope it is the same as your kast pregnany then! i also think thesday! i would prefer to wait but i have a hospital app so im adsuming they will want me to test!

@LittleMrsMama I know 10 months isn't half as long as it takes some people (literally!) but statistically most people would have been pregnant by now so fingers crossed this won't be you. Due on Christmas Day is crappy I feel for you. I think by 12DPO you should get a positive if you're going to get one (on the early tests) so if you can hold out until Thursday you should know. Although I tested negative with my daughter at 12DPO and was pregnant so don't lose all hope if it's negative.

@Floralgirl I think I should be due Wednesday but most months since TTC I get spotting a few days beforehand so I know it's coming. Probably helps with not testing when I know it's over anyway. Nothing so far but last month nothing until the day before AF and my hopes were sky high (and it was my 35th birthday) but AF arrived and I had such a hard time so really trying to put it out my mind. I really ruined my own birthday so doing my best not to ruin Christmas this time.

Let's keep each other updated on how this month goes. I think whatever happens for me I'll be glad 2021 is behind me! Been referred to a fertility clinic now as well so I've got hope for next year regardless.

Oh my gosh I think I have a faint line!

Oh sorry what a flap! I'll send a photo now I decided to do one before I go to the hospital tomorrow and I can't believe it please tell me I'm not making it up I'm so shocked.

@kmbegs sorry to hear it's been a tough one, hope your feeling ok! Hopefully this is your month and if not 2022 will be a better year for you ❤️❤️❤️

Wow big congrats @Floralgirl!!!! So thrilled for you! That's the strongest BFP I've seen at 10/11 DPO - got to be a good sign your hormone levels are high! How're you feeling?

@kmbegs 10 months is painful, any time is painful really when you're having that disappointment! You have to be so strong! Is there support you can get after a certain time trying? I know you've been pregnant before so sorry if that's a stupid question!

Thanks re Thursday. I caved this morning and tried a test but I'm only estimated 9DPO so wasn't getting my hopes up. No sign of even a faint line though so imagine it might be a no for this month and will hope for the BFP in the new year

@LittleMrsMama thankyou so much! I have done two digitals and 3 cheapies to make sure haha. Still doesn't feel real tbh! As soon as I woke up yesterday I felt very odd so it spured me on to get one, so happy :)
How are you feeling fingers crossed for you xxxx

Love that! Great that you're extra certain with all the tests! Have you done one that tells you how many weeks you are? I'm so excited for you, a great Christmas present! Will this be your first or have you been pregnant before?

Another BFN this morning, i don't really know why I took a test as they've been negative and still fairly early. It's my first cycle and I think I've been overly optimistic. I feel like I have the same symptoms as when I was pregnant with DD, cramps, a bit of nausea/feeling off, very grumpy, but I guess those are signs of AF