can anyone help me? I am confused

[mad4mybaby]

Will be ttc in few months for number 2 and we really would like a girl. Have bought a book to help that along but havent read it yet but i am confused as i know there are certain days to have sex to influence a girl but does that mean for the rest of the month we HAVE to use condoms?

Are there any days when it is unlikely to get pregnant or unlikely to have a boy? I hate using condoms and dont want it to get too 'clinical' only have sex on certain days.

Before anyone starts to have a go, i have a DS alreay, would not be gutted if had another DS and it is not ruling our life

so if its not ruling your life and you wouldn't be upset with another buy, just have sex like little sex mad nimpho's and fingers crossed you'll get a girl!! haha!! we concieved both our 2 without trying (was on the pill both times) but we were lucky enough to have one of each!!......i have never had to ttc, but i think i'd not like to be deciding when we can and cant have sex to determine a babies sex.....

we hope for a 3rd in a few years and would prefer another boy, but wont be doing anything special to try and get one!!